At that time, when I read "The Little Prince", I just thought it was a fairy tale. Now read "The Little Prince" again to truly understand how it teaches us how to grow, how to love, how to cherish. As the author Saint-Exéque Soupéry said, "This book is dedicated to an adult, because every adult begins with a child"
The process of growing up is accompanied by pain and loss. A lot of precious and simple things: childlike, sincere, authentic, keen perception of the world. We use camouflage and slippery to gradually replace truth and sincerity, forgetting the original beauty of the world....
Many things that adults take for granted are actually just habitual, and it does not mean that they are right. In the process of growing up, many things will be slowly worn away until they are completely lost.
The story of the little prince with the rose and the fox tells how we love. There is a rose on the planet of the little prince, and he cares for this unique life. But Rose is arrogant and vain, and she keeps making unreasonable reasons to prove the love of the little prince. Rose loves the little prince, but does not know how to love, in the wrong way. This love with pride and temptation became a burden and torture for the little prince, so the little prince chose to wander.
So he saw many different landscapes and encountered thousands of beautiful roses. He discovered that the rose he once thought was unique was just an ordinary flower among thousands of flowers. At this time, he met the fox. The fox told him that "domestication is to establish a connection with each other, you give time to your rose, from then on the rose becomes important, she is a unique rose, and this domestication is responsibility and responsibility".
The fox taught the little prince how to domesticate relationships, to be patient, it takes time, and important things need to be experienced with heart, and the fox also harvests the color of the wheat field in the process of teaching the little prince, which is enough.
Love cannot be maintained by appreciation and love alone, and only by integrating rational acceptance and responsibility into love can we achieve emotional eternity and eternity. Love is hot, but after calming, because thoughts and hobbies cannot be unified and pull each other, escape becomes the only way. But escaping does not gain inner solidity, so it falls into more complex and painful emotions.
"When we started seeking, we had already lost. And if we don't start seeking, we simply won't know that everything around us is so precious..." This is the little prince's obsession with roses.
The more you love, the more you are hurt and tortured, and in order to escape the hurt, you can only go further and further away from each other. After thousands of turns, I knew the deep meaning. But life is not a fairy tale after all, people's love is too complicated and too fragile, not a "sorry" can be turned back, nor a "forgiveness" can be released.
Learn to cherish the people around you and love with responsibility and responsibility, so as to live up to the long years. And there is no need to be afraid of losing the once domesticated one, as the fox said, "I got the color of the wheat field."
Meet at an age that does not understand love, and lose love at an age that understands love. Whether lost or continued, I got a beautiful picture of a windswept wheat field, got the color of the wheat field, and that's enough.