Text|Autumn Diaphragm
In fact, any thing encountered in life has two sides to people, yes, any thing. Both have positive effects and negative effects.
If we only think about the negative effects of this matter, the more we think about it, the more pessimistic, the more helpless we think, the more we think about it, the more we drill into a dead end, until we get into the tip of the bull's horn and get stuck there, unable to move.
However, if you think about its positive effect from a different angle, the more you think about it, the happier you are, the more you think about it, the more energetic and hopeful, and even your life will suddenly become cheerful.
Therefore, what kind of things we encounter is not the most important, the most important thing is how we look at it and whether we can positively interpret the impact of this matter on ourselves. This is not the spirit of Aq, but the optimism of always looking at our situation.
If a person can positively interpret the impact of everything he encounters, then this person will not have negative pessimism, let alone endless internal friction.
For example, in the afternoon, the weather was clear, the sun ☀ was like a hot air balloon spitting hot air to the earth, hanging in the sky, so hot that people just wanted to hold their heads and drill into the air-conditioned room, but they saw a sudden heavy rain, which instantly turned the road into a vast ocean. So much so that it makes me wonder where this rain comes from?
At first, through the window, I looked at the dazzling sunlight outside, and then at the curved lines of water droplets on the window glass. For a moment, I decided that some troublemaker must have sprayed water on the glass and deliberately fooled everyone into playing.
However, the sound of crackling rain hitting the window glass finally convinced me that there was a sun rain outside.
"My car is raining..." "I didn't bring an umbrella..." "Why don't you go home later!"
When the sound of the room sounded, I suddenly remembered that I didn't have an umbrella, and my car was also rained...
If the rain doesn't stop, even if it's only a few tens of meters exposed to heavy rain when you go home, it will be drizzled into a falling soup chicken, right? That's right!
At this time, a voice suddenly sounded, "Then let's take a walk in the rain!" Who can say that raining with a feeling of enjoyment is not a different kind of beauty? Ha ha! ”
Then it's good to get rained.
As a result, everyone began to look forward to a hearty rain and take the opportunity to cheer in the rain. Otherwise, if you deliberately walk in the heavy rain without an umbrella, others will definitely think that you are sick! And not lightly ill!
For example, one day, when I was shopping at a street stall, the stall owner told me how unlucky he was today, not only did he not make any money, but he also lost his coat in the back of his car. I said the old one doesn't go to the new one, you have a chance to buy a new dress, and he laughed.
For example, the aunt told me how miserable she was without her only daughter, and I said to her, how blessed you are, although you have no daughter, your son-in-law and remarried stepwife still support you as your own mother. The aunt listened and grabbed my arm excitedly and said, yes! Oh, yes!
See, no matter how bad our mood is, we can instantly surrender to positive thoughts after what happened, and burst into laughter.
So ah! If you want to live happily, read everything you encounter positively! You will reap endless joy and happiness.