Last night there was heart-wrenching news,
Once that lively and cheerful Li Min,
Died yesterday,
The cause of her death was "depression",
A heroic sister on stage,
In the end, he failed to come out of his shadow,
Some say her ex-husband is to blame for this,
Others say that her life is full of ups and downs,
Li Min, who was tragically betrayed all his life,
Who exactly is to blame for her death...
I think the vast majority of post-90s, even post-00s children, are familiar with the name "Li Min", which has always been recognized as one of the "ceilings" of the Chinese music scene.
Although Li Min has gradually faded out of the sight of netizens in recent years, her songs have always been in my playlist, such as my favorite "Dao Ma Dan".
However, all the beauty came to an abrupt end on the evening of July 5, when Li Min's sister Li Silin personally announced the news, and Li Min died unfortunately on the same day.
The first person to discover Li Min's suicide was her elderly mother, and until Li Min reached the last moment of her life, her mother still couldn't believe it and didn't want to give up the slightest opportunity.
It's hard for me to imagine how painful an old man should be in the face of such a scene, and it is heart-wrenching to see the child he was so proud of fall.
And the reason for her death was because of the "depression" that everyone avoided, as early as July 2, Li Min had fallen into a coma until she could not be saved.
I think almost everyone can't believe this fact, because neither Li Min's performance on stage nor her optimistic and cheerful attitude seems to be related to "depression".
However, through contact with countless depressed patients around me, I found that normal people can't empathize with them at all, and they are so kind that they can't bear to make anyone sad.
So why is Li Min, who is lively and cheerful in the eyes of ordinary people, so unthinkable to choose this path, netizens who may not have paid attention to her do not know that her life is very bumpy.
Some people say that once as a "top music diva in the music industry", she gradually fell out of attention, coupled with middle-aged health problems, which led her to begin to have depression and then explode.
It is also said that the misfortune of a marriage dragged her into the abyss, and her husband's three betrayals, her stepdaughter's ingratitude and rebellion, all became the last straw that broke the camel's back...
In February this year, Li Min posted on social platforms, revealing her physical abnormalities since she was a child, and she claimed that "this is also the biggest fear in my life."
Because Li Min was born with a defect in her left leg when she was an infant and could not walk normally, she cried and fell asleep alone in the hospital every night, which indirectly caused her personality to be very introverted.
For so many years, even if she sang and danced on stage, she still supported her whole body weight by her right leg, and every time she finished the performance, she would suffer beyond imagination.
Until the beginning of October last year, she suffered an old injury during the line dance, which prevented her from walking normally, and after being admitted to the hospital, the doctor told her that she might not be able to dance in the future.
Although she is strong in words, for a person who has dedicated his life to acting, not being able to dance means the end of his career and the things he loves the most.
In the past few years, in fact, Li Min's body has not only problems with her legs, but in 2016, she suffered from "acute bronchitis", which caused severe symptoms in her throat to completely lose her voice.
It is such a person who is extremely suffering mentally and physically, and still interacts with everyone in the fan base every day, and even sends 40 seconds of voice to fans on the day of departure.
In this voice, she expressed her love to fans many times, saying the words "I miss you, I wish you eternal health and happiness", but unexpectedly, it was a farewell.
Of course, I think that for a "strong woman" like Li Min, the physical pain is only a temporary blow, no matter how painful and unbearable, she will always smile over.
However, the mental blow is irreparable, and in my opinion, the characters who will appear next are the culprits that cause Li Min to fall into "depression".
They are Li Min's ex-husband who cheated three times, the two stepdaughters who openly rebelled against their goals, and Li Min, who has experienced artificial insemination 9 times, finally collapsed under successive betrayals...
On October 3, 2011, Li Min and her husband Bruce held a big marriage in Hong Kong, the other party was 16 years older than her, and for a while, everyone was envious of Li Min marrying into a wealthy family.
Unfortunately, although Li Min and Bruce have been married for many years, they still do not have "children of their own", and the two have tried artificial insemination 9 times but failed one by one.
It can be seen how much Li Min loves her husband Bruce, because the pain caused by artificial insemination is unimaginable to normal people, let alone as many as 9 operations.
In the end, Li Min had no choice but to give up childbirth and chose to give all her love to her husband Bruce and his ex-wife's two children, but unfortunately these two children are also white-eyed wolves.
Li Min's efforts did not exchange for the love and respect she deserved, and in the case of her husband cheating three times in a row, Li Min chose to forgive, and finally exchanged for complete discouragement.
I thought that my stepdaughter, who had loved her for many years, would stand by my side, but what I didn't expect was that with the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, the two stepdaughters chose to support their biological father.
They began to pour dirty water on Li Min, thinking that Li Min was the culprit that caused their parents' divorce, and such a betrayal blow made Li Min lose weight for a while, and his spirit was even more in shambles.
The most outrageous thing is that such a family likes to betray the white-eyed wolf, who does not know what documents Li Min signed before marriage, and even wants Li Min to take the initiative to "clean up and leave the house".
So, under the double blow of spirit and body, Li Min's heart began to produce depression, and gradually fell into the vortex of "depression" until the final choice ended.
No one could have imagined that a "diva" who was once sassy and heroic on the stage would eventually become a trouble disliked by his family, Li Min could not have imagined, and neither could we.
The culprit of everything is not the Li Min who likes to speak up, let alone the physical illness she has had since she was a child, but the group of "family" who do not distinguish between right and wrong, that is...