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Life is the most wonderful thing in the world, a small seed may grow into a towering tree, and a fertilized egg conceived in October will give birth to a new baby. In this world, new life is emerging every minute, and we should be in awe of life.
Ms. Chen, 28 years old this year, just got married the year before last and was fortunate to be pregnant at the beginning of this year. Since the pregnancy was five months old, the couple has been very careful, and every time the husband has taken leave to accompany her during the prenatal examination.
On Wednesday, when the couple was preparing to go to the hospital for a routine prenatal checkup, the husband received an overtime call from his superior. At this time, her mother-in-law, who had never dealt well with Ms. Chen, took the initiative to ask Ying to accompany her for a maternity examination. Who knew that after arriving at the hospital, her mother-in-law's various statements made Ms. Chen furious.
28-year-old Ms. Chen's statement:
My parents only had me as a child in my life, and they naturally pampered me. I have always lived smoothly, my parents love, my husband loves, and the biggest hurdle I have encountered in this life is my mother-in-law.
My husband and I met on a business trip, when I worked for two or three years, and I knew how to stand in society. When I first met my husband, I was a little moved, but I was not young anymore, and I couldn't bet on a long-distance relationship. Although regrettable, this heartbeat may not end in the end.
Three months after returning from a business trip, I bumped into my husband again, perhaps by fate. It didn't take long for us to fall in love, and we talked for almost a year, and we were only planning to get married the year before last.
Before we got married, our parents met together, and when I got home, my mother asked me to stop thinking about it, saying that my mother-in-law didn't seem to get along well in the future. Father-in-law left early, and my mother-in-law will have to live with us in the future.
I met my mother-in-law a few times at the time, and she wasn't warm to me, but she wasn't mean. Besides, my husband was not a foolish person, and I smiled and comforted my mother and said, "It's okay mom, I work every day, and I don't spend a lot of time with my future mother-in-law." ”
Got pregnant at the beginning of the year
After marriage, I didn't get along with my mother-in-law very happily, not to mention big quarrels, I was very reluctant to engage in these quarrels, which wasted time and embarrassed my husband. Most of the time, my mother-in-law picks my thorns, saying that I don't care about my home and don't know how to take care of people, and I always stab me a few times every day.
It was also then that I learned that my mother-in-law intended her husband to marry a girl with a husband and godson, and she even looked for a candidate. My arrival disrupted my mother-in-law's plans, so she always looked at me unfavorably.
At the beginning of this year, I became pregnant, and my husband and I are looking forward to the arrival of this little life. When I first learned the news, my mother-in-law also relented slightly, not to mention caring for me, she finally didn't sarcastically mock me.
My husband felt sorry for me, and every time he deliberately took time, or took leave to accompany me to the maternity examination. After my mother-in-law found out, she mocked me and said that I was delaying my husband's career, saying that they did not check Yunyun at that time.
I didn't feel comfortable listening to it, but my husband often comforted me and told my mother-in-law several times. I was considerate of my husband and concerned about my children, so I could only keep myself from taking it to heart.
My husband worked overtime urgently, and my mother-in-law accompanied me to the maternity checkup
Now I am more than five months pregnant, today is just Wednesday, I deliberately made time to prepare to go to the hospital for ultrasound examination, my husband took leave yesterday to accompany me, early in the morning we packed up and prepared to go out.
At this time, my husband suddenly received a phone call, it was a problem with the project of their group, the project proposal was needed for the afternoon meeting, and he had to go back to work. The husband said anxiously: "Wife, I can't accompany you today, can you yourself?" Can't you call our mother? ”
I said my husband was a little too careful, and I could do it myself. My husband still wanted to call my mom because he knew that my mother-in-law and I didn't deal well with it. Who would have thought that the mother-in-law who listened to it for a long time said: "Don't delay, your boss is in a hurry, you go quickly, I will accompany her." ”
My husband was still a little uneasy, I saw that he was so anxious that he was sweating, and I quickly said that I was fine. So my husband called us a car and hurried away.
My mother-in-law refused to allow the male doctor to give me a prenatal checkup
Along the way, we arrived at the hospital without incident, and we were doctors who made an appointment in advance, so we didn't have to queue up to enter the ultrasound room. Today happens to be Dr. Liu on duty, he is a gentle and careful male doctor, every time he is very serious.
After entering the B-ultrasound room, my mother-in-law's face was a little ugly, and when I lay on the bed and lifted my clothes to expose my belly, my mother-in-law rushed over at once. In a panic, he pulled my clothes down: "Oh, what is this check?" How can you get a man to come? ”
Dr. Liu explained to her in a good voice: "Aunt, this is a B-ultrasound examination, now the main thing is to see if the fetus has developmental malformations..."
The mother-in-law still shook her head repeatedly, "I don't understand what B-ultrasound and what deformity, don't you have a female doctor in your hospital?" Dr. Liu gently explained to her: "Aunt, today is my duty, others are resting, and there are no female doctors now." ”
I was also a little impatient: "Mom, Dr. Liu is very professional, we specially hung his number, it is difficult to make an appointment, canceled but will not refund the money." ”
My mother-in-law listened to this and let Jean, and when Dr. Liu applied medical couplant to my stomach, her face was ugly. I have a fire in my heart, but the doctor is there, and it's hard to say anything directly.
My mother-in-law insisted on knowing the gender of the child, and I was furious
When the ultrasound image appeared on the computer, my mother-in-law's attention was finally taken away from my stomach. As if suddenly remembering something, her eyes lit up and she leaned over to Dr. Liu, "Doctor, is this a boy and a girl?" ”
Dr. Liu smiled, "Aunt, I don't know about this", I got out of bed, hurriedly walked over and grabbed my mother-in-law: "What are you doing, Mom?" ”
My mother-in-law threw my hand away with her backhand: "How could I not know?" I've heard people say that you can determine your gender in five months! Doctor, you give us a good look again, is it a grandson? ”
Only then did I know what my mother-in-law's enthusiasm was due to this morning, and I forcibly endured her anger and grievances to apologize to Dr. Liu: "Sorry, Dr. Liu, don't go to your heart if my mother's words", after speaking, I took the list, turned around and went out.
The mother-in-law reluctantly followed behind, "Isn't this doctor not very professional, how can you not know?" Next time you change doctors, we'll do it again. ”
I couldn't get angry, "Mom! Do you know that the hospital does not allow those who say gender? Next time you should rest at home! My mother-in-law was taken aback by my attitude and muttered, "People doctors have told me, is it not possible in this hospital?"
On the way back, I snuggled by the car window, and my mother-in-law was chattering all the way, I only thought I was deaf.