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Shortly after his divorce, Feng Xiaogang formed a new family with actress Xu Fan, and he and Zhang Di's daughter Feng Siyu lived with their mother.
Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan
For her father to live a sweet life with others in a short period of time, Feng Siyu is very unhappy in her heart, in her heart, she has always believed that Xu Fan's appearance caused her parents' relationship to break down, and she has never given a good face to this stepmother for many years.
Until later, Xu Fan melted the iceberg between the two with his sincerity and actions, and Feng Siyu slowly accepted this stepmother.
And she also knew in her heart that according to her father's virtue, this stepmother's experience would not be much better than her own mother.
As she expected, the hardships that Xu Fan has experienced over the years are even more than the tragedies that happened to Zhang Di back then, and even Feng Siyu, who was on the opposite side of her at the beginning, couldn't help but feel sympathy for her.
So, what exactly happened that year that led to Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di's divorce? What happened to Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang after they got married?
Feng Xiaogang's first marriage
In 1984, 26-year-old Feng Xiaogang was working as an artist in the Beijing Television Center, and by chance, he met Zhang Di, who was a nurse.
Zhang Di looked white and beautiful, spoke elegantly, and behaved dignified, which immediately attracted Feng Xiaogang's attention.
And Zhang Di's family environment is superior, her own conditions are also very outstanding, and there are countless suitors, and Feng Xiaogang is a fledgling at this time and comes from an average background, so Zhang Di did not pay attention to his love at first.
However, Feng Xiaogang is a very good person, he not only speaks funny and humorous, but also does things thoughtfully and meticulously, and soon Zhang Di changed his opinion about him.
In addition, Feng Xiaogang is a very talented person, and Zhang Di also appreciates this very much, so it didn't take long for Feng Xiaogang to hug the beauty and marry Zhang Di.
When they first got married, the two were still you and my nong, envious of others, they lived in a house of only forty square meters, and their lives were very tight, but this did not affect the relationship between the husband and wife at all.
Soon after marriage, Feng Xiaogang's mother was paralyzed in bed, and she needed someone to accompany her to take care of her every day, and her medical expenses were a big expense.
This also made the family's life fall into a greater dilemma, in desperation, Feng Xiaogang had to go out to find another job with higher pay, and the burden of the family fell on Zhang Di alone.
Zhang Di not only has to do a good job in the hospital, but also takes care of her mother-in-law's life.
She wakes up every day before dawn to do all kinds of housework, and is busy until late at night to have time to do her own things.
Such a busy day after day, she insisted on it for sixteen years, and the mother-in-law who was sick in bed looked at such a filial daughter-in-law, and she had long regarded her as her own daughter in her heart.
And these are not the most difficult problems faced by the couple, and the arrival of their daughter is another major test given to them by God.
In the years of running away, Feng Xiaogang's career has improved a lot, and at this moment, Zhang Di's stomach also has good news.
During his wife's pregnancy, Feng Xiaogang has been busy in the crew, rarely going home to take care of her, Zhang Di took care of herself while taking care of her mother-in-law on the hospital bed, and spent those years with difficulty.
I thought that after the birth of my daughter, everything would slowly get better, but I didn't expect that on the day of childbirth, the daughter she gave birth to in pain made her cry in distress.
When Feng Xiaogang happily rushed to the hospital, he was also startled by the scene in front of him: I saw the baby in Zhang Di's arms, suffering from congenital cleft lip and palate, and the defect of the lip made everyone a little overwhelmed.
Wang Shuo and Feng Xiaogang
At that time, the mainland implemented a policy of fewer children and better births, requiring a couple to have only one child, so if such a problematic baby appeared, doctors would explain to the family that they could choose to give up and give birth to a healthy child.
Feng Xiaogang looked at this crying daughter, shook his head firmly and refused the doctor's proposal, no matter how hard it was, he would definitely let his daughter have her own life.
With good expectations for their daughter, the family named her Feng Siyu, which means that she can talk like a normal child, and in order to operate on her daughter, Feng Xiaogang is working harder to make money than before.
At that time, he was known as "Feng Pants", as long as Wang Shuo had something, he would come forward to solve it at the first time, and his purpose in doing so was to hope that there would be more filming and save enough money to treat his daughter as soon as possible.
Feng Xiaogang and daughter
When Feng Siyu was one year old, the couple took their child to a professional hospital in Beijing for surgery, and in order to relieve their daughter's nervousness, Feng Xiaogang ran to a nearby mall to buy more than a dozen toys to distract her.
Although Feng Xiaogang still had several jobs on hand during the operation, and the phone kept ringing, where could he take care of these at this time, he and Zhang Di did not dare to slack off at the door of the operating room, praying in their hearts that their daughter could successfully complete the operation.
Perhaps their sincerity touched the heavens, and after treatment, Feng Siyu's lips were repaired and she was finally able to speak normally, which made the couple cry with joy and stay by their daughter's side day and night until she fully recovered and was discharged from the hospital.
That time was perhaps the sweetest time for the family of three, and Feng Siyu also enjoyed the love of her parents.
"The Great Saber"
After being discharged from the hospital, Feng Xiaogang changed his daughter's name to Feng Siyu, hoping that she could have plump wings like a bird and fly higher into the sky.
The fate of Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan
Now that her daughter has begun to grow up healthily and her husband's career has risen rapidly, Zhang Di thought that she had finally worked hard and could begin to enjoy the rest of her life, but she didn't expect that what was waiting for was a divorce certificate.
In 1991, Xia Gang, the director of the movie "The Great Sajia", invited Feng Xiaogang to watch the sample, and Feng Xiaogang said after watching it: "The play is good, but the heroine is a little unsatisfactory." ”
Hearing this, Ge You on the side reminded: "People are behind you." ”
Feng Xiaogang hurriedly turned around and saw the heroine Xu Fan standing there steadily, listening to his evaluation clearly.
Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen
Although the first meeting between the two was very embarrassing, it did not affect the emotional development of the two later.
The marriage life of Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di who has been together less and separated more for many years has slowly created a gap between them, and the young and beautiful Xu Fan suddenly touched Feng Xiaogang's heart.
Because the first meeting between the two was not pleasant, Xu Fan's senses for Feng Xiaogang were not good at first, and she was in love with Xiaosheng Wang Zhiwen at that time, and she did not expect that the entanglement between the two would be so deep.
It was not until soon after, when Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen broke up, and the intersection between her and Feng Xiaogang became more and more, that she was slowly impressed by Feng Xiaogang's charm.
On many important occasions after that, Feng Xiaogang took Xu Fan to attend together, seemingly announcing the relationship between the two without words, and Zhang Di, who took care of her daughter at home, watched her husband go in and out of pairs with others, crying countless times in the middle of the night.
Xu Fan
But she knew that her husband's heart had been given to another woman, and they would never return to the pure sweet feeling they had before.
In 1999, Zhang Di nodded and agreed to end this seemingly divorced marriage, and her daughter Feng Siyu lived with her.
A few months later, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan held a wedding and became an official couple.
Feng Siyu, who had begun to understand, watched her father abandon her mother and start a family with another woman, she felt heartache for her mother Zhang Di, and at the same time felt great hatred for this superior stepmother.
Exchange sincerity for understanding
After marrying Feng Xiaogang, Xu Fan decided to be a qualified mother.
Every weekend or holiday, Feng Xiaogang would bring Feng Siyu to his home for a reunion, and Xu Fan not only did not express disgust at this, but also welcomed her very warmly.
Feng Siyu
And Feng Siyu is naturally not angry with this woman who snatched her father, although Xu Fan is busy making food for her and buying her favorite clothes and bags, but Feng Siyu still speaks coldly to Xu Fan and does not give a good face at all.
In order to deceive Xu Fan, she even took advantage of Xu Fan's inattention to pour an excessive amount of salt into her water cup, and Xu Fan, who did not know the truth, drank a sip and almost vomited, and suddenly understood that it was Feng Siyu's prank.
But Xu Fan did not have a seizure, she quietly drank all the water in the cup, and even Feng Siyu felt incredible.
In the days that followed, Feng Siyu did not make Xu Fan difficult, Xu Fan knew that Feng Siyu had a grudge in her heart, she silently cleaned up the mess every time, and she also responded to Feng Siyu's requests.
She believes that people's hearts are made of flesh, and as long as they treat each other sincerely, they will one day get a response from the other party.
And Feng Siyu saw that his willfulness not only did not make his stepmother angry, but the other party pampered himself as always, and slowly changed his initial opinion of Xu Fan.
A year later, Xu Fan was pregnant with Feng Xiaogang's child, and when Feng Siyu learned about it, she was very depressed, she was afraid that after having younger siblings, she would no longer get her father's love.
Although Feng Xiaogang always assured her that even if there were new members in the family, she would still be her father's favorite, the insecurity caused by her parents' divorce still made her cry sadly.
Seeing this situation, Xu Fan's heart was also very complicated, and in the end, she decided not to have the child in her belly, and then think about the next thing when Feng Siyu really accepted her.
Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang and Feng Siyu attended the event
Although both husband and wife were very distressed, for the sake of the growth of their eldest daughter, Xu Fan still came to the hospital for an abortion.
Years later, she wondered if she would regret her decision, because after beating the child, she never got pregnant again.
And when Feng Siyu learned that her stepmother gave up her own flesh and blood for her, she realized that Xu Fan really cared about herself and cared about her feelings, and she couldn't help but feel guilty.
After that, she really accepted Xu Fan and lived peacefully with this stepmother like a family, and although Xu Fan solved this trouble, he didn't have time to catch his breath, and the bigger trouble had already found the house.
A marriage that even stepdaughters sympathize with
As one of the well-known directors in China, Feng Xiaogang has a flourishing career, but also has a continuous temptation.
Shen Xing
And as a man who made a new girlfriend during his marriage with his ex-wife, Feng Xiaogang's pursuit of beauty will naturally not stop because of Xu Fan.
Over the years, peachy news about Feng Xiaogang has been on the hot search from time to time, and in 2009, he spent eight hours with host Shen Xing, which suddenly pushed him to the cusp.
After the incident was exposed, Feng Xiaogang even said that he wanted to divorce Xu Fan, and Xu Fan, who knew that her husband was cheating, also chose to endure like Zhang Di, and she talked about her attitude to this matter in the media: "We are men and do not suffer losses." ”
As soon as these words came out, the public was in an uproar, and the sadness and helplessness expressed in them also made many people understand that the marriage of Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan was just a tragedy.
And when he learned that his stepmother continued his mother's unfortunate experience, Feng Siyu was deeply disappointed in his father and deeply sympathized with Xu Fan's helplessness.
After the "night stay", Feng Xiaogang did not retreat, he continued to throw flowers and grass, so that Xu Fan tasted the bitterness of marriage.
I don't know if when Xu Fan squeezed Zhang Di away, he thought that he would also have a day to stay alone in an empty room.
And the road is chosen by himself, marriage is like drinking water and warmth and self-knowledge, Xu Fan must also choose to stick to Feng Xiaogang after weighing the pros and cons, and the sympathy or ridicule of outsiders is only one-sided.
I hope that the girls can keep their eyes open when looking for their other half, so as to avoid knowing the truth after getting on the boat and regretting it.