France's first lady Brigitte is a full twenty-four years older than her husband, Emmanuel Macron, and their marriage has been ridiculed almost "all over the world." Everyone believes that Brigitte is not worthy of her husband, and that she and Macron are an unblessed "forbidden love".
Malicious is always like this, a fluttering sentence, but Brigitte into pain, she can only rely on plastic surgery to reduce the anxiety brought by her age. Expect your appearance to be more youthful and beautiful, and when you walk side by side with Macron, I hope that there will not be so much criticism.
Macron's sentiment in these incidents is that there is no "normal life" between the husband and wife.
Why would a young and promising man marry a woman who is more than twenty years older than himself, and whether their marriage is happy?
Married life is incredibly sweet
No one expected that this couple, who looked so incompatible, were actually very loving. Others do not understand why such a young Macron would choose an older woman as his wife, he can obviously have a better choice.
Macron said that the luckiest thing in his life was to meet Brigitte. When Macron was an ordinary person, when he went to the election, Brigitte knew that the road would be very difficult.
Therefore, Brigitte did not hesitate to give up her favorite teaching position, only hoping that when her husband needed him, she would be in front of him at any time. And Macron did not live up to expectations and succeeded in one fell swoop.
However, this caused a lot of dissatisfaction and began to attack the couple with vicious language.
Although Brigitte has endured the disapproval of the people around her back then, but now the overwhelming public opinion news, which is much greater than the accusations and invective more than ten years ago, in the face of these unwarranted malice, Brigitte can't help but fall into deep loneliness.
It's just that after being lonely, Brigitte is not an ordinary woman who can be manipulated, and she chooses to change the status quo through other methods, that is, plastic surgery. Change your appearance through a facelift, improve your facial condition, and make yourself look less aged.
Plastic surgery alone is not enough, you also need a good figure, a healthy body is always more divided than a beautiful face, under Brigitte's maintenance, she looks not young and beautiful, but also looks much younger than women of her age.
And Macron's statement that there is no normal life between husband and wife does not refer to the conflict between him and Brigitte, but because the media public is too curious about their private lives and attacks and abuses against Brigitte, which makes them feel very troubled by the couple.
Fortunately, Macron was very good to Brigitte and has been silently protecting her, so their feelings have not changed due to the malice of the masses. After all, isn't what the malicious person wants to see most is the breakdown of the relationship between the two of them? Not caring is the best fight back.
Brigitte pays great attention to her own improvement, and with continuous efforts, the result is that she looks young and healthy. And Macron has never loved Brigitte's beauty, but more about her personality.
And Brigitte's subtle efforts are also seen by the media public, and there is really no need to criticize and accuse a wife who is trying to live too much.
Macron did not want his wife to suffer any more, and made many efforts to achieve this. Over the years, Macron has loved Brigitte very much, not only taking Brigitte to sightseeing and releasing pressure whenever he has time, but Macron is also very relieved to hand over the financial power of the family to Brigitte.
Like Macron, Eason Chen's wife, although labeled as a "loser" by many media, Chen feels that it doesn't matter, because his wife chose herself at her nameless and unprofitable age, and the wealth she now has is inseparable from his wife's silent payment behind her back.
I admire such responsible men, because they respect their wives very much, so even if they succeed, they will not forget their wife's dedication. Many people's families are not harmonious, either because there is a lack of trust between husband and wife, no one is willing to pay for anyone, or they have power in their hands and their minds are erratic.
Fate arranged the encounter for them
As we all know, the age difference between this couple is very large, so large that the husband's age is the same as his daughter, and Brigitte was once Macron's teacher, her daughter is still Macron's classmate, and their relationship has not been blessed by their relatives from the beginning.
Later, they refused to give up and insisted for twelve years before the parents of both sides agreed to the marriage of the two of them. There is a great way, when you were young and beautiful, I was not yet born, and by the time I met you, you had passed away in your good years, and you already had good people by your side.
Was this encounter a mistake? Perhaps, at least in the eyes of most people, this must be the god on the wrong line, otherwise how could such a pair of lovers with a huge gap meet at such an inopportune age? It's just fate, it's not something that can be decided by yourself.
If they could choose by themselves, they would like to meet each other at the most appropriate age, but things have become the way they are now, even in the face of worldly accusations, even if all people do not understand, as long as they can be with the people they love deeply, you don't listen to the opinions of the outside world.
This may be what they thought at the beginning, not afraid of gossip, as long as I can be with you, my trip to the world is not in vain.
And it was true, at that time, despite the efforts of both parents to oppose the two of them being together, even the separation did not break the relationship between the two people. Brigitte left her family behind to follow in Macron's footsteps and continue to accompany him.
Brigitte's husband at the time also knew her stubbornness, and instead of continuing to torture each other, it was better to let go calmly, which was worthy of the relationship for so many years.
So, this time, Brigitte and Macron finally got the approval of both parents, and they rightfully married each other. And after such a long period of strong winds and waves between them, it can be regarded as a hardship to achieve positive results, and they cherish this hard-won marriage very much.
At the beginning of their lives, there were many unsmooth places, and for a long time, the financial pressure of the family fell on Brigitte. But instead of blaming Macron for this, she took up this responsibility strongly, and comforted Macron that life was still good.
Recently, there is a famous word called, emotional value. I think Brigitte is the one who can provide emotional value to Macron, and at the lowest point of Macron's work, her thin shoulders not only carry the heavy lifting of the family, but her lips are always full of warm words about Macron.
It is these warm words that make Macron spare no effort in his career, precisely because of the idea of living up to such a virtuous wife at home, even if he suffers a lot outside, he feels that it is so worthless, as long as he can see his wife's smiling face, then all this is worth it.
It can be said that this couple is achieving each other, if it were not for Brigitte, Macron might not have such motivation to fight in his career. If there were no Macron, Brigitte would also be a small-town teacher and live a plain and unpretentious life.
People envy their achievements, but ignore everything they have given to each other, but they have gone through so many tribulations to get to where they are today.
But there are those who are jealous, pick up a pen and paper and slander it, obviously people who have nothing to do with them, but have natural malice, and use the sharpest lips and swords to attack a woman with no chicken power, it really should not be.
They have been criticized since they were together, and to this day, there are still some harsh words directed at them. Maybe it's time to let go of this couple who want an ordinary life, after all, they love each other so much, this sincerity, people can't bear to denigrate.
Unafraid of the firmness of words
In fact, in their love story, what is more moving is Macron's firmness. Perhaps because he was younger, he could have had more choices, but he was desperate for Brigitte, and it was his persistence that made Brigitte's choice more valuable.
In the face of so many rumors, he has always chosen to firmly protect Brigitte, going out with her many times, and showing the love between the two to the world unreservedly, for Macron, Brigitte is not only his beloved wife, but also a strong backing in his life.
At the age of 15, the most confused year of his life, it was Brigitte who came like a divine messenger and slowly healed him in the baptism of time. After he expressed his sincere love to her, she did not let this love fall short, and also responded with incomparable sincerity.
They behave like a gamble, betting that the other party is equally determined and that their choice is right. Trusting someone unconditionally is risky, just like when you decide to connect with someone, you are bound to worry about their words and actions.
If Brigitte had not chosen Macron, her life would still be as usual, and Macron would only be an episode in her life. He is just an ignorant teenager in adolescence, who does not understand the responsibility behind love, and she is just a good mentor.
Even if he broke into her life, it would slowly disappear like that, and in the years to come, I thought of such a little boy who once said so sincerely that he liked her, chose to refuse for the sake of the so-called courtesy, in order not to be attacked by gossip, and after many years he only missed it in his memories.
Perhaps because he did not want to leave regrets in his life, in the face of a sincere Macron, Brigitte also chose to be "crazy". In this life, it is not easy to meet someone who is willing to leave everything behind for herself, at least in her original marriage, she has never felt it.
It's just that Brigitte was accused by the public of cheating in marriage, and cheated on such a young boy, as a teacher, to do such a thing that shames the family. These, no matter which one is singled out, are silent and frowning, and we cannot agree with her approach, let alone publicize it.
In order to pursue her love, she really did not care about the feelings of her family. There is also her husband who has been with her for many years, even if there is no passionate love between the two, but they have raised three children together, and there is a sense of responsibility between them.
Although marriage and family should not be used to bind a woman, it is still not encouraged for any woman to pursue love in this way. Not to mention that there are few men like Macron who have always been in love, Brigitte's own boldness and cheerfulness are also beyond the reach of many women.
epilogue
Brigitte is an attractive woman who not only has a successful career, but also gains a sincere relationship and meets a good person. Her combination with Macron was frantically belittled by the public, but she did not have many slots, so many media members could only attack her age.
Brigitte went for plastic surgery, also hoping to stand up with Macron more well, and this matter has become a talking point for everyone, using this as an excuse to mock her.
In general, I still admire Brigitte and Macron's courage to go both ways for love, the two have experienced many winds and waves, neither being blinded by the wind and sand, nor losing each other in the long love run, this kind of affection, is really enviable.
As the years passed, the public's eyes did not stop at mocking Brigitte's age, they gradually discovered the French first lady's own unique personality charm, and slowly understood why Macron loved his wife so much.
And their love is always as sweet as the newlywed Yan'er, probably because they both identify each other as each other's soul mates, and they have gone through hardships from knowing each other and loving each other, and naturally they will cherish it incomparably.
Perhaps the world should be more tolerant of this couple, after all, there is a fate in this world to meet and fall in love, which is an unparalleled fate. Sure enough, in response to the line in the movie, marriage is the biggest arranged by heaven!