Text | Thirteenth sister
In the past two days, "fortune telling" has become a hot search on the entry, alas, how to say, in fact, every year close to June and July, "Chinese parents approach metaphysics reality show" will be updated on time.
In the sub-venues of the national metaphysical show from north to south and college entrance examination, in addition to "purple blush can win", "the banner opens to win", and "this banana throws over the cane", there must be a lot of foreplay that has been ignored by us before.
Including but not limited to burning incense, asking for signatures, calculating trigrams, opening light...
So as soon as this time came, the light of metaphysics began to dangle over the head of every Chinese parent.
In recent days, I heard that many parents have organized groups to burn incense in major temples.
There are even parent associations that come forward to organize collective burning of incense to pray for blessings, and also ask the master to open the children's stationery...
This made me suddenly think that if this continues, maybe a gray industry will be very marketable - "blessing intermediary".
"What are you asking for here?"
"Kid's college entrance examination."
"Okay, we have a 985/211 prayer blessing incense burning package here to give the master Kaiguang 2B pencil, double first-class signing and asking for a private exclusive set, a future like a jin road guidance package, etc., a limited-time special half-year card can be free of three agency fees, which one do you need?"
(The above services are pure)
But what is not nonsense is that the road of metaphysical exploration of Chinese mothers is really getting wilder.
Nowadays, elementary school students have begun to coil, college students have also begun to burn incense, and the operable space of middle-aged people has been compressed.
So many middle-aged people began to tell fortunes, after all, fortune-telling requires costs, and with the strength of elementary school students and college students, it is not possible to squeeze out this field.
Of course, this is also a step-by-step process. For those who are already mothers, the older they get, the more exciting the ways and means of integrating metaphysics.
You may not know, but asking can open up a whole new world...
Some people say: fortune-telling is a more suitable psychological counseling for Chinese babies.
It feels really like that - 800 for psychological counseling an hour, 200 fortune telling can pay you back a piece of love & peace... Psychological counseling several conversations finally let you determine that your psychology is indeed wrong, fortune-telling and other desirable reasons for you to attribute all external reasons, anyway, you are quite normal...
The more core reason is that psychological counseling is a science, but there are many things in this world that science cannot solve.
Especially when you have a baby, you will understand the important value of metaphysics in keeping the old mother's mental stability.
What astrolabe, compass, can be called the emotional calming artifact of some mothers.
Sleepy and tired to come to a trigram.
Don't say, with the support of this "superstitious set", middle-aged women really save a lot of psychological counseling costs.
Fortune-telling has a significant effect on the psychological healing of mothers.
Especially for parents who already have a baby and have gone through some detours in this baby, when giving birth to two or three children, there will be a more obvious change, that is, "more faithful".
A friend of mine, the mantra used to be "I don't believe in this evil", children always drop the chain when learning, go swimming to learn not to breathe, go to learn to dance the teacher said that the ligaments are not good, go to play basketball coach said that the bounce is not enough... But she "just doesn't believe in this evil."
But since a master counted the eight characters for the child, saying that this baby "loves water and fire, eats God for use, and penetrates from the heavenly stem"... In the end, it was summed up as "probably a good chef".
So she stopped saying "I don't believe in this evil", and began to believe in fate, waiting for the day when her child became a generation of famous chefs, and it seemed that most of the anxiety in her life was solved at once.
There is a "bottoming expectation", and all difficulties or obstacles that arise in the process seem to be only temporary...
People, when they get a little older, they really "prefer to believe what they have, not to trust what they don't", just like the classic saying of friends: more gods protect all the way, more confidence and calmness...
Under the guidance of my friends, I would also go to pay a visit to the Tai Sui at the beginning of the year, and every time that scene was amazing.
This is the "third major spiritual think tank" for middle-aged women.
The top two are tuition institutions and hospitals.
However, if you think that this is the only form of superstitious activity for middle-aged women, you are really wrong.
Everyone really has their own metaphysical essentials, just like the eight immortals crossing the sea, each showing their own powers!
Now many parents are not satisfied with this very popular incense burning blessing and have begun to take the customized route:
Even if you open the orange software and search casually, you can find a variety of one-to-one light services.
There are also many people who have acquired various magic weapons after being "enlightened by the master".
For example, the exclusive customized red rope + silver ingot, called "one silver ingot" - sure to win.
Some parents calculated the baby - the mother and the baby are in conflict, and gold must be put into the body to resolve, and then a gold tooth is inserted.
Later, I found that the golden tooth special protective body, so I made a complete set, put it at home every day, to ward off evil spirits...
There are also some parents, as long as they have Buddha in their hearts, they have to pray and worship wherever they go. Even in my message area, I have seen some parents' prayer scenes——
How to say, I know I don't have this skill to do, she also knows that I don't have this skill to do, I also know that she knows I don't have this skill to do... But we still tacitly completed a collision of hearts...
Of course, these are routine operations, and I know that some parents have a sign of "Schrödinger's fortune telling".
They want to calculate everything big and small, and even if they do it, their mental activities are still very active.
There is a sister in the group, who heard the "master jiyan" from nowhere before giving birth to a baby, saying that according to her due date, if she gives birth to a male doll, she will soar in the future and have a prosperous official fortune. But when she gave birth to a girl, her heart was bottomless, and she felt that she should find another master to calculate.
I found a master to calculate and said that this woman's life was mediocre, that is, an ordinary person.
Then the magical story begins - the sisters feel that this master is not accurate ...
I found another master to calculate, and it still feels relatively mediocre to calculate it...
She found another one...
Until a master gave a different conclusion, which roughly means that this child will have the tendency to "accumulate thick and thin" in the future... Finally able to have a little meaning, she was finally relieved.
Anyway, now many mothers' so-called fortune-telling is actually the approximate process like this-
Calculated an undesirable result - not accurate! My life is up to me!
Calculate a result that matches the heart - too accurate! This is fate!
So, do moms really want a result, or want to know a fact?
No, they just want someone to say what they want to hear, to gain inner comfort and peace.
Most metaphysics, similar to counseling, is aimed at making oneself peaceable. Whether it is fortune-telling, or asking for a fortune divination, or an astrolabe compass, a figure-eight constellation...
At every stage of motherhood, there are always things that are difficult to understand or accept, and it may be difficult to convince yourself to accept them. Some people twist and turn and crawl for many years before gradually accepting that they and their children are ordinary, while some people have a calm and relaxed posture from the beginning because they have told their lives.
The flexible application of metaphysics, like a spice in life, and like a shot in the arm, the days are bitter and uncomfortable, come a little, in essence does not solve any problems, but psychologically relieves some anxiety, indicating that it has existential value.
But here it is still necessary to say that Xiao Xuan is pleasant, Da Xuan hurts the body, adjusts emotions, and don't indulge.
My summary over the years is: be serious about life and open-minded about details. If you do these two things, you can relieve more than half of the anxiety.
In fact, the days of being upset about bringing a baby are only a few years, and looking far and enlarging the pattern is more effective than asking God to worship Buddha and fortune-telling.
And most parents also understand in their hearts that they may not be counting life at all, but just looking for a life posture that makes the anxious and chaotic self reduce entanglement and maintain health and life.