The male virtue champion was stolen by the ugly man, and the curse of Japan's "Best Mother Award" reappeared?

If you don't admit it, you have to admit it, Ryoko Hirosue suddenly issued a statement and changed her words to admit that she had indeed cheated on Michelin-starred chef Mr. Shusaku Toba. She apologized to the public and Mr. Toba's family for her indiscretion.

She confessed that she had spoken to her husband and three children, explained the incident and said "I'm sorry", and they understood and accepted her as an immature mother.

She apologized to fans, "I will engrave my sins in my heart and think clearly about the rest of my life." Ryoko Hiroshima's office said it would punish her indefinitely.

Ryoko Hirosue publicly apologized and seemed sincere, but "Weekly Bunchun" immediately published the handwritten exchange diary of the two, which was also affectionate.

Ryoko Hirosue wrote, "This is the first time I have pursued love so seriously, and I feel very happy now because I love you from the bottom of my heart. ”

"Thanks to you, I realized what it means to not give up on love."

Bird Song Zhou Zuo also confessed: "I love you very much, I just want you to be happy and be with you."

Unexpectedly, this era is still exchanging diaries, but Bu Lun fell in love with the drama of pure love movies, if it were not for the "Weekly Bunchun" holding this diary, Ryoko Hirosue might continue to hide the truth.

The second derailment of the beautiful girl

Ryoko Hirosue and Shusaku Toba, who first began to have work contacts in 2021, were photographed meeting privately last month, and Shusaku Toba escorted Ryoko Hirosue into his car.

On the evening of June 3, Ryoko Hirosue was photographed checking into a luxury hotel in the city alone with her luggage, and Toba Shusaku then entered the same room directly.

The camera did not capture the intimate contact between the two, so Ryoko Hirosue had a very tough attitude, denied the scandal, and said that she was a mother of three children!

Everyone doesn't want to believe it, but because the two look really incompatible, the female star cheats and doesn't look at the face?

The movie "Love is Delicious" said that food can get through to produce the illusion of sweetness, even in the face of such a man who looks like this?

Ryoko Hirosue, but the last beautiful girl of the 20th century, the dream lover of countless post-80s and 90s.

When I think of her, I still think of the Japanese girl with neat short hair and a refreshing smile.

In 1995, 15-year-old Ryoko Hirosue made her official debut by shooting a facial cleanser commercial.

Soon after his debut, he starred as an actor in many film and television dramas such as "Heart's" and "Shota's Sushi", and the male stars he cooperated with were high-value male stars such as Takuya Kimura, Takashi Kashiwahara, Yutaka Takenouchi, and Takashi Tanmachi.

Two years later, Ryoko Hirosue released her debut single "MajiでKoiする5 seconds ago/とまどい" and debuted as a singer, and at the end of the year, she made her debut on stage at the NHK Red and White Song Festival.

Japanese media called her "the last beautiful girl at the end of the 20th century", and the first photo album sold 460,000 copies, while most female artists in the same period only sold 20,000 or 30,000 copies.

She also became the dream lover of many boys, and there were 20,000 people lining up just to see her.

The development of his acting career was super smooth, and his studies were not delayed, and at the age of 18, he was admitted to Haruki Murakami's alma mater, Waseda University, which ranks in the top ten in Japan.

At that time, Ryoko Hirosue was really like a flash girl in a Japanese drama, but it's a pity... Indulge in love.

Despite the opposition of the company and fans, she fell in love with Yusuke Ise Valley in a high-profile manner.

Yusuke Isetani's career is popular, but his girlfriends are more famous than the other, in addition to Ryoko Hiroshima, he has also had scandals with female stars such as Masami Nagasawa and Ayumi Hamasaki.

Later, Masami Nagasawa accused him of domestic violence, and the Japanese media increased the news that Ryoko Hirosue was also a victim and was violently treated by him many times during communication.

In 2020, Yusuke Ise Valley was arrested for drug use

After breaking up with Yusuke Isetani, Ryoko Hirosue once dropped out of Waseda University on the grounds of concentrating on her acting career.

As a result, she did not make up to think about pursuing a career, and after dropping out of school for two months, she announced the news of her marriage to model Okazawa Takahiro Fengko, and entered the labor leave on December 17.

In 2004, she and Okazawa held a wedding ceremony, and on April 10, their son was born, when Ryoko Hirosue was only 24 years old.

The marriage between a strong woman and a weak man lasted only 4 years before it ended.

The year she announced her divorce, she met "The Undertaker". The film swept various international awards, including the Academy Awards, and Ryoko Hirosue herself won the Yokohama Film Festival Award for Best Supporting Actress.

Ryoko Hiroshima, whose career should have taken off again, pressed the pause button again because of love.

In 2010, she married a candle creator, Candle JUNE. The fans were almost mad, this second-married husband not only has a career that is not as good as Ryoko Hiroshima, but also has a good look... Quite offbeat.

Fans have been dissing his giant stud earrings, and I also have earache to watch

He is a male virtue champion with a different appearance, not only changed his wife's surname after marriage and changed his name to "Guangmo Shun", but also supported his wife in all aspects, including cheating on a young male star in 2014.

The object is 9-year-old actor Ken Sato, who has played the live-action version of "Ronin Kenshin". During the rise of his career, he exposed his unromantic love, which scared the little brother to cry and admit it, kneeling and begging the company for forgiveness.

Hiroshimo Shun laughed at the rumors... Indicates being able to understand. A year later, the daughter of the two was also born, without any signs of marriage, including this time, Guang Moshun also replied "no comment".

Ryoko Hiroshima's career image was hardly affected, and she even played the role of a cancer mother in the true story adaptation of "Miso Soup of Little Flower".

This tear-jerking and inspirational film tells the story of a mother with terminal cancer who teaches her daughter to cook and encourages her to live well in the future. Ryoko Hirosue cried many times because of this role, and her interpretation is indeed very moving.

This drama deepened Ryoko Hirosue's aura of a good mother, and in 2022, she won the "Best Mother Award" established by the Japan Mothers Association.

As a result, a year later, Ryoko Hirosue was exposed to cheating on Toba Shusaku...

Some netizens found that the "curse" of the "Best Mother Award" seemed to have been fulfilled again.

Winner of the "Best Mother Award", one scandal after another

The "Best Mom Award" is an award established by the Japan Mothers' Association in 2007 with the aim of selecting "to be the best mother for mothers' aspirations and goals."

The results are decided by the mothers' votes, divided into economic, cultural, sports and other fields, and 4-6 mothers win awards every year.

Embarrassingly, the winners of this award have successively broken out rumors of bullying or cheating and divorce.

Hitomi Kuroki, who won the Best Mother Award in 2008, was accused of bullying classmates in 2012, forcibly taking off classmates' clothes and taking nude photos without punishment.

In 2009, Eriko Imai, a 2009 winner, had an unromantic relationship with a married colleague, Ken Hashimoto, a married colleague, and photos of the two dating and hitchhiking to sleep hand in hand were leaked.

As soon as she denied it, she was exposed by "Weekly Women" with a history of snatching love.

According to the report, before Eriko Imai divorced her ex-husband SHOGO in 2007, she cheated on the 40-something video director Fuseiyoji who already had a live-in girlfriend, and the two dated for 8 years after taking office.

In 2010, the winner Makiko Ekaku, was exposed in 2014 to instruct agents to graffiti on the outside wall of other people's homes, and in 2015, her husband was exposed to cheating, and she publicly said that she "didn't care" because men would cheat.

She separated from her husband but never divorced, and two years later she was revealed to be in a relationship with a married man who had been arrested for a huge investment fraud.

The 2011 winner, Miki Imai, was controversial as soon as she was selected, because her marriage was inserted after her best friend Kumiko Yamashita caused her to rise to the throne after her divorce.

2013 winner Nozomi Tsuji, a member of the Good Morning Girls group, has been fiercely criticized by Japanese netizens many times for her words and deeds, but after giving birth to four children, she still goes her own way in the face of criticism, but has become a popular blogger.

2017 winner Maki Goto, who was revealed by "Weekly Bunchun" in 2019, cheated on his 28-year-old old love.

After the East Window incident, Goto's husband also demanded 3.3 million yen (about 200,000 yuan) from the old love, and Goto wrote a letter of repentance, admitting that he had had two physical relations with his old love at the hotel.

This claim is also a Japanese feature, many married cheating in Japan will find married, just to minimize the economic damage when the incident occurs...

The winner in 2021 is former AKB48 member Mariko Shinoda, who was exposed to cheating not long after winning the award, but she refused to admit it and started a divorce lawsuit with her husband.

Just during the divorce mediation stage, her husband released a recording of Mariko Shinoda admitting to cheating and an app that discovered the cheating in court...

In the recording, Mariko Shinoda's husband said that he saw her line chat record, cursed disgustingly, and said that he saw her enter the apartment of the cheating partner, and asked her if she should not put her daughter first?

Mariko Shinoda responded, because she was "too lonely", and kept apologizing to her husband and hoping that he would give him a chance.

Then there's Ryoko Hirosue in 2022...

What I wonder is that many "best mothers" are not "thunderous" after winning awards, so what is the vision and worship of voting mothers for winning mothers?

Are they so tolerant of cheating?

The cheating "good wife and good mother"

According to a 2020 survey by Japan's Japan Sex Survey, 46.3% of Japanese women had had an affair.

Another study, JEX, a Japanese family planning research center, showed that women have an increasing rate of infidelity as they age.

At the age of 60, 30.8% have cheated on them, and the probability of one in three is one.

The "cheating pandemic" is directly reflected in Japanese-style film and television works, and the classic works "Paradise Lost" in the early years and "Paper Moon" and "Daylight Beauty" in recent years have female cheating themes...

In Japan's family structure, women usually take on family roles such as childcare, nursing, and housework, while men are responsible for working outside the home, taking on political, economic, and employment responsibilities.

This "public-private separation model" within the male protagonist and the female protagonist seems to be a reasonable division of labor, but in essence, it is exploiting the time spent between husband and wife, cutting off their social functions and ways of thinking, like people with two sets of values in two worlds forcibly living under the same roof.

So except for the honeymoon period of just getting married, the couple will easily become indifferent and bored, and then mistakenly think that the one they meet outside the eaves is true love.

Why is Japanese cheating always photographed as literary pure love, because they really think they are applauding true love!

Especially the post-70s and 80s generation such as Ryoko Hirosue, also known as the "lost generation", were born after the women's liberation movement, were well educated, and had relatively strong work and independent abilities.

But Japan has always been a patriarchal society, and when they grow up, the social voices they hear are still "if they don't get married, they will become or fail dogs", "temporary workers are bride candidates for regular employees", "raising children is a mother's job"...

So they obviously have the same work ability as men, or because of the "fear of losing dogs" rushed into marriage, which is like participating in the "music chair" game, when the music stops, find the nearest chair to sit on, regardless of whether it is broken or not.

Video source: In a recent street interview in Wanwan, Chizuko Ueno also mentioned the concept

When they have children, out of "motherhood punishment" and the nature of raising children, women "voluntarily" sacrifice their careers to return to the family and become busy, lonely and unwilling housewives.

There is a crooked theory in "Day Face", which means that if the wife falls in love outside, she will be more tolerant of her husband when she returns home, and she can wash his underwear in a good mood, and the family will be happy.

What happiness is there to use guilt to offset the loss of a loveless marriage, self-deception.

In such a distorted social atmosphere, a female star like Ryoko Hirosue who has a career, has three children, a "male virtue" husband, and can also pursue "true love"... It is not surprising to be forgiven and accepted.

Sister E's epilogue:

Some people say that this is the "Best Mother Award", not the "Best Wife Award", of course, cheating is not a stain on the selection...

Both men and women, once cheating, I can trust that they still love their children, but it is hard to admit that they are good parents. Because I can't imagine how a good father and mother can talk to his children about his marital infidelity?

As a parent, you should tell your children what love, family and moral responsibility are, and provide due emotional contributions and value models for their children's growth.

There can be a variety of reasons to cheat, but the very important principle of avoiding cheating is not to underestimate marriage, and do not rush to participate in the game called Music Chair because of "defeated dog anxiety".

Chizuko Ueno does not marry, not because she has been hurt by men, but because she respects marriage and never underestimates it.

She also asked herself several times: "Can I be with this person for the rest of my life?" Can I make this commitment? And her answer is always: "Sorry, it's hard to say next year." ”

If you don't underestimate marriage, you won't get married hastily, and you won't always say that you meet true love after marriage.