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About Oriental Selection
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Yu Minhong and Dong Yuhui
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Two people who have achieved each other
They clarified a few things online
I haven't watched Dong Yuhui's chicken soup for the soul for a while, and yesterday I turned it over, it was Yu Minhong who clarified some things with him in the live broadcast room.
It was probably during this time that someone shouted Yu Haihong, saying that he was too bad for Dong Yuhui, and was using Dong, and then instigated Dong Ziji to set up a portal to do it, and even suggested that New Oriental be given to Dong Yuhui.
To be honest, when there is no traffic, everyone looks forward to traffic, today, traffic comes, joy at the same time will be eaten by traffic, which no one can escape.
Because no matter who it is, it cannot be perfect, and even if it is perfect, it is impossible to satisfy the appetite of more than a billion people at the same time.
Because I am also a small boss who has been in business for more than ten years, I can empathize with the words they say in the live broadcast room, so today I will talk about this from 3 aspects.
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As a boss
I've seen several of Yu Minhong's entrepreneurial biographies, as well as the Chinese partners, and I didn't know that this movie was based on their situation when I watched it before, until I finished reading the book.
And then the brain circuitry thinks about the scene.
I remember very clearly that Yu Minhong started his business because there was a group of people who wanted to go abroad, because English could not pass, so he did this by the trend.
There is no place, rent the small courtyard of local people in the suburbs, in order to let people understand, publicize in various public places, distribute leaflets and be reported by peers, and even peers in order to pry him, find social people to beat his teacher, he went home and robbed people halfway.
These things were common in the early days of reform and opening up.
At that time, people who wanted to be bosses were really like surfing on the sea, on the one hand, the opportunities in the market, on the other hand, various policies could not keep up.
It can be said that they came through the hard work.
With more money and expanding business, Yu Minhong thought of establishing a formal institution, and he did not hesitate to make drastic changes for long-term development.
All relatives were laid off, along with their mothers.
During that time, he said that he suffered from enemies, his relatives did not understand and then scolded him for being unkind, indeed, at the beginning of his business, they helped him fight the world, but if the company wants to continue to grow, the follow-up must be scientifically managed.
He invited his former classmates to return to China to work together, not to think about how much money he could make, but to think that when they came back, could they earn as much money as him, and could they live better than abroad?
After all, some are already stable abroad, and if they come back, they will break the way back and start from scratch.
They love and kill each other together, inspire each other when they are good, regardless of you and me, and can fight when they make trouble, just for how the company can develop better.
I looked at Yu Minhong's story in the book, maybe the wind is light now, but it must have been turbulent at that time.
It's like a deduction among Chinese partners.
So in the live broadcast room, Yu Minhong said his position, if Dong Yuhui wants to go out and start his own business one day, he is very supportive, this is sincerity from the heart, there is no necessity.
He also never treated these employees as pure money-making machines, he regarded them as children, paid attention to their lives, emotions outside of work, and gave them great respect.
I understand him very well with this attitude.
Now that the live broadcast is on fire, there are naturally jealous people, some people fall into the well, and some people create all kinds of unwarranted incidents, the purpose is to disrupt their relationship and not see them well.
When I started my business, I also encountered such a situation, most of the bosses should be like us, thinking of ways to do good for employees within the scope of ability, regardless of whether the business makes money or not, the benefits that should be there will not fall, and let them rest when they should rest.
Sometimes the boss can't enjoy this treatment, those nominally available time off, always thinking about business, sometimes going out to have fun, good food, all want to bring some back to the employees.
Therefore, some people judge Yu Minhong's various things to Dong Yuhui based on one-sided conjectures on the Internet, which is completely a superficial and irresponsible behavior from the moral high ground.
The onlooker is always standing outside the gate of the scenic area and looking inside, you can't enjoy the real scenery inside.
New Oriental has developed to the present, I believe that Yu Minhong will only become more and more grateful, he can completely stop working, but he has a responsibility, a responsibility to the society, a responsibility to so many employees.
This is incomprehensible to someone who has not been a boss, no matter how he allocates the equity, no matter what decision he makes, I believe that he must be the one who thinks most about others.
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As an employee
Dong Yuhui is lucky, this luck is not only that he persisted for so long last year, but also met Yu Minhong and became a member of New Oriental.
All the requirements and assessments of the boss in the past have made him shine today.
A single bloom is not spring, and a hundred flowers bloom in the spring garden. Between them, it must be mutual achievements.
Of course, the employees are excellent, and everyone can see that they are the people who represent the company closest to the customer.
Fans think about Dong Yuhui and fight for his rights and interests can also be understood, which just shows everyone's kindness.
But if good is too much, it becomes evil.
Don't put yourself in your shoes and ask others to do something, or imagine other people's lives.
Dong Yuhui's contribution to New Oriental must be paid off more than you, because they have to review every day.
I think the most appreciative point about Dong Yuhui is that he sees this matter very clearly and will not shake his original intention because of the instigation of netizens.
Despite the malicious misinterpretation on the Internet, there are too many people who listen to the wind and rain, but he knows his position and understands the direction of his life, which is the two most important conditions for a person's pattern.
He is the head of New Oriental, his original intention is not just to earn money, although he was once very short of money and was once embarrassed, but the meaning of life is more than money.
He can say such a pattern in the live broadcast room, for a young man who is only in his 30s, it is really not easy, we should use his words to bring ourselves reflection, he cherishes and appreciates his past, present and future, which is a person's greatest blessing.
This has also happened to my employees, when employees are doing a good job, the outside world will pay attention to their treatment, regardless of the same industry, and the implication is that there are better places elsewhere.
Of course, most of them did not waver, and there were a very small number of those who could not withstand the temptation, such as those years of insurance in order to pull people, exhausted means, pit many employees, advocating that there is no need to clock in, do not have to work any day, how much money can be taken, etc., and finally these employees not only did not earn money, but also took their own money to do all the tasks, and finally went into debt.
A person's maturity is not what he usually does, but what he does in the highlights and troughs, Dong Yuhui's clarification can only do this, if you blindly explain, it will be entangled, and it is in the arms of those people.
His treatment I believe Yu Minhong will not be treated badly, not public because of understanding human nature, more other people's hearts are unbalanced, less netizens will hold grievances, remain mysterious, is respect for everyone.
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About the comments
It can be seen that Yu Minhong is very restrained when saying these things, so Dong Yuhui later explained.
But there was one that I didn't expect.
Someone cursed Yu Minhong, saying that you are not afraid of one report for another?
I don't know how this person has distorted cognition and superficial brain, not to mention that Yu Minhong is not a ruthless and unrighteous person who has done to Dong Yuhui today, and what he has done since his business.
Trees are a big move.
Now that the Oriental Selection is on fire, most of them are well-intentioned voices, all hoping that Dong Yuhui will be good, but there are also a few who use this as a window for them to vent their anger.
How are you doing?
The biggest tragedy of modern people is to blindly flaunt themselves, do nothing, and strongly demand what others want, why?
And I found that most of those negative energies are taken out of context, chickens and ducks, they don't understand what people are doing, what they are saying, and they start to spit on the stars.
For so long, Yu Minhong has not said anything, why did he stand up and talk about it today, because if he didn't say it, those people didn't give up, and they stood on the stage like clowns to show off their might.
Being a boss can be said to have long been immune to all good and bad comments, just like I do online now, reading more and more, and there are a lot of messy voices.
I also now finally understand those who can't stand the online violence, because they don't have the ability to shape themselves for a long time, so they can't catch the sound of the onslaught.
But I, calm and calm, I treat everything as usual. Because there are always people in this world who are not people, they have no morality as people, what do you compete with them? They don't understand anything, they are self-righteous.
I only cherish those good sounds, I believe that the same frequency resonance of the magnetic field, the good will make you better and better.
It is precisely because you see everything in this world that you feel that the world is worth it, and you will be more grateful for what a group of people who are so positive and hard working are doing for this society.
Some people also ask, how to shape such a strong heart? There are no shortcuts, you must use time and experience to temper, when you are in awe and gratitude for everything that happens at the moment, you naturally begin to have immunity.
Or why do people say that it is not easy to be a boss, not everyone can be successful, today you see Yu Minhong has done so much, even if he does not want a penny, hand over the company to you, you may not be able to operate it like this.
Saying so much, all around a good word, Yu Minhong's heart is kind, he tries everything to do for the good of employees; Dong Yuhui's original intention was kind, and he stood on the cusp of the storm and did not lose himself.
Most netizens are kind, because everyone has a hard time, seeing New Oriental is like seeing hope, our efforts will be seen one day, and we will get the happiness we want one day.
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