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Text | cold purple leaves
Editor|Cold Purple Leaf
After Hu Ge officially announced that he was a father, after officially announcing his marriage, many netizens expressed their shock, and some people made congratulatory remarks. But there are still some people who feel sorry for Xue Jianing.
Xue Jianing used to be an actor and a singer. He has appeared in many TV series. Even during the rising period of his career, he chose to be with Hu Ge. This is something that many people envy.
However, the loving couple did not make it to the end. Now that Hu Ge has a daughter, Xue Jianing has converted to Buddhism.
What exactly happened so that the two did not come together?
«——[·Two people meet.]——»
In 2001, Xue Jianing filmed the TV series "Pink Girl", Xue Jianing should have been able to choose a heroine who surprised everyone with her appearance and conditions, but the unexpected thing was that Xue Jianing chose to play a big grinning role - Ha Mei.
In order to be able to win the role of Ha Mei, Xue Jianing also made a lot of preparations. In the end, Xue Jianing herself is also highly consistent with the role. In the end, Xue Jianing finally got the role.
After the program was broadcast, the response was particularly good, and many people liked this sister very much. At the same time, Xue Jianing also became popular because of this song role. Xue Jianing also has a high popularity.
Two years later, Xue Jianing starred in "Unparalleled in the World" with Hu Ge, and during the filming process on weekdays, the two also had a lot of exchanges and communication. Slowly, Hu Ge felt that he liked the lively and cheerful Xue Jianing.
But at that time, Xue Jianing was four years old, and at that time, Xue Jianing was already very famous. And Hu Ge was just a trick at that time. The disparity in status made Hu Ge not dare to open the exit and did not dare to pursue Xue Jianing. It was as if there was a thin layer of paper between the two. Neither of them dared to step towards the other.
It wasn't until 2005 that the thin paper was finally broken. After the broadcast of "The Legend of Sword and Fairy" starring Hu Ge, it also began to become famous, giving him the courage to express his love to Xue Jianing.
The two also came together quickly, considering the identity of public figures on both sides, the two did not choose to open their relationship, but silently accompanied each other.
«——[·Sudden accident, romance public.] ——»
I thought that the two would live so plainly until they finally got married and had children. There's a good saying: "Tomorrow and the unexpected you never know which one will come first." ”
On 29 August 2006. After Hu Ge finished his day's work, he got into the driver's car and planned to go back to the hotel to rest. No one expected that Hu Ge would have a car accident on the way back to the hotel. The car Hu Ge was riding in hit the big truck. Hu Ge's assistant died on the spot, and Hu Ge was also very seriously injured and unconscious in the hospital.
After Xue Jianing learned the news at that time, she also immediately put down all the work she was doing and immediately rushed to the hospital to see Hu Ge.
After six hours of first aid, Hu Ge was finally rescued from the ghost gate. But at this time, Hu Ge had more than 100 stitches all over his body. There are also scars on the face.
Later, the cause of the accident was also identified, because the driver's fatigue driving caused the accident. But Hu Ge did not embarrass the driver, but chose to forgive the driver.
After that, although Hu Ge saved his life, he has been very sad and sad, not only because the scars on his face may affect his future, but more importantly, the affairs of his assistant have not been able to let Hu Ge go. Hu Ge even blamed his assistant's death on his own head.
Why would Hu Ge blame the death of the assistant on himself, it turned out that at that time, Hu Ge planned to sit in the co-pilot before sitting in the car, Hu Ge was very tired, Zhang Mian felt that Hu Ge could lie down in the back seat and be able to rest for a while, so Zhang Mian put forward his request to sit in the co-pilot.
After the car accident, the most damaged place of the vehicle was the co-pilot, and the assistant Zhang Mian also died on the spot. It is precisely for this reason that Hu Ge has always been very guilty and has not been able to let go for a long time.
Xue Jianing stayed by Hu Ge's side all day, taking care of him, making him happy, hoping that he could come out of guilt and self-blame. At the same time, Hu Ge's good friend Yuan Hong also came to the hospital to take care of and visit Hu Ge.
After Hu Ge woke up, Xue Jianing took care of Hu Ge wholeheartedly, and a few days before he woke up, Hu Ge didn't even have a way to eat, it was Xue Jianing who used a straw to deliver food to Hu Ge's mouth little by little. It is also to wet the sanitary gauze to wipe Hu Ge's lips and let him stay hydrated.
Under the care of Xue Jianing and Yuan Hong, Hu Ge's body recovered quickly and gradually became cheerful. Came out of the haze.
When Xue Jianing was on fire, he pushed off his job to take care of Hu Ge, this care is to take care of half a year, Hu Ge also saw all of Xue Jianing's good in his eyes and remembered it in his heart.
But it's a pity that the two people didn't get to the end in the end.
«——[·Breakup·] ——»
In 2009, a shocking news came out, Hu Ge broke up with Xue Jianing, and for a while, they broke up after healing, and Hu Ge was also put on the cusp.
Many people seem that Xue Jianing gave up half a good time when he was at his most popular in order to take care of the injured Hu Ge, and Hu Ge should cherish it even more.
Instead, the two broke up. In some interview-type programs, the host did not give up this question, and still asked sharp questions.
But Hu Ge also said a lot about the reasons for breaking up. First of all, it must be to gather less and leave more, and you can't give each other the company you want, so you choose to break up.
When the two were still together, someone broke the news that Hu Ge's mother was not optimistic about the two and did not support the two together, hoping that the two could break up.
Hu Ge said that he broke up because his mother did not agree, and the age gap between the two was too big. When the host asked: "It's that you don't like her so much, otherwise how would you separate." ”
Faced with this question, Hu Ge also answered seriously: "I am also for her sake, if I marry her home, I can't give her the life she wants, I can't make her happy, it's better to let go and choose to fulfill her." ”
But whenever he said that Xue Jianing Hu Ge's eyes would still have a few tears, after the car accident, Hu Ge did not know whether he could give Xue Jianing, who was four years older than him, the life he wanted, and the two chose to break up under pressure from the outside world.
After the breakup, Hu Ge also publicly stated that he was ashamed of his treatment of Xue Jianing. She sacrificed so much for herself at that time, and Hu Ge saw it in her eyes. But he had no way to give Xue Jianing the life he wanted, and in desperation, he could only choose to let go.
«——[·After the breakup.]——»
After the two broke up, Hu Ge's acting path was more and more spacious and smoother. Even in 2015, Hu Ge won many awards with three TV series "The Pretender", "Langya List" and "Good Time", it can be said that no actor's momentum in this year can overshadow Hu Ge.
But on Xue Jianing's side, he was not so lucky, although Xue Jianing also shot many works after this, but the response in the end was very general, and it was so tepid.
Someone asked her what not to rub Hu Ge's heat. Xue Jianing's answer was still very atmospheric, saying that he respected Hu Ge very much, and he had also read his works, and he did not want to participate in this topic now.
But after that, Xue Jianing has always been single, and even devoted herself to her own shooting and work. But after a long time, Xue Jianing also felt tired. In 2015, Xue Jianing felt that it was time for her to stop and empty herself.
So she started traveling, hoping to find her true self. After that, Xue Jianing would go to Tibet once a year, because she felt that only by staying here could she make herself feel a little peaceful.
Even if she is not in Tibet in the future, Xue Jianing will still get up early, read books, and meditate. Water the plants. When she did these things, it was as if everything in the world had calmed down.
On December 7, 2017, Xue Jianing disclosed the news of her conversion to Buddhism, and also shared her practice process with netizens.
After Xue Jianing converted to Buddhism, he would still shoot himself. In May 2021, Xue Jianing starred as the princess of the Jin Kingdom in "The Orphan of Zhao".
But on the group photo after the performance, people were surprised to find that Hu Ge was also in the group photo. This group photo also triggered many people's speculation, thinking that the two are likely to match again. But the two quickly clarified that the two were only friends and did not get back together.
«——[Early Experience·] ——»
Xue Jianing was born in Harbin, Heilongjiang in August 1978, and Xue Jianing can be said to have become famous at a young age. She had this rich life experience when she was a child. He soon became a well-known local child star.
When Xue Jianing was in her second year of high school, she was admitted to the acting department of Shanghai Theater Academy. At that time, Zhang Yi was fascinated by Xue Jiayi. I even want to skip the level to apply for art college.
But when Zhang Yi saw Xue Jianing, he felt that he was not worthy of her.
When Xue Jianing was a freshman, he had already received many advertisements, and even starred in the movie "I Have a Dad". When her freshman year ended, Xue Jianing already had a deposit of 500,000 yuan.
In the end, the two people did not come together, but went down as friends, presumably it was also a respect and explanation for each other, and here we also hope that everyone can cherish the people around them. Feelings need to be run-in. I hope everyone can be able to be unfazed.