Grandpa and grandson love is an unacceptable word, it refers to the love relationship between two people who are very different in age.
In such a relationship, there are often huge temptations of interests, but also hidden countless risks and crises.
Once the grandfather-level party dies, the grandchild-level party will face challenges and dilemmas in terms of inheritance, reputation, emotions, etc.
Such examples are not uncommon in the entertainment industry, and a grandfather and grandson love incident in Taiwan has aroused widespread attention and discussion in society.
The heroine of this incident is Lin Jingen, who married 66-year-old Taiwanese composer Li Kuncheng at the age of 16 and became his third wife.
The difference between the two is a full 50 years old, and they are known as "grandfather and grandson love" by the outside world.
In order to be with Li Kuncheng, Lin Jingen gave up his studies and family, broke off relations with his grandmother, and lived an isolated life.
She has no job, no friends, no social experience, and only Li Kuncheng to rely on.
She plays electric at home every day, occasionally accompanies Li Kuncheng out to record programs, she knows nothing about the outside world and does not care about her future.
Li Kuncheng is a famous composer in Taiwan, he has composed classic songs for many singers, and has a lot of wealth and copyright income.
He was very fond of Lin Jingen and bought her various luxury goods such as houses, cars, and brand-name bags.
He also doesn't mind the evaluation and discussion of them by the unexpected world, as long as he can live happily with Lin Jingen.
He once said: "I am not afraid of death, I am only afraid that she will go first", but unfortunately, fate did not go as he wished.
On May 31, 2022, Li Kuncheng died suddenly of a heart attack at the age of 69.
He left behind two sons and a daughter, as well as 27-year-old Lin Jingen.
According to the law, Lin Jingen, as the legal spouse, should inherit half of Li Kuncheng's inheritance.
Li Kuncheng's inheritance is estimated to be more than 50 million, including a number of properties and copyrights.
Such a huge fortune should be a guarantee for Lin Jingen to allow her to enjoy the rest of her life, however, things are not so simple.
Shortly after Li Kuncheng's death, there were rumors that his eldest son, Li Zhuoxuan, wanted to fight with Lin Jingen for inheritance.
Li Zhuoxuan is the son of Li Kuncheng and his second wife, he is also a musician and has a certain reputation in Taiwan.
He has always held hostility and dissatisfaction with Lin Jingen, believing that she is a gold-worshipping woman who only marries her father for money.
He once said on the show: "I don't know her (Lin Jingen), she is not my family, I will not have anything to do with her." ”。
He also said that he would not want his father's inheritance, but only a house to give him a place to live.
However, over time, Li Zhuoxuan's attitude changed.
He began to frequently expose Lin Jingen's various scandals and privacy in the media, trying to smear her image and make her lose public sympathy and support.
He said that Lin Jingen had no common sense and did not know that the house was mortgaged, and said that she was a flowery woman who had been handed over to her classmates by Li Kuncheng before her death.
He also said that Lin Jingen secretly sold the house and used all his wealth to live in the hotel, and later he couldn't even afford water, or the water he sent.
He also said that Lin Jingen had disappeared and may have died, and these remarks caused heated discussions and questions among netizens.
Some people think that Li Zhuoxuan is framing Lin Jingen and will stop at nothing to seize the inheritance.
Some people think that Lin Jingen is evading the pressure of the law and public opinion, and may have gone abroad or committed suicide.
Some people also think that Lin Jingen is a poor woman who was ruined by the relationship between grandfather and grandson and did not get real happiness and respect.
However, just before, Taiwan media revealed that Lin Jingen died, the hotel alley committed suicide by poisoning, tens of millions of inheritances disappeared, and the stepson was suspected.
As soon as the news came out, it immediately caused a sensation, and many people expressed their disbelief, because Lin Jingen was only 27 years old and was in his prime of life, how could he choose to end his life.
Some people also expressed doubts, because the Taiwan media did not provide conclusive evidence, but only judged based on some clues and speculations.
Some people expressed anger, believing that this was a conspiracy by Li Zhuoxuan, who killed Lin Jingen in order to obtain an inheritance.
Regardless of the truth, this grandfather and grandson love incident has sounded a wake-up call for us: love is not omnipotent, nor is it the only one.
In addition to love, there are many things worth pursuing and cherishing, such as academics, career, family, friendship, society and so on.
These are important components of our lives and the cornerstones that underpin our growth and happiness.
If we give up these things for love, then we may lose our value and meaning.
Lin Jingen is a tragic example, she sacrificed everything for love, but she did not get the reward and guarantee she deserved.
She has no education, no social experience, and no ability to protect herself.
She is completely dependent on Li Kuncheng alone, and when Li Kuncheng dies, she is like a headless fly, lost in this complex and cruel world.
She was bullied by her stepson, accused by the public, and prosecuted by the law, without any support and help, and could only endure endless pain and pressure alone.
She may feel that she has no way out, no hope, no future, so she chose to end her tragic fate with death.
It was a heart-wrenching ending and a sobering lesson.
We cannot deny the beauty and importance of love, but we also cannot blindly pursue love and neglect the development and growth of other aspects of ourselves.
We must have our own ideals and goals, and we must have the ability to protect ourselves and meet challenges.
Grandpa and grandson love is not a normal and healthy romantic relationship, it is often accompanied by various problems and crises.
If you have such examples around you, or if you yourself are one of those people, think twice and don't let yourself be the next Lin Jingen.
If you are already in such a relationship, please seek professional help and advice in time, and do not let yourself get too deep and have no time to turn back.
If you have already been freed from such a relationship, cherish your new life, stop repeating the same mistakes, and give yourself a fresh start.