It is difficult to have pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, if it is a real relationship, the woman asks you for help, you can appropriately lend a hand, but if she comes to you to borrow such a thing, then no matter how close you are, you must refuse, she must not be well, break it early, otherwise it will ruin your luck.
1. Borrow money repeatedly
People will have a temporary dilemma and inevitably need help, so as a friend, you can lend a helping hand when you see the other person in trouble. But if someone borrows money from you, you can borrow it once or twice, and if it is many times, then you must be alert, she must not be well. Otherwise, if you have relatives and family, why bother you repeatedly. It's not because you're special, but she thinks you're easier to cheat and can borrow money with just a few words, which clearly doesn't treat you as a true friend.
When a woman borrows money from you every time, not to mention the time of return, always deceives you with various reasons, then to put it bluntly, only fancy your material value, she is a big wronged person in her heart, no matter how much she pays, she will not really treat you. Instead of this, it is better to cut off the relationship as soon as possible, otherwise it will be difficult to return, you have spent so much money and time on her, but she will not look at you squarely, but will become more serious, and over time it will ruin your luck.
- Help you as a spare tire, borrow your shoulder to lean on
If a woman can't forget her ex and use you as a spare tire when she gets along with you, then you must stay away, no matter how beautiful and excellent she is, she can't lower her standards.
True love cannot be shared, without exception, even if she has a thousand excuses. The reason why she told you that she can't forget her ex and chose to stay with you is because her ex can't provide what she wants, and you can, even if she doesn't love you, she will stay because of your material conditions. Such a woman, it is better to stay away as soon as possible. She's here to ruin your luck and cuckold you.
Even if she doesn't have an ex she can't forget, but there are many ambiguous objects around her, it's the same reason. If she says that she wants a support, wants to borrow your shoulder to lean on, it is obviously using you as a spare tire, as a foothold, a typical donkey to find a horse. Wake up earlier, you can reduce losses earlier, really suitable for you people are still behind, don't worry.
- Borrow your time and drain your energy
Is there such a woman around you who has no definite relationship, but often calls you out to go shopping with her. Such a woman is typical of borrowing your time and consuming your energy, she may have a boyfriend and a home, but still uses you as a pastime and calls you out from time to time.
If you are also a family person, then you should stay away from such women, whether she says that you are friends or what kind of relationship, it is to consume you and make you betray the bottom line and principles in your heart. So you must not give her warmth, learn to refuse, guard your bottom line, no matter how good you two usually play, but also know the proportions, two people who have a home will not end well. If you are single with each other, it is natural to develop a good story, which is another matter.
Love is very beautiful, it should not be filled with calculations, so if there are women around you who borrow these three things from you, then stay away and don't make trouble.