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Carry the lantern forward
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The well-known actor Kou Shixun often plays the role of "master" with three wives and four concubines in the play, but unexpectedly, he also lives this kind of life in reality.
He not only accepted his childhood sweetheart as his wife, but also made the young and beautiful bodybuilding lady miss him, and even the two women took care of him under the same roof for 27 years, but according to outsiders, these two wives were purely "superficially harmonious", often quarreling at intervals, and causing a lot of trouble to his later years.
So, what charm does he have that will make the two women die for him? What is his real life, is it as bad as outsiders say?
Cohabitation life
As Kou Shixun went home later and later, Cui Yaoqi didn't care at first, after all, her husband was famous and took on a lot of dramas, so it was inevitable that he would go home later. But after a long period of observation, Cui Yaoqi felt that he was coming home later and later, and he couldn't help but suspect that Kou Shixun was outside.
According to Cui Yaoqi, every time her husband comes back from work, he will talk to Cui Yaoqi about his work or fall asleep, refusing to even make basic physical contact, so Cui Yaoqi's suspicions are normal.
However, it didn't take long for her suspicions to be confirmed, and one night, just as Cui Yaoqi was preparing food for her husband as usual, the door opened involuntarily, and Cui Yaoqi looked back and found Kou Shixun bringing a woman home.
After Cui Yaoqi saw all this, she also confirmed her inner speculation, although there were dissatisfaction and unspeakable grievances in her heart, she understood that making a big fuss could not solve the solution in front of her, and then let the young woman sit down.
The wife also sat directly on the sofa at this time, and said to Kou Shixun seriously: "Say, what's going on?" And Kou Shixun told the truth without humility.
After his wife Cui Yaoqi learned the truth, despite sufficient psychological preparations, she couldn't help but be a little shocked.
At this time, Kou Shixun said to his wife: "I love you very much, but I also love Xu Lidan, and I hope to get your approval and let her live with us." ”
Hearing this absurd words, Cui Yaoqi immediately wanted to divorce him, but thought about it herself: "If you want to divorce, what about the children, do you want to suffer with me?" ”
Then Cui Yaoqi dismissed the idea of divorce, chose to endure, and decided to accept this foreign "lover".
Kou Shixun was very happy when he heard this, and he had been praising his wife Xianhui, but then his wife interrupted him and said casually: "I can accept her, but I have one condition, that is, all the affairs in the family will be under my control in the future, including property." ”
Kou Shixun still had so many concerns, in order to be with Xu Lidan, he wanted to agree to anything, so he agreed to his wife's request.
After that, Kou Shixun invited Xu Lidan to live in his home and became his second wife. Because the eldest wife Cui Yaoqi is on the third floor, Kou Shixun arranged Xu Lidan to the second floor, on the one hand, it can highlight the family status of the eldest wife Cui Yaoqi, and on the other hand, avoid the situation where the two often quarrel.
Thus, the cohabitation life of the three began.
Since the three of them lived together, in order to avoid quarrels among his wives, Kou Shixun often ran upstairs and downstairs, even going out to buy things, he had to buy as much, for fear that which wife would be unhappy, so that he was tired and almost crawled on the ground every time.
Not only in life, but also in work, but also increase pressure, because there is another person in the family, and consumption has increased, which has to make Kou Shixun redouble his efforts at work, after a long period of torture, Kou Shixun was caught between two women and was physically and mentally exhausted.
At this time, the two wives saw that Kou Shixun was working so hard, and the relationship gradually began to improve, and sometimes they would comfort him together.
As the saying goes: "Paper can't contain fire", not long after, the media began to break the news of Kou Shixun's marriage, many people praised the old actor for being superior and really able to do "two women and one husband", but many people did not know that this was not his credit, but his wife's broad-mindedness.
And during Kou Shixun's hospitalization, both wives came to take care of him, and everyone couldn't help but envy his life.
After that, many people were even more convinced that Kou Shixun and his two wives had lived in harmony for 27 years, but this was not the case.
In a media interview, Kou Shixun once said: "I regret marrying two wives, if I start all over again, I would rather marry one." ”
It can be seen from this sentence that Kou Shixun is not only physically tired, but also may be the reason for the quarrel between the two wives.
And the actions of the eldest son Kou Jiarui further confirmed the discord of Kou Shixun's wives.
The truth comes to light
Once, Kou Shixun's eldest son Kou Jiarui shared a family photo on social platforms.
As can be seen from this photo, there is no Kou Shixun's second wife Xu Lidan and Xu Lidan's children in the photo.
This made many netizens wonder, hearing from the outside world, the two wives have been very harmonious for so many years, could it be that Kou Shixun deliberately drove Xu Lidan away?
For a time, the pot exploded on major platforms, and netizens talked about it, and at this time, Kou Jiarui also told the truth of that year.
Originally from the time he brought Xu Lidan from Kou Shixun, Cui Yaoqi has been in pain, but family affairs, can not be said outside, can only tell the children, and from Kou Jiarui's mouth, I learned that Xu Lidan and Cui Yaoqi have always been not harmonious, especially in the New Year, they will quarrel at every turn.
According to Kou Jiarui, Xu Lidan has two sons and a daughter, and if they want to meet, they can't let Cui Yaoqi know to avoid quarrel, and after that, Xu Lidan's children studied abroad and have never been in touch.
However, although Kou Jiarui has children, he has always been unmarried, probably because of his parents' marital situation, which makes Kou Jiarui have a shadow of marriage.
Then, the reason why Kou Shixun's marital status caused this situation must start with knowing Cui Yaoqi.
Childhood
In fact, Cui Yaoqi and Kou Shixun have known each other since childhood, at that time, Kou Shixun was silent in the class all day, because of his ugly appearance, no one played with him, and Cui Yaoqi was lively and cheerful in the class, so he played in the class.
At that time, she saw that Kou Shixun was lonely alone, so she developed sympathy and took the initiative to talk to him, and slowly the two became playmates, and since then, the two often play together, and from time to time go to each other's homes as guests.
By high school, Cui Yaoqi turned into a beautiful girl, and Kou Shixun is still particularly inconspicuous, may be a relationship when they were children, and the two will gradually fall in love in high school.
Although Kou Shixun was very inconspicuous in high school and had poor academic performance, in order to catch up with Cui Yaoqi, he studied hard every day, and as expected, the two were admitted to the World Journalism College at the same time after the college entrance examination.
The two who entered the university originally fell in love with each other, and it didn't take long for the two to become lovers. And Kou Shixun did not miss his children too much, and practiced acting hard in college, which also laid the foundation for him to enter the entertainment industry in the future.
At this time, because the two parents knew each other, there was a situation of urging marriage, and Kou Shixun and Cui Yaoqi did not shy away, and after graduating from college, the two entered the wedding.
After marriage, the two had children, so Cui Yaoqi quit her current job and began to "husband and teach children" at home, and Kou Shixun became an actor and entered the entertainment industry as he wished, going out to film every day is early and returning late, returning home physically and mentally exhausted.
Cui Yaoqi saw her husband working so hard and decided to take on all the housework at home, and never complained because her husband had less company.
On the contrary, Kou Shixun, who has just stepped into the entertainment industry, is not well-known, so every time he will not go well because of filming difficulties and other reasons, resulting in unsmooth work, and his wife will always comfort and encourage him from time to time, which gives him the motivation to move forward.
Not long after, Kou Shixun's fame became bigger and bigger in the entertainment industry, and many companies signed contracts with him, and Cui Yaoqi couldn't help but rejoice when she saw her husband's career getting better and better.
As Kou Shixun's fame grew, there were more outside fans, especially female fans, and every time Kou Shixun appeared outside, most of the onlookers were female fans, and Kou Shixun began to be proud.
However, fame and fortune are a double-edged sword, which inevitably makes people disoriented, and Kou Shixun has made him fall again emotionally because of many reasons why female fans.
Meet your lover again
In a business gathering, Kou Shixun was inadvertently attracted by Xu Lidan's pure and vulgar beauty, since ancient heroes love beauty, Kou Shixun is no exception, I saw Kou Shixun slowly walking towards Xu Lidan.
At that time, Xu Lidan was still an inconspicuous little model, and due to the gap in identity, she had to be vigilant against Kou Shixun, but through the communication between the two, Xu Lidan felt that he was not the so-called "playboy", which made Xu Lidan let down his guard.
Subsequently, the two chatted very happily, and even after Xu Lidan learned about Kou Shixun's experience, he still admired Kou Shixun a little.
Although Xu Lidan is younger than Kou Shixun, it does not affect her respect and affection for Kou Shixun in the slightest.
After the party, Kou Shixun also asked for Xu Lidan's contact information, Xu Lidan did not refuse, immediately gave it to him, and after that, the two in their free time, contact with each other and constantly discuss life, over time, feelings developed between the two.
After a long period of understanding, Xu Lidan learned that Kou Shixun was a husband with a wife, but did not stop pursuing him, although she did this to trample on other people's marriages, but she had been fascinated by Kou Shixun and would rather give up everything to be with him.
Since ancient times "heroes sad beauty pass", Kou Shixun has been moved in the face of such a beautiful woman, but because he already has a family, before he became famous, his childhood sweetheart wife has always been by his side, and now he wants to abandon her, this kind of thing, Kou Shixun can't do it, so thinking about it, Kou Shixun can't help but have a headache.
Xu Lidan also knew Kou Shixun's troubles, did not put pressure on him, and comforted him, in order not to add trouble to Kou Shixun, so Xu Lidan wanted to leave him.
Seeing the "Hong Yan confidant" doing this, Kou Shixun felt that this kind of woman was really rare and decided to be with her all the time. After careful consideration, Kou Shixun decided to take Xu Lidan to his home and have a showdown with his wife, maybe he could get his wife's approval.
What Kou Shixun did not expect was that his actions would cause harm to marriage and family.
But then again, the reason why Kou Shixun can get the favor of the two women is because of his fame, and his fame is exchanged for strength.
The road to fame
At first, Kou Shixun was already exposed to the ranks of actors during college, and he took advantage of the vacation to earn money to work at a TV station company, when the TV company saw that he was talented as an actor, and then let him work as an extra.
It was not until graduation that Kou Shixun became the basic actor of the company, of course, in order to obtain more profits, after Kou Shixun graduated, he immediately arranged a play of "Pure Love" for him, it is said that this play wants actors to ugly appearance, for the actors at that time, appearance is greater than everything, so many people refuse to act.
At first, after Kou Shixun received this play, he also planned to refuse, because this role was not only "ugly" but also played throughout the process, but for the sake of his own career, he reluctantly agreed.
Finally, the kung fu paid off, and as soon as the TV series "Pure Love" was released, it ushered in the love of the audience, and the "ugly" role he played in the play was also appreciated by the audience, and Kou Shixun officially stepped into the road of actor.
In 1984, he co-starred with well-known actors in works such as "Last Night Star", "One Cut Plum" and won the "Best Actor Award", and also opened up the Chinese film and television market, once becoming a well-known actor in Taiwan.
Subsequently, Kou Shixun struck while the iron was hot and began filming in the Chinese mainland, and his first appearance as the villain in "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind" made the audience praise his acting skills.
And he won the "Best Actor in Asia Award" for his role as "Rong Yaohua" in the family drama "Orange is Red", and his career has been out of control ever since.
However, "men will become bad when they have money", this sentence is not wrong at all, Kou Shixun began to destroy the concept of marriage after becoming famous, so that it caused the chaotic situation of marriage later.
Author's point of view
After Kou Shixun became famous, he began to be confused by fame and fortune, once broke the traditional way of marriage, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, the key is to see the future development, in the case of a family, but also to love another person, is bound to affect the original family.
If Kou Shixun is not blind and can restrain his selfish desires, he will not let the marriage develop into this situation, and he can even have a perfect family.
A person should not only care about the immediate situation, but also think about the long term, if you insist on doing it for your own selfish desires, it will only be counterproductive, so consider things comprehensively, do not only care about yourself, but also understand the feelings of others.