Speaking of Sun Li, everyone knows that she is a good actress. Moreover, now it is also a double harvest of family business.
But few people may know that her family life as a child was not happy.
Between her and her father Sun Zhihong, there was a severed relationship, knowing that her father reconciled in his later years.
So why is that?
01：
Sun Li's family conditions were not good when she was a child, and as the only daughter in the family, she did not receive the care of her parents.
Because when he was a child, the relationship between his parents was not good, and he often quarreled.
And the feelings between parents also disappeared little by little in this frequent quarrel.
At that time, Sun Li's father, Sun Zhihong, was still very young, because of a failed marriage, he had other women outside.
This completely broke the family, which was already on the verge of being broken.
In 1995, Sun Li's father divorced, when she was only 12 years old.
02：
After the divorce, Sun Zhihong only gave the mother and daughter 2,000 yuan and left.
And soon after, Sun Zhihong remarried, married other women, and lived a very happy life.
Sun Li and her mother, on the other hand, had a very hard time.
Sun Li's mother is also a stubborn person. After the divorce, one person bears all the expenses of the family.
In order to make her daughter live a better life, she began to work overtime for a long time.
Moreover, for the cultivation of daughters and grandchildren, there is no relaxation. She sent her daughter to learn to dance and learn various talents in order to make her daughter more outstanding.
And Sun Li was also very contentious, and at the age of 15, she entered the literary troupe.
But when she saw her mother becoming more and more haggard because of overwork, her hatred for her father became deeper and deeper.
03：
After Sun Zhihong had a new family, his main energy was on the new family. Therefore, most of the important time in my daughter's life, I was not with her.
Later, when it was learned that Sun Li had entered the literary troupe.
Sun Zhihong specifically went to see his daughter, but he was faced with the indifference and rejection of his daughter Sun Li.
Since then, Sun Zhihong can only silently care for his daughter.
Later, Sun Li went to Beijing to develop, at that time she had not yet become famous, let alone filming, and even did not have a place to live.
Even in the end, because there was no money to pay the rent, the landlord issued an "eviction order".
In desperation and helplessness, Sun Li received anonymous funding, a total of 4,000 yuan.
This amount of money was very much at that time, and Sun Li also relied on this money to survive the most difficult days at that time.
And this money was actually funded anonymously by her father.
04：
At that time, Sun Zhihong wanted to help his daughter. After consulting with his wife, he used his own money plus borrowed money to make up the 4,000 yuan.
Later, in order to continue to support his daughter, Sun Zhihong also went to wash bottles to make money.
What is rare and valuable is that his wife has also been with him at that time, washing wine bottles together to make money to support Sun Li.
And Sun Zhihong and his wife's anonymous funding did not stop until after Sun Li became famous and popular.
And Sun Li, after knowing his fame, did not know that the person who anonymously funded himself was his father and stepmother.
After becoming famous, Sun Li let his mother live a good life to repay her mother's kindness.
As for the father, he still chose to ignore it.
This made Sun Zhihong feel very sad, but he still did not tell his daughter about his funding for her.
Until later, Sun Zhihong's wife was seriously ill and needed money to treat her illness, and Sun Li initially planned to ignore it.
But after receiving a letter from his half-sister, he learned that the people who sponsored him were his father and stepmother.
Therefore, Sun Li finally went to see his father, looking at his father's old appearance, and the hatred of many years finally disappeared.
epilogue:
Later, Sun Li undertook all the treatment costs of her stepmother and bought a house for her father to give him a pension.
At the same time, he also provided a lot of help for his young sister.
Father and daughter, years of stereotypes and misunderstandings, finally became the past.
"Hate a person, you will never get happiness, and love, can make you get real human peace in your heart." 」 This is what Sun Li once said.
Indeed, what her father did when he was young was indeed wrong.
But as a father, the love for her has never changed at all.
"Blood is thicker than water" has never been unforgivable, some are just willing to let go and reconcile with themselves.
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