In this life, there are only three choices, either early bloomer, late bloomer, or no success in life.
There are few early bloomers, because it requires background, resources, connections and strong talent. There are not many people who have these resources, and naturally few people have become a big deal early.
People who have not achieved anything in their lives are basically all over the street. From the perspective of the rule of two eight, at least 80% of people are ordinary people, without any outstanding talent, and can only be mediocre for a lifetime.
As for the late bloomer, it is necessary to test people's patience and ability. Patience is not enough, I can't help it, and I don't have the ability to accumulate resources, maybe when I get old, I still can't be a late bloomer.
In order to achieve something, you need to be "in the right place at the right time". For men, either "Dapeng rises with the wind in one day and soars to 90,000 li", or "when the heavens and the earth work together, the heroes are not free".
The second spring of men, starting at the age of 45. These variables are best grasped.
First, the ability is in line with a certain opportunity, it is best to seize it.
When they are young, people don't have any experience or resources, and naturally they have a hard time doing everything. Even if you go to make money, you can only make some small money to support your family.
After more than ten or twenty years of training, people have gained rich experience and know how to deal with people. Although there are not many resources, there is always a little return, and then people have the possibility of success.
Some people will say that they are all in their forties, and there is no hope for a long time, how can there be a chance of success?
Everything is "man-made". Some people have lost hope, even if they are only twenty or thirty years old, and their lives are still bleak. Some people have big ambitions, even if they are over fifty, they still have a bright future.
Emperor Cao Cao of Wei Wu said that Lao Ji is in the thousands, his ambition is thousands of miles, and the martyrs are in their twilight years, and their hearts are strong.
As long as you give the horse a chance, even if the horse is old, it can continue to run and pursue the ideal in his heart. When your ability is in line with the opportunity in a certain field, it is necessary to seize it in time.
Second, in the muffled wealth, see the light.
There is a word in "Zhou Yi", don't use hidden dragons. Meaning, if you don't have the ability, hide yourself and silently wait for the moment.
Liu Bei was a guest under the curtain of Liu Biao in Jingzhou at the age of forty, and until he was forty-seven years old, a total of seven years, Liu Bei, who lived idle, did not dare to relax, either looking for famous men everywhere, or insisting on riding a horse and practicing swords.
He said that when the eldest husband is upright, even in adversity, he should stoop to his duty, so that when the time comes, he must not fight against fate.
It roughly means that the eldest husband should be more and more frustrated when doing things, even in adversity, he must silently accumulate his own strength, wait for the time to come, if he does not do things, he must succeed.
Of course, Liu Bei did. When he was forty-seven years old, he met Zhuge Liang, and his life was like opening and hanging, and he later achieved the great cause of Shu Han.
For countless people, in their forties, they can lie flat and indulge themselves a long time ago. But there are always some people who in turn, demand themselves with self-discipline, and their hearts are not lost in the slightest. People like this, it will not be bad.
Third, the more unfavorable the time, the more symbolic the turning point is coming.
There are two words, Taiji no come, no Ji Tai Lai. It roughly means that if it is good to the extreme, it will become bad. And if it is bad to the extreme, it will get better. Good and bad, change all the time.
If the present is going well, it may be the beginning of the disaster. At the moment, you are living a difficult life, at a low point, I believe that no matter how you go, you will go back uphill.
As it is said in the Art of War, it is said that if you die and survive, you will live after death. If you are not at the bottom and do not face a huge dilemma, you cannot bottom out and rebound.
Especially in this "extremely fast-flowing wealth" society, the rich may become poor in an instant, and the poor may seize the opportunity and become rich in an instant.
The so-called "three points are destined, seven points rely on hard work." "We don't know what the future holds, but what happens now is in our hands." It can be said that "things are man-made" is an eternal truth.
Whether it is smooth or not is not a problem, whether it can withstand the cold winter and move forward is the truth.
Fourth, be cautious and prudent, and strive to advance steadily.
Ordinary people, there are no rich people who have more opportunities for trial and error. The rich people tried and made mistakes a few times, and they were all safe. As long as ordinary people try and make a mistake once, they will basically not be able to turn over.
There is only one way to reduce the chance of making mistakes, and that is to "make steady progress". Others rush in, you are safe. If others are desperate and you are cautious, then you can probably have the last laugh
It's the same as long-distance running, you choose to run slowly, adjust your breathing, accumulate thick hair, then you can probably run at a uniform speed to the end, and even overtake in the middle of the corner, it is also possible.
On the contrary, the other party ran fast at the beginning and did not adjust his breathing, then he was out of breath before he ran halfway. As for running to the end, it is basically impossible to do it.
People over forty-five, although it is said that due to the influence of middle age, some of the situation of men is not very good, but there is a disadvantage, there will be a benefit, you with a cautious temperament, isn't the situation more stable?
Life is full of ninety-nine-eighty-one difficulties. After the pass, the merit will naturally be complete, and the achievement will be positive.
Text/Shushan has deer