Reporter Tian Weiwei/Comprehensive report
Internet celebrity "Yaole" held a press conference today (21st) to explain the process of being forced to have sex and being secretly filmed sex videos at the age of 16, but the press conference was just beginning, Yan Yalun went to the scene to bow and apologize, Yaole once collapsed on the table, and finally temporarily left the scene to calm down, he explained the process of being violated by Yan Yalun and secretly filming the film, and encouraged the victim with his own experience, and shouted to Yan Yalun: "After the news is revealed, I apologize, this apology is very insincere, and I don't think it's necessary."
▲ The Yaole incident shows that Yan Yalun personally went to the scene to bow and apologize. (Photo by reporter Tang Xinghan)
The following is the full text of the press conference:
I met Mr. Wu Genglin in the middle of 2017 and dated together, I was only 16 years old that year, I came to Taipei alone, and I was very yearning for the work in the entertainment industry, so I came to Taipei to study art school, and then when I met him at that time, he was an object I admired very much, so I believed in him very much at that time, and I trusted him very much, but also because of this belief and trust, it will lead to subsequent behavior.
Next, I will explain the incident to everyone, the first time he had sex against my will was in Hengdian in 2018, because he had a job in Hengdian, and then he would get up earlier than me to prepare for the shoot, that time she got up early, but did not go to work in advance, he turned around and lifted the quilt and put his genitals into my body, at that time my whole person was very scared and frightened, I woke up, and then I firmly told him not to have such behavior, but because of the body shape, Because of the figure, hindered by strength, there will be follow-up behavior, I can only hypnotize myself afterwards, all of this may just be the natural process of adults growing up at the age of 18 in the relationship, but I still don't understand it when I am young, so I hypnotize myself again and again to rationalize this behavior.
I had a very complicated mood at that time, because I was in Hengdian at that time, I was only 16 years old, I was the only one who went alone, I only knew him over there, I didn't know anyone else, and after that happened, I had no other choice or leave.
Next comes the section about private video cannon shooting.
I remember very well the first time was at his house, in Tianmu, his bed, when the lights were off, I remember him picking up his phone to record, I was very firm and told him not to do this, and then he put the phone down afterwards, and then I also ticked him at that time, because I thought that if I had ticked, I would do it, at that time, so I ticked him and said to him, I really can't do this anymore, I really don't like it, he chose to tell me, he was willing to do it, gave me this promise, But when was this lie debunked?
In September 2018, on the eve of the Mid-Autumn Festival, I received countless private messages from netizens and netizens, on that day, my private video and his were circulated on the Internet, and my whole person was very helpless and did not know what to do, because I did not know that there would be this video, and I did not know how it came about.
But based on the fact that I had broken up with him, I had only been with him before... I had sex before, so I ran to a private message and said, "Is it you?" Why and when did you secretly take the photo? When was it recorded? And why are these things exposed on the Internet at this point in time after you finished shooting?
But he chose to answer me at that time, saying that he didn't know how all this happened, didn't know how the mobile phone video would leak out, and he only answered me that the mobile phone may have been stolen by someone with intentions when it was sent for repair a while ago.
But this behavior until 5 years later, I still can't accept it, I can't accept it, I also feel that this reason is perfunctory, is to evade responsibility, as for his reply yesterday mentioned that he after many investigations, to verify the mobile phone matter, then I want to ask Mr. Yan Yalun here, what have you investigated in these 5 years? What information did you find? Could you please explain? Or is this film actually leaked by you, the photographer?
Finally, I want to say that no matter what this matter is, it is illegal to shoot underage intimate films, this is unchanged, please Mr. Yan to respond positively to the above points, do not try to confuse the public.
Q: Yan Yalun said that he did not do anything to force him?
Yaole: I don't know about this matter, if you are following my 2018 outflow news, you will know, I privately messaged his content at that time with screenshots and codes on my IG, because I was still young at the time, I didn't know how to deal with it, the only thing I thought of seemed to be that I could only deal with it like this, so I proved my innocence, my conversation record at that time was obviously to tell him, I only had sex with you alone, and I didn't allow you to shoot, these we all have conversation records, on my mobile phone, His mobile phone may also have a backup, so for what he said that there is no compulsion to this matter, I think it is nonsense, he did happen, whether it is between couples, between sexes, between communication, everyone should have sexual autonomy, whether the other party is your other half or your partner, you should protect your body well, not the other half said that if you want, you must give, this is my side of the statement.
I think he replied to me on the above points first, and stopped trying to confuse the public, I think that's fine.
In fact, after these 5 years of my suffering, from the time of the incident to now, I originally lived on campus, and then, the strange eyes between my peers made me choose to suspend school, the incident made me silent for a long time, during this period I have been adjusting, precipitating, constantly convincing myself that this matter is nothing, but in fact, many things are not good after time, some things can not be precipitated by time, there is no way to accumulate through the years, scars can slowly disappear, and then, I am also to the last two years, after I graduated from high school, Life also feels step by step after being on track, there is a slow improvement, but the harm is caused at the moment, I really can't deal with it, the first is too young, the second is that no one is willing at that time, few people lend a hand at that time, I was very helpless at that time, so until recently, I didn't have that courage, and I also felt that I had to stand up, I don't know if there are more victims, to be done by him to do such things, if I feel that I don't stand up, How could those people have the courage to stand up?
I don't like it, I won't swallow medicine, so I think, I will use other ways to heal my body and mind, I really don't want to, I think his apologies, should not be after I broke the news, he apologized to me, this is a very sad point, that is, he also said in the article, he has also tried to adjust and change in recent years, so where is it? Is it for other victims? Or am I not important? Or wait? Or what did he think of it? I think that today the whole thing will be revealed before making an apology, which is very insincere, and I don't think it's necessary.
As far as I know, there are many people who have similar experiences, they feel that we should take good care of our bodies, and then choose to tell me about this, I don't want to reply to this matter, I just want to tell everyone what I saw, heard, and felt fear, but I was more about his underage sex videos secretly filmed and distributed, and asked him to do a positive explanation.
I think how to deal with it in the future, I don't want to participate, I just want to have a close to this matter, how his other external work is, I can't and don't want to participate anymore.
Q: Advice for other victims?
From 2018 to now, 5 years have been a lot... It's not this person (Yan Yalun), similar to this case, regardless of sexual harassment or sexual assault, etc., the victims of large and small incidents came to me to chat, came to me to tell me how he was back then, or what kind of things he was doing on campus, the same as I chose to suspend school, see me return to campus, be very happy for me, I am very moved, etc., I hope we get back on our feet, and will also give each other encouragement, I also want to tell you here, all the people who have been hurt, you... It's not your problem, because there are many people in this world who have a lot of malice to manipulate, to tease these scars of yours, I think these scars are a lifetime pain in the hearts of many people, he can't get back up because of time, I'm very happy to have a group of good friends and very good family around me, spend these 5 years with me, let me get back on track, I also believe that you people who have the same shock, can also find their new purpose in life again, I also bless.
▲ The Yaole incident shows that Yan Yalun personally went to the scene to bow and apologize. (Photo by reporter Tang Xinghan)
Q: Have you always been in contact with Yan Yalun?
This thing is like this, after I caused harm to this incident, I constantly adjusted myself, constantly re-stepping on the previous track, at that time, I thought that it was my original goal in life to do what I had not done and did not do well before, so I returned to campus life a few years ago, not for academic qualifications, but to make up for the lack of time in high school at that time, and wanted to put it back in these years.
It's the same way to contact him, and I want to make this look like... It seems good, maybe part hypnotizes yourself, part wants to... I want to force myself to accept, in fact, there is nothing about this matter, but it is what I just talked about, in fact, looking back, the hurtful impact of this matter is still there, so I will choose to say this matter when I can still talk about it, and my state can still be said.
There was a time when I was afraid to go out, during that period of 2018, I was very scared, I felt that many of my friends around me were great, I loved them very much, because they accepted my past unconditionally, they would not treat my past as a joke, would not expose my scars, you are a group of very good, very loving, mutual friends.
He (Yan Yalun) has LINE and IG video me, call like this, I didn't (answer), yesterday's situation is still adjusting, because just said it, I think to give each other a space, because yesterday I was also waiting for his reply at that time, but waited for such a reply, so I had to stand up and want him to face up to the above questions I said, and ask him to confirm it well.
Q: Yan Yalun has 3 men with split legs?
I knew about this before the weekly broke the news, but today's focus is to focus on the inappropriate sexual intercourse between him and me, and the filming outflow of the film, which I think is the focus of our discussion today.
▲Yaole. (Photo by reporter Tang Xinghan)
Q: Yan Yalun threatened to find the underworld?
I just mentioned, that's mostly what I listened to... Because I just saw the news this morning, I don't know if it was a revelation, it's a similar thing happened, that is, to tell others, if I had come forward to accuse at that time, he would have asked the underworld to deal with me, I don't know if this matter is true or not, but I just want to tell you, I heard this incident is very scared, very feeling... How could such a thing happen in Taiwan? Then because I heard this more than once, I chose to tell everyone my feelings, then his statement is his statement, my feelings are my feelings, but I still hope that he can reply to me for other things first, and then we will talk later.
I just mentioned that I want to put everything on a normal track, so my feelings about him are very complicated, on the one hand, he hurts me deeply, on the other hand, I love him deeply, these are two very contradictory points, very contradictory, I myself also often contradict myself in my heart, why do I have to do such a thing, but I think it is through such a process, I can adjust myself step by step, I think these processes are also a path that victims must go through, to face their problems squarely, face up to their scars, face problems, For good, bad, or otherwise, those scars will have to be healed one day.
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