The woman asked for a monthly salary of 300,000 yuan on a blind date, and the uncle's family has two companies listed to apply, do you think I can do it?

#上海大爷相亲称每月给30万零花钱#

The woman asked for a monthly salary of 300,000 yuan on a blind date, and the uncle's family had two listed companies or legal persons to apply, saying that they would give the woman 300,000 pocket money a month.

Woman: You're three years older than my dad

Netizen: So much pocket money every month, age eighty is not a problem [tears]

Here are the beautiful woman blind date requirements:

Sincerely find a partner

I am 35 tall, 159 and 98 in weight, currently working. Sincerely find the right [tear run]

Sincerely find a partner

35 height 159 weight 98 currently no job, sincerely looking for a partner, I do not smoke, do not drink, do not play cards, good personality, single-minded feelings, gentle and considerate, virtuous can cook.

Now seeking: 30 to 60 years old, have a car and a house without a loan, height above 175, monthly salary of 30,000, no children are preferred, good temper spoil me love me, no bad hobbies, do not go to entertainment places, the man can also be considered if he is excellent and has children! It is better for the man to have only one child and accept that the wife does not work after marriage.

The incident of a 62-year-old man in Shanghai saying that he could give his wife 300,000 pocket money a month caused widespread heated discussions on the Internet.

The blind date demand mentioned that they have two listed companies, which is undoubtedly a show off and trying to grab each other's hearts with money, and the women obtained are not because of the other party's quality and charm, but because of the huge amount of pocket money, the essence of this transaction is no longer love, but buying and selling.

From the woman asking for more than 30,000 pocket money a month, the woman is not looking for a target, this is looking for a gold owner, right?

Such behavior has sparked heated discussions among netizens:

This incident reflects some people's pursuit of money and distortion of love.

They satisfy their vanity needs by offering high pocket money in the hope of gaining the favor and attention of the other party. Such behavior can easily hurt the personal dignity of the other party and cause conflicts between money and feelings.

This behavior of a woman with a monthly salary of 300,000 reminds me of Miss Dong in the "Holding Hands Door" incident, who starts with the end of others' struggles.

Miss Dong also sighed in the circle of friends: because the conditions at home are too good to surpass her father's generation, she feels uncomfortable. She stayed in Beijing and bought a house in Beijing, but envied other classmates for surpassing her predecessors. Because her fathers were so good. I don't know if I am showing off my family or mocking the mediocrity of my classmates! .

It is precisely because there are people like Miss Dong who show off their wealth that many women with improper views want to get something for nothing and ascend to the sky in one step.

There are indeed some people in contemporary society who are not willing to pursue their love through hard work, but hope to get it for nothing.

This kind of thinking is actually an irresponsible behavior, because love needs to be paid for, and it needs to be managed with heart, not by temporary show-off or vanity.

If you truly love someone, you should give everything for him/her, including your time and energy, rather than just asking the other person to give it for you.

And, if you don't work hard to pursue love, then you may miss out on some good love and miss someone who really loves you. Therefore, it is recommended that when looking for love, everyone should be proactive, manage with their hearts, and strive to pursue their own happiness.

Analyze the problem of wanting to get something for nothing

1. There can be many reasons for the unearned view of love, some of which may include:

Economic pressures and competition for survival in modern society make some people unwilling to give time and energy to pursue love; In addition, some people may not have enough awareness and attention to love, thinking that it is not as important as career, school, or other things; Still others may think that pursuing love is a difficult thing that requires a lot of effort and time, and are therefore reluctant to do it.

2. Problems with unearned love may include:

First of all, it is unrealistic, because love requires effort and effort to obtain;

Secondly, this love may not be real love, but only a temporary affection;

Finally, unearned love can bring some negative effects, such as emotional loneliness and loss, as well as misunderstanding and distortion of love.

3. The negative effects of unearned love may include:

First, it can lead people to misunderstand and distort love, thinking that it is only a temporary affection;

Secondly, it may make people ignore the importance of love, thus losing many opportunities to experience true love;

Finally, unearned love can bring emotional pain and hurt, making it difficult to find true happiness.

Such behavior should cause us to reflect on why some people see money as the most important thing and put people and feelings second.

Love cannot be measured in money, but requires genuine dedication and mutual understanding from both parties. It is believed that only on the basis of equality, respect and sincerity can a solid relationship be established between the two sides.

How to solve this problem?

Let's first look at such a story and find a solution from the story.

An American girl posted on an online forum asking, "How can I marry a rich man?" This post has attracted widespread attention and heated discussion.

The girl described herself as young and beautiful and wanted to marry someone who earned $500,000 a year. She believes that in New York, an annual salary of 1 million is considered middle-class. She asked netizens where rich bachelors go, age range, the phenomenon of the average appearance of rich wives, and how to decide who can be a wife. One Wall Street financier replied that marrying her was a bad business decision because her beauty would fade without his money. He advised her not to struggle to find a secret recipe for marrying a rich man, but to find a way to turn herself into a person with an annual salary of 500,000.

This post caused heated discussions among netizens, some people thought that the girl was too realistic and greedy, and others thought that she had the right to pursue her own happiness.

Wall Street financiers have answered: From a businessman's point of view, marrying you is a bad business decision. Putting aside the minutiae, what you are talking about is actually a simple "wealth" and "appearance" transaction: Party A provides the appearance of the narrator, Party B pays money, fair trade, and Tong Suo is not deceived. However, there is a fatal problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not decrease for no reason. In fact, my income is likely to increase year by year. And you can't get more beautiful every year.　　

Therefore, from an economic point of view, I am an appreciating asset, you are depreciating an asset, not only depreciating, but also accelerating depreciation! You're 25 years old now, and for the next five years, you can still maintain your slim figure and beautiful appearance, although it is slightly regressing every year. But beauty will fade faster and faster, and if it's your only asset, you'll be worth a decade later.

Finally, the financier suggests: the probability of wanting to marry a rich person is very low, because the rich will only rent your youth, but the probability of becoming rich yourself through hard work is high.

In general, this incident teaches us that we need to abandon the excessive pursuit of money thinking, and should use a more equal and healthy way to build our interpersonal relationships, and at the same time be alert to the harm of this kind of love trading transaction. In the process of seeking love, we should insist on giving sincerely, maintain a positive attitude and beautiful three views.

1. This article explores the causes, problems, and negative effects of the unearned view of love. Key points include:

The unearned view of love is unrealistic and not true love; It can lead people to misunderstand and distort love, ignoring the importance of love; Unearned love can bring emotional loneliness and loss, as well as misunderstandings and distortions of love.

2. The article emphasizes the importance of establishing a correct view of love.

A correct view of love should include factors such as respect, trust, communication, and joint efforts. True love can only be achieved through hard work and dedication, not through unearned gain. A correct view of love is the foundation of a healthy emotional relationship and plays an important role in personal growth and happiness.

Thank you for reading and have a good life.