He is Bian Ce, and at the age of 26, he was named the "most handsome" male host of CCTV.
However, at the age of 32, after a 40-minute phone call with his mother, he jumped from the 8th floor and ended his life.
At that time, his career was on the rise, so why did he kill himself after talking to his mother? What has he been through?
Junior high school to work in a TV station
Born in 1983 in Changchun, Jilin Province, in an ordinary worker family, although he was not very rich, he could barely mix food and clothing.
His parents named him Bian Ce, hoping that he could always push himself to work hard and be a successful person.
Like most Northeasterners, Bian Ce has been enthusiastic since childhood, likes to make friends, and has good relationships.
Since elementary school, Bianze's home award has been hung all over the wall of the house, studying hard at school, returning home to help his parents, and he has been known as "someone else's child" since he was a child.
At that time, he just wanted to get into college well, but he had no idea about his future development direction.
Bian Ce never expected that when he was in middle school, he would be associated with the broadcasting major, which also became a turning point in his fate.
In the summer of 1999, Bian Ce graduated from junior high school at the age of 16, and after this summer vacation, he will go to a key high school.
One day he was lying in his father's rocking chair when he suddenly heard the radio saying that the East Asia Music Channel of Jilin People's Radio and Television Station was going to hold a competition for recruiting hosts.
There were more than 3,000 people in this competition, many of whom had hosting skills and eloquence.
And Bian Ce's facial features are correct and his voice is thick, which is also the "secret treasure" that he can pass the interview.
When it came time to take the written test, Bian Ce hesitated. Because, if you take the written test, you need to pay an examination fee of 50 yuan.
At that time, 50 yuan was enough to eat at home for several days, and Bian Ce knew that it was not easy for the family to earn money, so he retreated.
After the parents learned of this situation, they did not hesitate to give Bian Ce 50 yuan and encourage him to take the exam, and the mother said that no matter how poor the child is, as long as the child knows how to be motivated, he is willing to spend how much money he wants.
In the end, Bian Ce took the written test and got the top 6, and he got the opportunity to stay in Jilin TV East Asia Music Station for 2 months.
In the past 2 months, Bian Ce has had the happiest time, looking at the huge TV station, the staff inside are all dressed in suits, and Bian Ce is very moved.
During this period, Bian Ce would do a program 2 days a week, and a music program every day, Bian Ce broadened his vision and cognition, and also had the idea of wanting to be a host.
When he was about to start school and enter high school, Bian Ce, who had never cried, shed tears.
Sparkling hosting nova
He was very reluctant to work in the TV station, and the teacher in the TV station told Bian Ce that he had to study hard and be admitted to the broadcasting major in the future to continue working here.
With the dream in my heart, I went to high school and worked harder.
In 2003, Bian Ce applied for the broadcasting hosting major and was admitted to the broadcasting school of Zhejiang University of Media and Communication with excellent results.
On the day she got the acceptance letter, her mother shed tears of excitement, because her son's success was her greatest wish.
On September 1st, Bian Ce dragged his suitcase to the gate of Zhejiang University of Media and Communication, and he couldn't wait to start learning professional knowledge.
During college, Bian Ce's grades have always been the best. Not only that, he also participated in off-campus hosting activities, because he heard a teacher say: "It is more meaningful to read a book for 3 days than to participate in a practical moderation." ”
Bian Ce honestly did so, and he actively went to the off-campus to find commercial hosting activities, because he was good-looking and a student of the Broadcasting Academy, and many people were willing to use him.
Through the activities, he not only earned living expenses, but also improved his ability, and in just one year, he received more than 200 business hosting sessions outside the school.
In 2004, Shenzhen Satellite TV held a large-scale host selection competition, and Bian Ce chose to register without hesitation. Although your chances of success are slim, this is an opportunity to improve your abilities.
With this mentality, Bian Ce won the top 12 in the country in this selection competition. The following year, Hunan Satellite TV also threw an "olive branch" to Bian Ce.
The third from the left is the side policy
This year, Hunan Satellite TV held the "Shining New Anchor Competition", and the chief director specially went to Zhejiang University of Media and Communication to find students to participate.
The school provided the director team with a video of the host saved by the school, and the director immediately fell in love with the side strategy.
The director called Bian Ce and invited him to participate in the competition, but Bian Ce thought that the other party was a liar and hung up the phone directly. On the other side, the director kept texting Bian Ce to explain, and Bian Ce knew that he had engaged in an "oolong incident".
Bian Ce's hosting skills and temporary adaptability are particularly good, which has a lot to do with his participation in various hosting activities.
In the competition of "Shining New Anchor", Bian Ce won the top 5 results in the country, and Bian Ce did not know that in this top 5 competition, his mother also came to the stage.
Looking at her son on the stage, the mother couldn't contain the excitement in her heart, and she was extremely proud of her son.
Biance is his mother's only hope, and at this time, Bian Ce, who is standing on the stage enjoying the applause and spotlight, looks happy, but he has no idea what is happening at home.
Only the mother was left to fend for her
At the beginning of the "Shiny New Anchor" competition, Bian Ce's grandfather died suddenly due to illness.
In order to let Bian Ce concentrate on participating in the competition, his mother did not tell Bian Ce the news, and in the end, Bian Ce did not meet his grandfather for the last time.
Only a month after his grandfather's death, Bian Ce's father was diagnosed with lung cancer, and at this time, Bian Ce's competition had entered the most intense stage.
The mother also hid this matter, and took care of her husband in the hospital alone, bearing all the pressure on the family.
When the game was over, Bian Ce returned home and saw his father with thinning hair and skinny hair that he knew that his father had lung cancer.
Bian Ce, who had always been strong, could no longer control it, he knelt in front of his father and began to cry, and the family of three hugged together and cried for a long time.
Because the treatment was expensive, my father said many times: "If you don't treat it, this disease will end up with no money and no money, and I don't want to drag you to death." ”
It turned out that the family's money had long been spent, and in order to treat the disease, the mother begged someone to borrow money, and in order to continue his father's treatment, Bian Ce lied that he had found a high-paying job so that he did not have to worry about money.
At this time, Zhejiang TV and Hunan TV invited Bian Ce to join at the same time, but Bian Ce had already set his sights on Beijing.
He knew that he would make more money and have more opportunities in a big city like Beijing, so he didn't think much about it, and after spending a day at home with his father, he bought a train ticket to Beijing.
Raising money for his father to treat his illness is the first important thing, Bian Ce's professional ability is very good, he has worked as a host for many TV media in Beijing, although he earns a lot of money, he is very tired, because whenever he has free time, he will return to his father to take care of him.
However, in 2006, Bian Ce's father died of multiple metastases of lung cancer.
After his father died, Bian Ce was left with his mother, a relative, no matter how busy he was, he would take time home to accompany his mother, and would regularly take his mother to physical examinations and buy his mother a lot of good food.
Biance will even give all the money he earns to his mother, who usually doesn't have to save money for himself, and now that he can make money, he only hopes that his mother can be happy.
His mother took Bian Ce's hand and told him, "In the future, we will rely on each other well." ”
In 2008, Bian Ce entered CCTV and became the host of the movie channel, and his mother would sit in front of the TV every day to watch Bian Ce's programs on time, which was the greatest spiritual comfort for Bian Ce's mother.
Because Bian Ce's appearance is correct and his hosting skills are solid, the audience gave him the title of "the most handsome male host of CCTV". Because of his excellent performance, he has also hosted programs such as "Yin Yue Grand Guest" and "Health Club", and has also gained a lot of fame in the hosting industry.
In 2015, Bian Ce was 32 years old, which was the peak of his career.
However, on June 9 of this year, the news that Bian Ce fell to his death came out, which shocked everyone, what happened?
The eighth floor jumped down from the sky
Beforehand, the police had received a report that Bian Ce was suspected of drugs. On June 9, 2015, the police locked down Bian Ce's home, but after knocking on the door for a long time, no one responded inside.
The police eventually broke down the house and found that the windows were open when they entered Biance's home.
And at this time, someone downstairs shouted madly: "Someone jumped off the building!" ", the height of the 8th floor, Bian Ce jumped down and died on the spot.
The mother first received the news of Bian Ce's death, and after learning that her son fell to his death, the mother suddenly collapsed to the ground.
Because, just an hour before Bian Ce fell to the building, the two had spoken on the phone, and his mother told Bian Ce to pay attention to rest and not to stay up late to look at his mobile phone often.
Bian Ce also coquettishly told his mother that he wanted to eat her cooking, and an hour later, Bian Ce jumped down from the 8th floor and ended his life.
"The hemp rope is specially selected and broken, and bad luck only looks for the bitter person"
Since the death of her husband, her mother has pinned all her hopes on Bian Ce, hoping that he can get married and have children soon, so that she can come to Beijing to help him with his children, but the reality is so cruel.
At the same time as the collapse, Bian Ce's mother also had thousands of questions in her heart, why did her son choose to jump off the building when he was involved in drugs?
She posted a long article on social platforms, raising her inner doubts.
As soon as this matter came out, there were continuous rumors from the outside world, and some people said that Bian Ce would jump off the building because he was involved in too much drugs and was uncontrollable.
Others said that Bian Ce did not want to ruin his reputation and wanted to end his life before the matter was exposed.
It was also suggested that Bian Ce's involvement in drugs had a lot to do with another host, Chen Bojun.
Bian Ce and Chen Bojun got together because of their participation in the "Shining New Anchor" competition, and they have been in touch after the competition, and they are very good friends on weekdays.
In Beijing, the two still live in the same community, and their extraordinary relationship has led many people to speculate that the two are "lovers".
Chen Bojun has many bad hobbies, he has fallen into the abyss but brought Bian Ce in, he told Bian Ce: "This thing will not be addictive, it can be controlled", and slowly, Bian Ce also became an "addict".
But Bian Ce didn't expect until he died that the person who reported him for drug use was Chen Bojun, who had the best relationship on weekdays.
Chen Bojun was the first to be controlled by the police, and in order to reduce the punishment, he also confessed to the drug involvement of Bian Ce.
After receiving the news of his friend's arrest, Bian Ce knew that it would soon be his turn, and he could not worry about his mother, so he made his last phone call to his mother.
In order to save his image, he chose to jump off the building on a whim, which was the most reasonable explanation at that time.
Bian Ce's mother originally had a happy family, but she lost her father, husband, and son, and the closest people around her left her one by one.
In the past, every time the mother would proudly tell others that her son was a host and still worked on CCTV.
Now, the son who depends on each other leaves him in this way, which has become something that the mother cannot let go of in her life.
It is said that when Bian Ce's mother rushed to Beijing to see her son's body, she cried and fainted at the scene several times.
Pity the hearts of parents in the world, now Bian Ce's mother has entered the old age, the spirit is a little trance, from time to time in a daze, will talk to herself, waiting for her is the day of lonely death in a nursing home.
"One thought of heaven and one thought of hell", in one thought, Bian Ce will have different endings. If he hadn't listened to Chen Bojun, he would have become a well-known CCTV host by now, and the fault was that Bian Ce looked at the wrong person.
Society is sinister, you need to be cautious in making friends, things that violate your own principles must be rejected, and everyone must keep their hearts.
His name was Bian Ce, but he failed to "whip his heart".
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