Yesterday, I wrote about the derailment of the famous Japanese actress Ryoko Hirosue, and found that the public opinion on our side has almost changed drastically from 10 years ago.
In the case that Ryoko Hirosue and the cheating partner are both having a spouse and children during marriage, many people's views are actually "it doesn't matter if a big beauty cheats, but aesthetic degradation can't be tolerated, how can you find such an ugly one."
Appearance is justice to the extreme.
It seems that as long as my sister is beautiful enough and rich enough, cheating is like buying a dress, as long as she picks it up and looks good enough, she can understand and praise.
Yesterday I was thinking, will Dong Jie regret that it happened 10 years ago, if it happened now, how good it would be, maybe the big guy still has to feel sorry for the beautiful woman cheating object is too ugly to deserve her, shouting sister to improve the aesthetics is over, will not scold or ridicule at all.
Then he said "she just made the mistakes that women all over the world do", and directly won numbness.
Don't say it yet.
It's just that coincidental.
On Dong Jie's side, at almost the same time, he took the initiative to revisit the old matter and overturned the case.
Looking at the latest interview, I was stunned.
No, she doesn't really feel like she's waiting for the best time, does she?
Give a brief introduction to some friends who don't know much about Dong Jie's recent situation.
Since the second half of last year, Dong Jie has achieved a comprehensive counterattack in word-of-mouth treatment and career through step-by-step and solid operations.
In July last year, Pan Yueming publicly reposted Dong Jie and his son Dingding's Weibo account for the first time.
In January this year, a group photo celebrating the New Year was posted, and the back looked very similar to Pan Yuemingding's father and son, but because it was too bizarre, the people did not dare to guess.
A few days later, the mystery was revealed, and Pan Yueming and Dong Jie exchanged Weibo for their son's birthday for the first time in 11 years, achieving the ice breaking of the century.
It even once triggered rumors of Pan Yueming and Dong Jie's remarriage.
It was later confirmed that Pan Yueming and his girlfriend Yin Shuyi were still lovers, and they did not break up with their current girlfriend or remarry their ex-wife.
However, with Pan Yueming, who is now popular with the audience, to escort her, Dong Jie successfully forged a new road and set sail again.
The deeply victimized ex-husbands all chose to forgive, the family affairs and reconciliation ended, and the top was also very attractive, and most of the melon-eating masses were no longer attached to the bloody past of many years ago.
Solved the biggest problem of audience antipathy over the years, Dong Jie became a blockbuster in the circle of goods, and quickly became the top, many people praised her high taste + professionalism + good attitude, although the price of the goods bought is not low but the sales are quite amazing.
In terms of actual effect, after reconciling with Pan Yueming, the incident of cheating and splashing dirty water and fighting a lawsuit to tear X was really a turnover.
For Dong Jie, this is also the ultimate she can gain at this stage.
But who knows.
It seems that what Dong Jie hopes to have is not forgetting and forgiving, but understanding and support.
When netizens chose to turn over the divorce war, Dong Jiefang himself brought up the old matter again.
And it outputs a stunning view.
In the latest interview, Dong Jie and his friend Ganlu made remarks one after another.
Ganlu said that the divorce turmoil in 2012 brought great harm to Dong Jie's acting career and hit her hard.
But Dong Jie was very frank, did not complain about anything, and did not say anything about the other party (ex-husband) (...??? ）。
It is said that Dong Jie is a simple person who does not like to express but is very resilient.
Dong Jie also told how difficult it was after her divorce, especially her career.
In 2014, she returned to starring in the TV series "Tiger Mother and Cat Dad" for the first time, playing a female partner and a villain, but she encountered negative comments, and public opinion was very unfriendly to her, she was really difficult at that time.
Dong Jie finally concluded that the past 10 years have been very messy, and everything except his family has scattered.
He also said that his entire outlook on life was only constructed after the age of 30.
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The interview came out.
But all the melon-eating masses who still lost their memory were deeply shocked.
What is she tolerating for? What not to count?
What does it mean not complaining about anything?
Didn't say anything to the other party?
To be the second daughter of the most popular little swallow in internal entertainment at that time, it was bitter to get such good resources, and did you think about how difficult it was for Pan Yueming, who had completely destroyed her career due to her attack at that time?
What did I do back then.
Do you really not remember to erase it directly, as if nothing had happened?
Many netizens who have not reviewed the old melon and now see that Dong Jie no longer has emotions have been instantly set off by memories and killed.
If Dong Jie doesn't remember.
You can review it with the melon-eating masses.
At that time, she almost succeeded in crucifying her ex-husband to death and never turning over.
In 2012, Dong Jie unilaterally announced her divorce and wrote a long essay with tears in her eyes, accusing Pan Yueming of excessive gambling and debt arrears, Dong Jie desperately making money to pay off debts and so on...
All this made her unbearable, determined to end the marriage and expose Pan Yueming's true face.
Leng Qingqiu's magic was amazing, and everyone unconditionally believed Dong Jie's every word.
Overnight, Pan Yueming became a rat crossing the street.
His clarifications and explanations were not listened to, and he was directly treated as a quibble, and his career was played in an instant.
Even if it was later confirmed that Pan's casino photo was just the most ordinary photo of Macau tourists, there was no evidence of his gambling addiction (Pan's visa showed that he had only visited Macau once in many years).
also won the lawsuit with Dong Jie's agent.
It didn't help his career or word of mouth.
The follow-up reversal and the victory or defeat of the lawsuit have nothing to do with it, everyone stood up for Dong Jie, all the content of her original text was tacitly true, felt sorry for her, supported her, everything was Pan Yueming's fault, and it was useless to explain anything.
It was not until the next year that Zhuo Wei exposed a series of intimate photos of Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi, who was also married, that this matter was completely reversed at the public level and the case was overturned.
Since then, Dong Jie and the cold and autumn invincible filter on her body have also been shattered.
No longer enjoy the treatment of being loved, tolerated, and distressed.
Perhaps in Dong Jie's opinion, falling from the favored cloud is her biggest misfortune, and she has always felt that she is too bitter and difficult over the years.
But she didn't feel at all that even if she was exposed for cheating, lied and punched in the face, splashed dirty water and lost the lawsuit, she still enjoyed the only preferential treatment.
First of all, the ex-husband.
Pan Yueming is very persistent and firmly believes that Xiao Dong has always been the kindest, simplest and best girl when he first met.
Even if Dong Jie used his personal account to write a long article, creating a series of rumors and pushing it on him.
When he filed a lawsuit to defend his rights, he did not forget to confess: "Even if he is so vilified, he still firmly believes that Xiao Dong is innocent and that it is all bad things done by agents."
It was said that the agent had brought Xiao Dong badly, and he did not believe that Xiao Dong did those things, and the agent was shirking his responsibility to Xiao Dong.
Later, the divorce became a foregone conclusion, and Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi were also exposed.
Pan Yueming still didn't say a word about this, didn't say a word, Dong Jie was not good.
The custody was not snatched over, and it was given to Dong Jie, and he didn't see the child for 10 years and didn't say anything, so he silently celebrated the child's birthday on Weibo every year.
Dong Jie took her children on variety shows, and the high-pressure education method in the show was criticized, and the emotional dependence was overly wearing a wedding dress and shouting that she wanted to marry her son was incomprehensible.
In the program, he directly said that "the top must accept the reality of not having a father".
Pan Yueming was so angry that he lost control for the only time, and sent a Weibo question to Dong Jie if he dared to tell the truth.
When the anger went down, it died down.
Not only is he disappeared, but he can't see his children.
Elderly parents are also accompanied by grievances.
In the past, it was parents who watched their sons being scolded on the Internet, and they were so angry that they couldn't stand it every day.
Later, the agent Chen Zhixi issued an article angrily scolding Dong Jie for being cold-blooded, saying that Pan Yueming's father was seriously ill and wanted to let the child see his grandfather, but he was refused.
That's it.
Pan Yueming still seems to have good intentions and expectations for Dong Jie.
By the second half of last year, as soon as I got the opportunity to break the ice, I immediately and unconditionally cooperated.
Not to mention resources.
Pan Yueming cleared the charges and still had a quiet career for many years, knowing that he turned over with an online drama many years later, and his career was at a low point for many years, and he almost could not receive decent works and important roles.
Dong Jie made a smooth comeback in the second year after the turmoil with Wang Dazhi, and the dramas were about one after another, either the important second actress or the heroine, basically they were all star dramas, and the variety shows were also on a bunch of them, and their careers almost never stopped.
The audience piece.
It seems that he is not friendly to her, and to be honest, it is not bad for Dong Jie.
With her feat back then, she can continue to mix the circle unscathed afterwards, and even the audience is willing to cooperate and forget about it, break the ice like their whole family, and support her again after Dong Jie brought the goods to spend money for her real money.
The attitude follows the wind, and this kind of treatment is also rare.
Don't say that you made a mistake and hit it backwards, almost ruining the rest of your life.
Even if it's just a purely cheating artist, few can be so smooth.
Even now.
The remarks have also reversed slightly, as she wished.
Some big V said that the people who accused her of cheating were male netizens, female netizens were angry that she did not cherish herself, and the swan was looking for ugly men.
To accuse her is misogyny.
Girls only think that she has heavy tastes, and they don't know how to find a handsome one when they cheat.
There are even people who sympathize with her for the lack of light in her eyes after marriage, and it must be the man who makes her unhappy.
He also boasted that even if she endured those online violence, she would not explain or justify.
Oh my God.
I doubt life.
Is it to present her with a certificate?
Times are different.
Regarding how serious the emotional derailment is and what price it should pay, it is normal for everyone to have different views as their different outlooks on life change.
There is no problem with feeling that emotional mistakes are not capital crimes.
It's okay to allow people to start over after being punished.
But if you beautify the mistakes of the past into medals, I can't wait for others to apologize to her, understand her, feel sorry for her, and empathize with her.
It's too outrageous and greedy.
It doesn't matter how many years it is now.
To put it bluntly, the bottom line of some common sense consensus will not change.
Mistakes can be made.
But you can't bite back and try to ruin someone else's life to make yourself start over.
People need contentment.
Especially the favored minority.
Excessive greed will lead to a backlash.
After all, the audience just grew up, got older and became less intense.
However, it is still alive.