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"I thought that if it was really my husband who gave birth to someone else, I would still raise the child, because this child is pitiful, but for my husband, I don't think I will see him again in eight lifetimes..."
In 2010, the husband brought an abandoned baby to the home, and although the baby had cerebral palsy, the couple did their best to raise it.
As the days passed, the baby grew up, and slowly, the wife discovered that the baby looked too much like her husband.
Many neighbors began to discuss that the child was probably the husband's illegitimate child.
Because of this incident, the couple did not have a lot of conflicts, and the husband even went to work in other places in a fit of anger, and sometimes did not even go home for the New Year.
But the more the husband hides like this, the more the wife doubts in her heart, is this abandoned baby the husband's illegitimate child? What kind of life will the couple face after learning the result?
Abandoned baby girl
The heroine of the story is Li Donghong, her husband is named Liu Weiwei, the family is not rich, it is an ordinary peasant family.
Li Donghong is easier to satisfy, and sometimes her husband's sweet words can make her happy all day.
In Li Donghong's eyes, her husband is a sincere and responsible person, and although his life is tight, Li Donghong enjoys it.
At the end of 2010, Liu Weiwei was out doing farm work, and when he approached his house, he heard a burst of crying, and when he looked at the door, there was a small package there.
"Could it be a kitten and puppy that someone doesn't want?" Liu Weiwei is a very caring person, although cats and dogs are dirty, he is still willing to adopt.
Unexpectedly, there was a baby girl in this package!
Liu Weiwei looked around, there was no one around, and at this time it was basically certain that this was an abandoned baby.
At that time, the temperature was cold, the baby girl was still crying, and Liu Weiwei didn't think much and carried the baby into the house.
When Li Donghong saw this baby girl, her eyes were full of love, because the baby girl's body was obviously defective, which was not the same as a normal baby.
"Maybe it was because of the baby's physical defect that her biological parents abandoned her..." The couple initially wanted to find the biological parents for the baby girl, but there was no progress.
After thinking about it, the couple decided to adopt the child, and after taking it to the hospital for examination, they found that the baby girl had congenital severe cerebral palsy plus epilepsy.
The couple knew that it would not be so easy to take care of the baby girl, not only with actions, but also with a lot of money, but Li Donghong said that no matter what happens in the future, since they have decided to adopt, they must be responsible for the child.
The process of raising a baby girl can only be described as difficult, not only requires expensive medical expenses, but also essential care, for this reason, Li Donghong also specially learned massage skills, and pressed the baby girl if there was nothing to do.
According to the couple's usual income, they must not be able to pay for medical expenses, in order to make more money, the couple set up a small farm, the breeding business is still good, and the family's life is more and more promising.
By chance, Li Donghong heard that live broadcasting was also very profitable, so when she was fine, she began to fiddle with her mobile phone, send some short videos, and engage in live broadcasting.
Because of the special family, the live broadcast of Li Donghong and her "daughter" attracted a lot of attention, and many people praised the greatness of this mother, of course, many people cast skeptical eyes.
Many skeptical netizens commented that these are fake, and this daughter is likely to be the couple's biological child, and Li Donghong is deliberately winning sympathy and earning traffic.
In this regard, Li Donghong did not pay attention to it, just as the so-called "did not do anything wrong, not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door", she did not want to explain anything.
However, after this incident spread, many neighbors and fellow villagers also began to spread rumors, saying that this baby girl was Liu Weiwei's illegitimate daughter, and Liu Weiwei deliberately placed it at the doorstep.
Li Donghong thought that this was even more nonsense, and he simply did not pay attention to it.
As the days go by, the children are growing up, and it becomes more difficult to take care of, and the operation of the farm business is becoming more and more difficult, not only can not get profits, but even lose money.
Moreover, her daughter's appearance also began to change, becoming more and more similar to Liu Weiwei, which made Li Donghong have to think, is what the neighbors said true?
The mystery of the identity of the baby girl
"When we talked about the object, he (Liu Weiwei) was unwilling to marry me at first..." This is Li Donghong's recollection of the emotional experience of the two at the beginning.
It turned out that before the two got married, Liu Weiwei had a girlfriend, and the girlfriend and he were classmates, and the two were particularly close, and they also loved each other very much, and even once reached the point of talking about marriage.
Later, Liu Weiwei met Li Donghong in the same village, Li Donghong is an "old good man", at that time Liu Weiwei's mother was not in good health, and she couldn't do without people around her, so Li Donghong often went to Liu's house to take care of Liu's mother, and when she came and went, Liu's mother had a good impression of Li Donghong, and matched Liu Weiwei and Li Donghong's combination.
"My mother often mentioned Li Donghong to me, which meant that she wanted me to marry her." But Liu Weiwei's heart did not have a good impression of Li Donghong and was unwilling to marry Li Donghong.
But Li Donghong had a very good impression of Liu Weiwei and was also very "yearning" for the Liu family, and finally at the insistence of Liu's mother, the two obtained a marriage certificate.
Therefore, in Li Donghong's view, the reason why Liu Weiwei agreed to get married was not because of love, but because it was suitable.
It can be seen from this incident that Liu Weiwei had a girlfriend before marriage, and if the daughter who was picked up is Liu Weiwei's illegitimate daughter, it is not impossible.
Although her daughter's life problems have always troubled Li Donghong, she did not do anything radical because of this, and still cared for her daughter in every way.
But every time Li Donghong saw her daughter's face and heard the gossip of her neighbors, she always felt overwhelmed in her heart, like a pimple that could not be solved.
Li Donghong recalled her husband's various behaviors after picking up his daughter, which was indeed a little suspicious.
First, the husband is usually relatively weak and silent, and he is indecisive when encountering major events, why does this baby girl say to raise it, second, for the skeptical remarks on the Internet, the husband has repeatedly persuaded Li Donghong not to pay too much attention, third, the husband seems to treat this abandoned baby more closely than his own son.
Li Donghong couldn't help but question whether her husband's daughter was his illegitimate daughter, and her husband was always very impatient with this question, prevaricating in a few words, and sometimes even unwilling to respond.
But the more the husband is like this, the more it can show that there is a ghost here, because the husband's ambiguity makes Li Donghong complain about him, and the relationship between the husband and wife gradually begins to deteriorate.
The cracks in the couple's relationship, the rumors of the neighbors, and the bleak breeding business, for the husband, this family can not stay.
My husband decided to go to work abroad, but it was less than a four-hour drive from home.
Li Donghong did not want to let her husband go out, but the family still owed foreign debts, and they all said that "distance produces beauty", and after her husband left, she might be able to ease the contradiction between the two, and Li Donghong did not stop it.
The husband had no culture and no relationship, and finally found a job in a cold storage in Lanzhou, mainly responsible for pulling goods out of the cold storage and pulling them into the market for loading.
The temperature in the warehouse is minus 18 degrees all year round, which is fine in winter, and suffers in summer.
"It's especially troublesome when working, especially in summer, when I sweat at normal temperatures outside, and immediately close to the warehouse at minus 18 degrees, the sweat beads on my hair are immediately frozen, and it's easy to get arthritis."
The husband said that because the work is too hard and the work pressure is too great, he rarely has time to contact Li Donghong.
The epileptic daughter at home is only taken care of by Li Donghong, and slowly, Li Donghong's health is getting worse and worse due to increasing work.
Once, Li Donghong was hospitalized due to illness, and her husband did not even come to the hospital to see it, and even rarely called, which in Li Donghong's view was a manifestation of her husband's "weakness of heart".
In fact, the husband's side is also bitter and cannot be said, because the breeding business is not well operated, and the family owes more than one million debts, so the husband does not dare to take leave when working, and even does not dare to rest on holidays.
In her husband's heart, Li Donghong often questioned herself with the identity of her epileptic daughter, because Li Donghong did not trust herself.
"I can't explain this thing, the more I explain it, the darker it gets." But the husband did not explain, in Li Donghong's opinion, there was a ghost in his heart, and the contradictions between the two were getting bigger and bigger, and the relationship was getting farther and farther away.
The city where my husband works is more than 3 hours away from home, so why is he reluctant to go home for the New Year and holidays? In fact, the husband is not ashamed of Li Donghong, but there are two other reasons, one is because he does not want to hear those gossip, and the other is to pay off the debt as soon as possible.
For this reason, her husband has also filed for divorce with Li Donghong more than once, because he does not want Li Donghong to suffer with him, but in Li Donghong's view, it is her husband who is evading.
Li Donghong never expected that because of a daughter with epilepsy, her husband was going to divorce, she couldn't bear that this relationship would end like this, and she was unwilling to find out her daughter's true identity, so she thought of asking for help from the TV station.
The truth is revealed, and the heart knot is untied
The TV station learned about Li Donghong's experience and appeals, and was determined to help her figure out the mystery of her daughter's identity, but it would also try to reconcile the couple and untie the knot between the two.
But in this regard, her husband was a little resistant, did not want to be on the show, and did not want to meet Li Donghong.
There was no way, the reporter had to interview her husband unilaterally first to understand his concerns.
At that time, the husband had been working in Lanzhou for more than 10 years, and there was very little contact between the husband and wife, as long as there was nothing major, they might not be able to make a phone call once a month.
When the reporter asked if he wanted to see Li Donghong, her husband replied like this:
"I'm very stressed now, I don't want to see her, I don't know what to say when I see her, let's talk about it when I think about it."
Shifting his attention to Li Donghong, when the reporter asked, if her daughter is really her husband's illegitimate daughter, will she be as good as her daughter?
In this regard, Li Donghong did not hesitate to say that she would still do her best to raise her daughter, after all, the child is innocent, but she will not choose to forgive her husband.
Fortunately, in the end, through the efforts of the program group, my husband opened his heart and came to participate in the show.
In the mouth of the husband, everyone learned that his life is not easy, in line with the principle of saving money, the husband rented a small room, and the meal and accommodation were completed in one room.
The rental house is relatively chaotic, there are only some household appliances and furniture necessary for life, and there are some gadgets stacked in the corner, which were picked up by the husband from the scrapyard, and if they can be repaired, they can earn a lot of money by selling them, which can also be regarded as relieving the pressure of life.
There was a plate in the cooking place with a few dried cakes, and the husband said: "If it is dry, it will be chopped, put it in a pot, pour some water and fry it until it is soft." ”
The reporter found that there was not even air conditioning and fans in this dilapidated rental house, and it must be very uncomfortable when the weather was hot, but the husband was very satisfied: "This condition is already very good, I am satisfied." ”
The ultimate purpose of the program group to invite the couple to come this time is to identify whether the daughter is the husband's biological child, if it is not the biological one, then everything will be easy to do.
"When I waited for this result, my heart beat very fast." Li Donghong said excitedly.
The program team collected the hair and nails of the couple and their daughter, and finally asked authoritative expert Deng Yajun to identify.
When Dr. Deng Yajun appeared, Li Donghong made a gesture of clasping his hands, while his husband seemed calmer, after all, whether his daughter was related to him or not, his husband must know.
It's just that the husband's heart is also anxious, and he urgently needs an authoritative result to prove his "innocence".
Before announcing the results, the host asked a question, that is, what would Li Donghong do if this daughter was really her husband's illegitimate daughter.
"I won't divorce, but I don't want to see him again, if he is born to someone else, you can tell me, he lied to me for so many years, I think it's too much..."
When it was time to announce the results in the most solemn manner, Deng Yajun said: "We do not support Liu Weiwei as her biological father. ”
Hearing this, the stone in Li Donghong's heart finally landed, and her husband also showed a long-lost smile.
"This child was reported by me, and I am not related by blood." The husband was full of confidence when he said this.
After this result was announced, it not only untied Li Donghong's heart for many years, but also rebuilt his trust and understanding of his husband, and finally, the couple left the stage hand in hand with a smile.
It turned out that this matter was a misunderstanding from beginning to end, in the final analysis, it was still mutual distrust, if the couple could communicate in time at that time and solve the problems and concerns, perhaps the misunderstanding would not have lasted so long, and the relationship between the husband and wife would not have faced a crisis.
Editor: Van You