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Li Ran, a beautiful host who graduated from Communication University of China, and the voice of the famous cartoon "Happy Star Cat" was written by her, she could have risen step by step with her career, but she was willing to marry an actor Guo Tao who has machismo and is 17 years older than herself.
Because of Guo Tao's words, she returned to the family to become a housewife, gave up her promising career, and went back and forth between housework and raising a baby every day.
A few years after marriage, she gave birth to a son and a daughter, and has lived a life of husband and godson ever since. Now that 17 years later, does she regret her choice?
Guo Tao's emotional path
Guo Tao has had two relationships, but both ended in failure.
The first girl he fell in love with was working in a bar.
His machismo doesn't see that his partner has regular physical contact with others, and he finds that the girl spends lavishly and breaks up after a while.
Soon, Guo Tao met a girl who was traveling with him.
She is also an actress, but she has a particularly "made" personality, likes to be vexatious when there is nothing to do, and likes to stick to him, sticking wherever she goes.
Once Guo Tao couldn't stand her behavior and vexatiousness, so he pushed the door and wanted to leave.
But his girlfriend grabbed him, and he accidentally pushed her away when he threw away his girlfriend's hand, and as a result, he was scolded for not being a good man.
Guo Tao didn't hold back and hit her, and his second relationship broke down.
Then his criteria for choosing a mate became the "perfect woman" who could "get down to the kitchen and get into the hall".
As the saying goes: "Love does not need to be a matchmaker, it is all in the heart".
Don't give up because of several failed relationships, believe in the providence of the underworld.
The same is true of Guo Tao and Li Ran's love.
Until 2003, Guo Tao was invited to a party organized by a friend, when he was 36 years old, where he met Li Ran, who was 17 years younger than him.
She was still in school, and under the light of the party lights, she walked in through the door like a fairy.
Everyone at the party looked at her intently, and she blushed with shyness.
Her coquettish appearance and elegant manners conquered Guo Tao in an instant.
His heart beat faster and looked at Li Ran, isn't this the ideal girl in his mind!
Li Ran suddenly turned his head, the two looked at each other for a second, she didn't watch any dramas at that time, so she didn't know Guo Tao, and the first time she saw Guo Tao, she felt that this person was unreliable!
Guo Tao saw that Li Ran would help his friends pour drinks at parties, and felt that she was very suitable for being in charge, so he secretly decided to marry her as a wife.
Towards the end of the party, he plucked up the courage to stop her and asked for her contact information, but was directly rejected.
But Guo Tao did not give up for this, and he let his friends give Li Ran's contact information to him by giving benefits to his friends.
Under the bribe of Guo Tao's meal, a friend gave him Li Ran's contact information, and Guo Tao, who got the contact information, was very happy, and he couldn't wait to call her.
After connecting the phone, he introduced himself to Li Ran, but she no longer remembered the party, and she hung up after a few hasty replies.
She didn't take it to heart because she didn't feel anything for him.
Guo Tao, who ate the closed-door soup, did not die, and he found a friend to help him ask Li Ran to come out to play.
After Li Ran came out, her friend left first, leaving her and Guo Tao to stay where she was, she originally wanted to go directly, but Guo Tao said that she should go first.
Li Ran awkwardly agreed, and he told his childhood story during their walk.
This made her have a hint of interest in the man in front of her.
Subsequently, Guo Tao often called Li Ran, and he slowly learned about her work, and sometimes went to pick her up at her place of work.
Day after day, she also discovered many advantages of Guo Tao, and soon Guo Tao expressed his heart to Li Ran.
But she did not refuse, saying that she wanted to think about it, and under Guo Tao's actions day after day, Li Ran accepted him.
Because the age difference between the two is too big, the romantic Guo Tao that Li Ran wanted at the beginning could not be given, but he gave Li Ran a full sense of security.
Perhaps in Li Ran's view, security is more important than romance.
Integrate into their respective lives
After they fell in love, Li Ran did not spend money indiscriminately, did not buy any luxury goods, but liked to go to the market to bargain, she said that saving money and having money are two different things.
After a year of love, Li Ran brought Guo Tao home, and her parents looked at Guo Tao, who was 17 years older than their daughter, in deep thought.
She was pulled aside by her mother to educate, saying that she was not suitable for many people of the same age, and she was very comfortable living with him, and the three views were also very compatible.
But helplessly, Li Ran's parents still agreed, and asked Guo Tao to write a letter of guarantee, if he cheats, the divorce must be clean, and he readily agreed to sign it.
Soon they were married.
When they went to apply for a marriage certificate, there was a long queue at the entrance of the Civil Affairs Bureau that day.
But Guo Tao left first after waiting in line for a while due to work needs, leaving Li Ran alone in the queue, where she waited until the Civil Affairs Bureau was about to leave work until Guo Tao returned, and the two went in to apply for a marriage certificate.
The life of the two after marriage is very harmonious, and their careers have reached a new high.
Soon Li Ran found out that she was pregnant, and Guo Tao told her not to work after returning home, telling her that her ideal life was to come home every day with hot food, and there was someone who could help her deal with family affairs.
After listening to it and thinking about it again, she decided to give up her job and return to the family to be a good wife and mother.
Guo Tao often quarreled with his father, which made Li Ran feel very uncomfortable.
Because Guo Tao's parents divorced very early, it was he and his sister who depended on each other in the first place.
Li Ran said to him, "Everything has a reason, you have to understand your parents."
Guo Tao's father also often called Li Ran to ask about his son, and she could feel her parents' love for him.
She took on the role of a "peacemaker", and slowly the two of them reconciled, and he also took over his father to take care of him.
Soon a company wants to sign Li Ran and let her become a singer!
But Guo Tao disagreed, he thought, if they both go out to fight for their careers, then who will take care of their father and this family?
He also told Li Ran that he married her because she would take care of people and was very sensible.
Hearing this, Li Ran was not happy: "Why can't I have my own career?" Is it only possible to do the work of taking care of people? ”
And Guo Tao also did not understand Li Ran's thoughts, it is also very hard to break outside, and it is not better to work hard for themselves, so that they can live a good life?
Because of this incident, there was a big disagreement between the two of them, and in the end, there was no result that satisfied both parties.
But the problem had to be solved, and after a stalemate for a while, they discussed each taking a step back.
In the end, Guo Tao handed over his salary card to his wife, and Li Ran was willing to continue to be a housewife.
He usually has to film, and the matter of taking care of his wife is handed over to his sister, and he asked her sister to accompany Li Ran to the hospital to check his health.
In 2007, Li Ran gave birth to a son, and at this time she didn't even have time to visit Guo Tao in the crew.
In 2011, she became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter, and during that time, Guo Tao has been studying roles in the crew.
Soon Guo Tao became popular with the drama "Parental Love".
Because of the reason of filming every day, he lacks care for this family, he doesn't know anything about the things at home, even his son is six or seven years old, these are all carried by Li Ran alone!
The wife behind the hardships behind the success
In order for Guo Tao not to worry about family affairs, Li Ran told him that his home was fine every time.
That year, Guo Tao was basically not at home, and he did not know about the affairs at home.
I didn't even know that my father was hospitalized, but Li Ran was taking care of her alone, and she had to take care of both the children and the two old people.
For their sons and daughters, they have not changed a piece of paper and cloth for them, and they have not even washed milk powder!
He really felt that raising children was hard when he participated in "Where Is Dad Going", he took his son alone, and suddenly experienced his wife's dedication to this family.
It is not without complaints for a person to carry a home, and every time in the dead of night, Li Ran will think, is this really worth it?
Guo Tao's book "The Power of Fathers", in which he wrote his own experience.
Very calmly wrote about his ex-girlfriend, and wrote about his "virtuous help" Li Ran for his own efforts.
After the book was released, it did not have a good effect, but no one abused and fought for Li Ran.
Netizens said: "If they are all like you, let their wives take care of their children and the elderly alone, how hard it would be."
This caused Guo Tao's personality to have a crisis, and his career fell to the bottom, and he directly came forward to publicly apologize for some disrespect for women in the book.
Netizens felt worthless and sad for Li Ran, but Li Ran said that his current life is very good.
In fact, she has too much to do, usually looks very good, but behind the scenes, I don't know how hard it is.
But Guo Tao gives everyone the impression of machismo, in fact, he is still a very considerate wife at home.
Before he often did not understand his wife outside, after personal experience, he felt that his wife was so difficult, he would take the initiative to admit his mistakes to his wife, and he was also trying to make up for the family.
Now he has also faded from people's careers and spent more time taking care of the family with his wife.
Li Ran gave up his career and returned to his family, taking care of two children and two elderly people alone, is there really no complaint?
In fact, husband and wife are tolerant, understanding, and considerate of each other.
epilogue
Do not forget the original intention to work together to protect a family, Guo Tao and Li Ran have walked hand in hand for 17 years, and there has not been a single scandal in the entertainment industry.
When filming any major scene, I will ask my wife's opinion.
It gives his wife a sense of security, which is why they can go all the way.
Sincere dedication also pays off, and plain and sincere can be fine and long-lasting.