Put Wu Ersu in "Mature Year" against the nine ways of thinking of the poor and understand why the old people are so poor
Song Dandan is worthy of being an old drama bone!
A popular TV series "Mature Year" made her popular again!
It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship in the whole family, but I didn't think that Song Dandan actually played a selfish, shrewd philistine, calculating "evil mother-in-law" to the ceiling!
How annoying is this mother-in-law?
As a daughter-in-law, while calculating Mrs. Ni's house and family property, she couldn't wait for the old lady to make a will and divide the house as soon as possible, so as to free up an acre and a third of land for her family.
As the eldest sister-in-law, she dictates her sister-in-law's love life, and she hopes that this old girl in her thirties will marry off as soon as possible, so that she can live in her mother-in-law's old house with her whole family.
As a mother, she is full of calculations about her son's married life, and she wants her son to find whoever he wants, and her son chases her daughter-in-law who runs away, and she also threatens her son to call the police on 120 and force him not to chase.
As a mother-in-law, she picked her nose and raised her eyes at her daughter-in-law, saying that she would not buy a house if she did not give birth, and when her daughter-in-law was pregnant with a child, she tossed around, miscarried her daughter-in-law, and blamed her daughter-in-law for not being prosperous.
I have to say that Song Dandan played the role of Wu Eryu alive that is both annoying and pitiful, vivid and vivid, and also real and credible!
In fact, seeing this drama here, Sister Yu has roughly understood why the old lady of the Ni family gave birth to three children, only the eldest lives so poorly, and the life is so miserable!
How poor is their family?
The family of four is squeezed into a small two-room living room, and the eldest Weimin and Ersu sleep as "brotherhood on bunk beds"!
Even when he went to see his mother-in-law, Wu Ersu spent 36 yuan to buy two snake fruits, eat one and take one when he left, and also took a few pears from the second family.
You say that this woman is fake or not, poor or poor, philistine not philistine?
Why do the two of the old two live in a big house, and the third is self-reliant and can become a TV producer, only their old people live so poor and miserable?
In fact, since Wu Ersu's fancy birth of Liu Hongyan, the reason has been exposed!
Wu Ersu gave birth to Liu Hongyan
"She hasn't given me a baby yet, why should I buy her a house!"
When she heard Wu Eryu say such words for the first time, Sister Yu was so surprised that her jaw fell to the ground!
Immediately afterwards, she began to nag in front of her son and in front of her daughter-in-law.
Even gave his daughter-in-law Chinese medicine to promote birth, and secretly took away her daughter-in-law's lipstick, and painted on her mouth, which is called "good for her daughter-in-law", afraid that cosmetics will affect the health of the fetus!
Oh, my God! This mother-in-law is also too good at calculating her daughter-in-law, right?
Not only that, she also secretly called her mother-in-law, wanting their mother-in-law to pay half of the purchase price, not caring that her mother-in-law had just lost her wife and had no place to live!
Even called Liu Hongyan's boss and asked them to send her less work, rest and recuperate more to prepare for pregnancy, so as to give birth to a big fat grandson for herself in the future, completely regardless of how much impact it will have on her daughter-in-law's career promotion!
This old idea of selfishness really shocked me!
Dare to buy a house, your son does not live? Dare you to find a daughter-in-law just to find a fertility tool to inherit the family?
What age is it, the mother-in-law in the big city actually has this feudal thinking, and no old lady in the countryside can think about it.
Are you the old days? "If rural people want to be rich, they can plant trees if they have more children"?
Nowadays, the times are changing, and many people are aware that children should have good birth and childbirth, and if conditions permit, they can have more children, and if conditions do not allow, they can also have fewer children or not have children.
But Wu Ersu still adheres to the old ideas of decades ago, resting on his laurels, thinking that inheritance is the top priority!
In fact, as an elder, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, sons have a happy marriage, the two are sweet and sweet, and living life as well as possible together is the greatest happiness.
As for when the children want it, it is their own business.
Instead of inserting a bar between sons and daughters-in-law every day, treating daughters-in-law as a tool and machine for giving birth to children, as a condition and exchange for buying a house.
Isn't this the mindset of the illiterate poor before?
Why is Wu Ersu's family so poor
The concept of having children is outdated, which already represents how old-fashioned and outdated Wu Eryu, the head mother of the old family, is.
But unexpectedly, her poor mind was reflected in other things!
First, urge marriage Ni Weizhen!
Wu Eryu, a calculating mother-in-law, in addition to giving birth to Liu Hongyan, also likes to urge marriage Ni Weizhen!
Why? The reason is that she thinks women should get married and have children early.
She doesn't care what fate is not fate, love is not love, career is not career.
Her purpose is to let this sister-in-law, who occupies her mother-in-law's old house, marry off as soon as possible and make room for her, so that the eldest family can live in it.
But in this life, women also need careers, need to make a living, need to be independent, self-reliant, and realize their life value in their own positions.
This is the thinking and consciousness that women should have in the new era.
This kind of consciousness is Zhang Chunmei in the play, Ni Weizhen has it, Liu Hongyan also has it, but Wu Ersu does not.
In her poor thinking, a woman should get married and have a baby, and her husband and children should be hot every day, and take care of a large family, which is what a woman should do.
A family hostess, if only such thoughts, visions and patterns, and so strong, then this family designation will not progress!
Second, blame the perfect daughter-in-law Chunmei
Chunmei can be described as a super perfect woman in this drama, and her career has flourished, and she almost became the editor-in-chief.
The family used to be warm and harmonious, a family of three was happy, the key is that she is a good woman who can go up to the hall and down the kitchen, and she handles it quite well inside and out, which is simply the ideal type in the world.
Treat her mother-in-law as filial and considerate as she treats her own mother; Treat her sister-in-law, she is as warm and confidant as a big sister, where to find such a good woman?
But in Wu Eryu's eyes, she felt that some parts of Chunmei looked particularly annoying.
I admit that Chunmei is a giving woman, and she really likes to worry too much, cares too much about others, and has a strong desire to control.
But Wu Ersu has no desire for control? Her controlling hand extends not only to her husband and son, but even to her daughter-in-law's own mother, and even her mother-in-law and sister-in-law.
A woman with such strong control ability, why should she accuse Chunmei?
After all, Wu Ersu has no culture, no self-knowledge, he likes to point fingers when he sees everything, cynical, and all kinds of unaccustomed to it, this is not poor thinking, what is it?
Third, reluctance to buy a house
As we all know, a house is the best investment in recent years.
Smart people, as long as they have a little spare money in their hands, they will invest in the property early, even if they don't live in the future, they will rent it out, and when the house price rises, they can also make a lot of money.
But Wu Eryu's thoughts are extremely peculiar! She bought the house to wait for her daughter-in-law to conceive a child.
The daughter-in-law finally had a child, but she pushed back and forth, while fooling her mother-in-law to sell her house, and at the same time picking and choosing, thinking that the house chosen by the daughter-in-law was not good, and she had to go to the remote suburbs where birds don't poop to see off-plan houses.
It turned out that her ultimate goal was to think that only when the red belly was revealed would the "dust settle", so she planned to buy a house when the child was four or five years old.
Oh, my God! House prices are rising day by day, and you can barely afford it, and in five or six years, seven or eight years, you may not even be able to afford a room or two.
This kind of poor thinking is really speechless!
Under her tossing like this, the daughter-in-law miscarried, the mother-in-law was sick, and the son's marriage was not guaranteed, why is this suffering?
If parents do not have the conditions to buy a house for their children, if they do not want to buy it, they will not buy it, they will rent a house by themselves, and if the future conditions permit, it is also possible to earn money to buy a house on their own.
However, Wu Ersu casually gives promises to people, promises but does not honor them, this kind of person is a poor person who lacks long-term vision and plans, and only pays attention to short-term interests.
Someone once summarized the nine characteristics of poor people's thinking, which are:
Short-sightedness, self-sufficiency, passivity, narrow-mindedness and selfishness, seeking stability and avoiding risks, no self-awareness, unwillingness to learn, weak consumption concept, lack of self-confidence.
In this comparison, Wu Eryu, the head mother of the old man, almost accounted for seven or eight.
Let's just say that the head of the family is so short-sighted, so old-thinking, so narrow-minded and selfish, do you still expect this family to become rich?
In addition, her husband Ni Weimin is honest and loyal, and he is a wife who is afraid of his wife and has strict management; The son Ni Jun is cowardly and does not take responsibility, and he is a mom boy who listens to his mother.
Looking at it this way, it is no wonder that Ni Weimin, a big son, is so poor that the four of them can't raise their heads in a small two-room living room!
Therefore, I have to say that the TV series "Mature Year" was filmed realistically, and Sister Yu couldn't help but feel sorry for Liu Hongyan!
A girl from a small place goes to the city to work hard, and she wants to rely on her own efforts to let her mother live a good life.
As a result, her mother-in-law couldn't look at her, treated her as an outsider every day, and used her as a fertility tool, which eventually caused her to miscarry.
And Liu Hongyan herself, a good promotion hope, was also miscarried and her mother-in-law's leave, making the bamboo basket empty, which is really sad, lamentable, pitiful!
Therefore, women still have to keep their eyes open when they marry, marriage is really not a boy and a girl, you are willing to be, you non my non is so simple!
It is necessary to consider the character and living environment of the parents of the man and the woman, and also to see if the husband is a mom and a boy, otherwise even if you get married, the bad things after marriage are a basket, isn't it?
Today's Topic:
1. Do you think that with a mother-in-law like Wu Ersu, can the marriage between Liu Hongyan and Ni Jun be long?
2. If you are Liu Hongyan, in the face of such a mother-in-law, do you want to engage in a career first, or a husband and child?
3. Do you think that the old people are poor, can you complain that the second and third elders do not sponsor them?
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