Huang Bo and the poor girl rushed to the hot search, and the incident five years ago is now brought up again, in fact, it is only to slander

Inexplicably, because of 5 years ago, Huang Bo was on the hot search.

Someone released a video clip that was intercepted, connotating that Huang Bo was rich and unwilling to sponsor poor girls.

Many netizens did not know the truth, were brought to the rhythm, and followed the trend to question Huang Bo's character.

In fact, as long as you put in a little effort and understand the whole picture, you will not come to such a conclusion.

It started five years ago.

—01—

In 2018, the fourth season of Shanghai Oriental Satellite TV's large-scale inspirational experience reality show "Extreme Challenge" was recorded in the impoverished mountainous area of Guilin, Guangxi.

Permanent guests Huang Bo, Huang Lei, Sun Honglei, Wang Xun, Zhang Yixing and others all attended the scene and followed the village chief to a primary school to visit the left-behind children.

According to the requirements of the program group, the guests must each find a child to understand, and finally choose whether to fund them in the next step so that the children can grow better.

In this process, Huang Bo met a little girl named Hou Yuanli, who had a beautiful appearance and a cute smile.

She was also very well-behaved and sensible, and gave Huang Bo the portion she had hit when she was cooking, and then ran to the back to get the cutlery and re-queue.

This made Huang Bo both surprised and moved, he didn't expect that the little girl would be so considerate and warm, and the two happily became partners and got along together.

Next, Hou Yuanli's performance impressed Huang Bo and other guests, this child has a high dance talent, not to mention the basic kung fu of a word horse and lower back, and will also be the most popular "ghost step dance".

Huang Boyi looked interested, and found Zhang Yixing and asked him to teach Xiao Yuanli a new dance.

As a result, Xiao Yuanli quickly learned.

Huang Lei next to him couldn't help but say to Huang Bo after seeing it: "Do you want to consider sponsoring her, see if you can have the opportunity to send her to the dance academy?" ”

Huang Bo also felt that Xiao Yuanli was very talented in dancing, but she was limited by family conditions and did not have this development condition, so she had the idea of sponsoring her children to realize their dreams.

—02—

However, this idea was quickly doused by reality.

In the next session, the guests were going to visit the child's home, and just like that, Huang Bo came to her home under the leadership of Hou Yuanli.

There was no one at home, and Xiao Yuanli happily introduced to Huang Bo, saying that she still had her grandmother and a younger brother, and usually helped her grandmother chop wood, brush pots and bowls at home.

When my grandmother couldn't keep busy, I also helped my grandmother feed the pigs, which were given to every household by the village for poverty alleviation.

As the group was talking, Hou Yuanli's grandmother came back from outside, and when she saw Huang Bo, a stranger who suddenly came to the house unexpectedly, her grandmother was very unhappy.

Xiao Yuanli stepped forward and just wanted to explain, but was pushed the head by her grandmother and snorted.

The child wiped his tears and cried, but he was afraid that Uncle Huang Bo would see it, so he turned around and hidden.

This is not over, grandma continued to reprimand: upstairs you also brought up to see, so sloppy, you let them come up or they want to come?

Xiao Yuanli took the responsibility over and said, "It's me."

Huang Bo looked at all this, felt very painful in his heart, and a little nervous, and wanted to go up to dissuade, but he felt that he was not very polite, so he had to comfort Xiao Yuanli and said: "We don't eat here, it's okay." ”

Regarding the matter of grandma pushing Xiaoyuanli's head, some media interpreted it as a slap, but judging from the video, it was not so bad.

But anyway, this action made the child feel aggrieved, as for why the grandmother did this, after the analysis, it may be that the grandmother does not want outsiders to see her home so sloppy, nor does she want to see this kind of miserable scene in the show.

—03—

However, it was precisely because of this push (or slap) that Huang Bo realized that Xiao Yuanli's status in the family should be very low.

In addition, through the conversation with the child, I learned that Xiao Yuanli's parents are in the field, and she has lived with her grandmother since she was a child, and her grandmother will always snatch things that belong to her to her brother to eat.

Sometimes it is clear that the younger brother did something wrong to provoke the sister, and the grandmother will always scold the sister.

It is clear that grandma prefers sons to daughters, and Xiao Yuanli is in an environment that is not valued at home.

However, this patriarchal status quo is very common in many parts of China, especially in poor areas, and it is impossible to talk about it alone to change.

If Xiao Yuanli is really funded, then these money will eventually be controlled by her grandmother, and her priority must not be the development future of her granddaughter, but her grandson, the life of her own family.

Then, this funding becomes meaningless.

Therefore, after this incident passed, Huang Bo never mentioned the matter of funding Xiao Yuanli again.

As for why he did this, he later explained on the show: "Some can be given, and some you really can't give." ”

—04—

Huang Bo understands that for such a family, financial support for Xiao Yuanli will not help, what she needs is more love.

There is also spiritual encouragement and support, as well as the right guidance on the path of growth.

On the occasion of parting, Huang Bo bought Xiao Yuanli a pair of sneakers, although the size was a little big, but the child liked it, and comforted Huang Bo that he could wear it for several more years.

In addition, Huang Bi also bought her child a phone watch that she liked, and asked her to call him whenever she had any questions in the future.

At the end of the recording of the program, Huang Bo cried bitterly for not being able to do her best to help Xiao Yuanli.

Writing here, the author remembered a post I read before, the author is a volunteer female teacher, she saw a girl in the class because of a bad family, the clothes are particularly thin, so she bought her a pink down jacket that girls especially like.

Who knows, a few days later, the female teacher found that the down jacket was worn on the girl's brother.

Therefore, everyone should understand the reason why Huang Bo did not fund Xiao Yuanli in the first place.

It has nothing to do with character, it is related to social reality, those who hype this matter, please ask yourself, is it really so simple that you morally kidnap a person in order to rub some traffic?

I'm afraid that slander is the real purpose!