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Times are developing, and people's minds are changing. Intimate relationships are not as rigid as traditional beliefs, and couples are increasingly accepting to sleep in separate rooms.
Middle-aged women choose to sleep in separate rooms, to a certain extent, reflecting people's thinking about the way their lovers get along, and paying more and more attention to personal needs.
When people reach middle age, the reason why women choose to sleep in separate rooms must be because these three practical reasons poke them.
01: Sleep habits are different, separate and each is fine
A person's living habits are not so easy to change, in the past, husband and wife tolerated each other, but some small habits do not need to make the partner wronged themselves.
When conditions permit, sleeping in separate rooms is better for each other, and the two people will not have friction because of such small things, which can promote the relationship between husband and wife.
Sleep is a big thing, if you don't sleep well at night, you will lose energy during the day, and people will be irritable.
A person who sleeps lightly, hearing a little movement, will turn over and over at night and have difficulty falling asleep. If you sleep with a snoring person, you will definitely have poor sleep quality.
Since the two have their own lifestyles, sleeping in separate rooms is also a sign of respect for each other, leaving space for each other, and it is better to sleep peacefully than to share a bed.
When people reach middle age, whether they sleep in separate rooms or share a bed, as long as they are not going to be the same, they are determined according to their own conditions and other factors, which is the best choice.
There are no absolute pros and cons in everything, weighing the greatest benefits, and it is most appropriate to be satisfied with each other.
02: I want to have an independent space and find myself
Married life is like an emery cloth that smooths out the corners and grinds the two sides into matching shapes.
But in this way, many women have lost their identity, leaving only their wives and mothers, and they have no former appearance.
Every wife and mother was a little fairy before marriage, but for the sake of love, she hid the feather coat that could return to the Heavenly Palace.
After working hard for half a life, people reach middle age, children grow into adults, and women also want to find their lost selves.
Choosing to sleep in separate rooms is to give yourself a space to think independently.
One can enjoy the night quietly, and one can plan the dreams one wants to fulfill in his own space.
It's not that middle-aged people choose to divide rooms, or they don't love, but they understand that loving others also loves themselves.
Sometimes, having a separate space to enjoy a moment of solitude makes it easier for people to rejuvenate.
Everyone needs to talk to themselves, and love needs the right distance.
03: Not truly in love, unable to sleep in a hug
Some people marry because they love each other, and some people get married because of the pressure of reality, the latter is a forced choice, and naturally resists sharing a bed in the heart.
In marriages without an emotional foundation, intimate behaviors are performed in front of people, and people will choose to sleep in separate rooms due to strangeness and inapplicability.
This is the result of prior discussion, and it can only change when the feelings are deep in the later stage.
If people reach middle age, the pursuit of love is less, get along with each other and become a family, will focus more on children, in order not to affect each other's rest, will choose to sleep in separate rooms.
Love has become affection, children have become common concerns, and such families can be maintained for a long time.
No matter what the choice, husband and wife living together is for the sake of harmonious and stable marriage life.
The husband and wife must communicate well, maintain trust and respect, and do not hurt each other's feelings because of suspicion.
After all, whether to sleep in the same bed can not determine the marital state, marriage management relies on true feelings and trust, as long as they tolerate each other and understand each other, then no matter what kind of storm they experience, husband and wife can share happiness and suffering.
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