One day, he lay lazily on the sofa and asked, "Mom, why didn't you and Dad quarrel?" "Why are we arguing?" I asked rhetorically, "Then I can be a melon-eater and watch the theater well!" "It's a very bad look!
At the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher took out a note from the children's trouble box and showed it to the parents present, which said: Mom and Dad always quarrel, what should I do? On the way, I told him about the child's troubles, and then asked, "Do you want Mom and Dad to have a fight?" He shook his head!
Because of my family when I was a child, I was very resistant to arguing with people, even if I was reasonable, I would not argue with them, always accepted silently, and then let go from my heart! What a terrible word "quarrel" is in my eyes, making me always look like a bully when I encounter contradictions!
Real family life, it is inevitable to grind, but I still habitually tolerate and let go without arguing! In fact, what is the meaning of quarrelling? The choice of not arguing and not arguing is first of all to give the child a harmonious environment and let him feel the safety and warmth of home; Then there is the pursuit of one's own peace and tranquility. Those trivial things are really not worth my bad words, fighting for red-faced, and I don't want to put myself in a very low position, which is incompatible with my usual tsundere!
Accustomed to the indifference of life, that little thing has long smoothed out all the edges and corners of the youthful vigor, and then smoothly go to live your own tranquility, what's wrong?
Because of the existence of children, mothers will be willing to have more patience and waiting, and all dormancy is not the appearance of weakness, but just the moment when you accumulate strength in your heart, just for the moment when you spread your wings and fly!