Talent is important not only in the 21st century, but in any era. One of the important reasons why Boss Cao was able to dominate the world later was that his staff gathered heroes and talents. Let's first take a look at the list of his main advisers: Sima Yi, Jia Xu, Xun Yu, Guo Jia, Xun Fu, Cheng Yu, Xu Yu, Liu Ye, Mao Jie, Chen Qun, Dong Zhao, Xia Zhicai, Xin Bi, Man Pet, Cui Yan, Jiang Ji, Yang Xiu, Zhong Xiu, Hua Xin, Xu Shu. Which of these people is not talented and resourceful?
Speaking of this, the "ranking to order" in the bones of many friends has come out again, how do so many cows rank? This game, let's not play with everyone, there is no point. If you are interested, you can entertain yourself. My overall opinion is that Xun Yu's ranking first is undisputed, and Guo Jia, whose popularity has skyrocketed in recent years, may not be able to enter the top three.
What we want to talk about today is a person named "Cheng Yu" in the above list, this person is very professional wisdom, but also very professional, is a person worthy of everyone's pondering and research. Don't see that he didn't rank as the third duke or anything in the end, but the level of the people was much higher than Hua Xin and the others, who were finally ranked the third duke. Hiding merit and fame is not only a kind of freedom, but also a kind of philosophical wisdom.
Introduce Cheng Yu's brilliance
Cheng Yu is a native of Yanzhou Dong'a, and it is said that the Sima family of Sima Yi is an old ancestor, and the surname Cheng is Guo, and Cheng Yu's ancestor was once sealed in the State of Cheng. Cheng Yu was also the ancestor of the famous general Cheng Yanjin of the Tang Dynasty.
This comrade's debut was at the peak, when the Yellow Turban Army suddenly began to storm away, the Eastern Han court was caught off guard, and many places fell into chaos, and Cheng Yu's hometown Dong'a City was no exception.
At this time, the political model of "strong local autonomy" in the Eastern Han Dynasty began to shine, and what the imperial court could not manage, the local wealthy families took care of themselves.
Dong'a County Cheng Wang Du responded to the Yellow Turban Army uprising, burned down the warehouse, and ran away after causing a mess in Dong'a City; Dong'a County Ling Taiping has been peaceful for a long time, and when he saw this chaotic scene, he also ran; The county orders all ran, and the people in the city felt that their safety was not guaranteed, and they all ran with them. Dong'a City instantly became an empty city.
At this time, Cheng Yu, who had rushed from his hometown, found Xue Fang and the others in the county, and analyzed: "Wang Du, they don't want to attack the city at all, according to their urine nature, they just want to plunder some property. We have money, food, and horses, so don't instigate him at all, as long as someone comes forward to take the lead and take everyone back to defend the city, Wang Du and they will definitely not be able to capture Dong'a City. ”
After all, Xue Fang and the others were people who had seen the world, and when they heard it, they knew that Cheng Yu had a point, but the other officials dared to play such an exciting game. Cheng Yu, who was so angry that he couldn't helpless, said: "Fools can't make a big deal. ”
However, without Zhang Butcher, you can't eat hairy pigs, and things still have to be done. Since you are not willing to take the initiative to enter the city, then I will find a way for you to follow suit. So he arranged for a group of people and horses to run to the eastern mountains to raise the banner and make a big move, and then asked Xue Fang and others to shout "The Yellow Turban Army is coming to fight us", and after saying that, they took the lead and ran to Dong'a City, and the rest of the people followed and ran to Dong'a City.
After returning to the city, Cheng Yu and others found the county order, stabilized the people's hearts, and arranged for everyone to actively defend the city, which really blocked Wang Du's later attack.
And when Wang Du and the others retreated, Cheng Yu also opened the city gate and played an active pursuit, and the result was naturally a big victory.
Later, in the third year of Chuping (192), which was the year when Yuan Shao and Gongsun Zan in the north tore each other apart, Liu Dai, the Yanzhou assassin who rode the wall, held the melon eating mentality of eating kickbacks on both sides, and accepted Yuan Shao's wife and children as hostages on the one hand, and accepted Gongsun Zhan's military sponsorship - Gongsun Zan sent Fan Fang to lead troops to help Liu Dai defend the territory.
Liu Dai's peaceful behavior of "wanting everything, not offending anything" made Gongsun Zhan, who had just won several battles, very unhappy, so he decided to tear his face with Liu Dai and sent someone to ask Liu Dai for Yuan Shao's wife, and asked Liu Dai to publicly break off relations with Yuan Shao. What's the thing, take my Gongsun Zan as someone, spare tire, right? Your whole family is a spare tire, me and Yuan Shao, you can only choose one of the two.
In order to put pressure on Liu Dai and to show his resolute attitude, Gongsun Zan ordered Fan Fang again: "If Liu Dai does not send Yuan Shao's family, he will lead the troops back." When I got Yuan Shao, I sent troops to attack Liu Dai. ”
For Liu Dai, this matter is actually a key choice problem, who can win will choose who to support. But the problem is complicated, with Liu Dai's eyes, he can't see who will win, so he simply knows how to choose.
At this time, Liu Dai's other driver Wang Yu recommended Cheng Yu to him, saying: "Cheng Yu has a strategy and can judge big things. ”
Liu Dai, who had nothing else to do, quickly summoned Cheng Yu and asked how to solve the matter. As a result, Cheng Yu helped him smooth out this matter in a few words, Cheng Yu said: "Giving up Yuan Shao and choosing Gongsun Zan is a matter of seeking distance from the near, and what to help is equivalent to asking a northeastern buddy in Shandong to help save a child who is about to drown, and the distant water cannot save the near fire." Moreover, don't look at Gongsun Zan seems to be militarily superior at present, but if he fights a protracted war, he is definitely not Yuan Shao's opponent. You can't learn from Gongsun Zhan, just look at the immediate benefits. ”
Liu Dai finally thought clearly, so he let Fan Fang lead his troops back. Xiao Xian, what's the matter, I have a better relationship with my original brother than Jin Jian, and want me to hand over my brother's family? There is no door, you love it, I can't see this bit of troops, you can quickly take it back." A proper face of repentance and dowry.
But sure enough, soon after, Yuan Shao defeated Gongsun Zhan, and Cheng Yu became a rumor. This made Liu Dai admire Cheng Yu and thank him very much for helping him make the right choice, so he appointed Cheng Yu as a riding lieutenant.
But unfortunately, Cheng Yu resigned due to illness. Why do you think about it? Cheng Yu can't look at Liu Dai, you are a prince of the troubled world, in this strategic vision, such a simple matter still needs to ask me to make a decision, what big thing can you achieve? If you want me to do you a favor, but if you expect me to start a business with you, then the designation will not be served.
After Cao Cao entered Yanzhou, he also took the initiative to recruit Cheng Yu. Look, talent is in demand at all times.
This time, Cheng Yu, who said earlier that he was not feeling well, immediately stopped his waist pain and legs were not sore, and he received the entry invitation from Boss Cao and went out of the mountain. This abnormal behavior once puzzled his relatives in his hometown and asked him a hundred thousand whys. He only smiled and did not answer, thinking to himself, the world and thinking of masters, you don't understand. But even if you don't understand, don't you see where Liu Dai, who was rejected by me at the beginning, is now? He was killed by the Yellow Turban Army, and a feudal official died so easily at the hands of the displaced people, is such a person worth following?
After Cheng Yu defected to Cao Cao, he was only given the title of Shou Zhang Ling at first, but his work responsibilities were still quite valued, and he gave Cao Boss and his partner Xun Yu a hand.
Later, during Boss Cao's revenge for his father and slaughter of Xuzhou, Chen Gong, Zhang Qiao and other Yanzhou clans joined forces with the wandering warlord Lü Bu to stab Cao Cao in the back, and it was Xun Yu and Cheng Yu and others who were in danger and turned the tide to save the three cities of Zhencheng, Fan County, and Dong'a, especially the two cities of Fan County and Dong'a, all of which were directly completed by Cheng Yu (the specific process has been introduced in the previous article, so I will not repeat it).
In view of this, after Cao Cao returned to Yanzhou, he took Cheng Yu's hand and said, "If it weren't for Cheng Qing's power, I would have nothing to return." So Cheng Yu was Dongpingxiang and settled in Fan County.
Subsequently, in the dark stage of Boss Cao's life, the counterattack against Lü Bu and Chen Gong was repeatedly frustrated, and Yuan Shao's eldest brother Yuan, who was watching the fire from the other side, took the opportunity to blackmail Cao Cao to send his family to Jizhou to be hostages, and it was Cheng Yu who actively stood up to help Boss Cao make up his mind to grit his teeth and hold on.
Cheng Yu's advice was to the effect of: "I think General, you are only afraid of things for a while, otherwise how could you be so unthoughtful?" Yuan Shao possessed the lands of Yan and Zhao, and had the heart to annex the world, but his wisdom could not help. Does the general think he can do things under him? General, do you have the power of a dragon and tiger, can you do what Han (Xin) and Peng (Yue) submit to others like this? Although Yanzhou is now broken, there are still three cities to defend. There are no less than 10,000 people who can fight. With the general's divine weapons, coupled with the assistance of Wen Ruo (Xun Yuzi) and others, and using them by collecting the soldiers of the city, then the cause of overlords can be accomplished. I hope the general will think about it carefully! ”
In fact, the core is a sentence, once people choose to kneel to others, it is difficult to stand up again, and they have always insisted on standing and being a person, although it will be difficult at present, but there is a possibility of winning the final respect of others.
The significance of Cheng Yu's suggestion this time is very significant, and I will focus on the analysis later to see what is part-time thinking? What is entrepreneurial thinking?
Later, Boss Cao welcomed the princes of Tianzi and moved his base camp to Xuchang, and his career began to rise in full swing. Cheng Yu was awarded the post of Shangshu by Emperor Xian of Han. And because Yanzhou had not yet been appeased, he then served as a general of Dongzhong Lang, led the Yin Taishou, and supervised Yanzhou. It can be seen that Boss Cao still trusts Cheng Yu quite a lot.
In 198, Liu Bei lost Xuzhou and had nowhere to go before he annexed his old friend Cao Cao.
Cao Cao is quite romantic, and he has always had a deep friendship in his heart for Liu Bei, who once assisted him in recruiting troops against Dong Zhuo, so he has always been quite good to Liu Bei. However, Cheng Yu could not see that Liu Bei was not a thing in the pool, and repeatedly persuaded Cao Cao to kill Liu Bei to avoid future troubles. However, Cao Cao was poisoned by brotherly love and did not agree.
In 199 AD, Liu Bei, who had already cultivated a sensitive heart in the world, felt that he was in danger in Cao Ying, so he tricked his old friend Cao Cao and took the initiative to go to Xuzhou to intercept Yuan Shu, who went north to Yuan Shao.
Cheng Yu, Guo Jia and others once again pointed out the careful thinking behind Liu Bei, but Cao Cao still did not make up his mind in time. As a result, after Liu Bei went to Xuzhou, Yuan Shu had already fallen ill and died, and Liu Bei killed the Xuzhou assassin Shi Che appointed by Cao Cao, took Xuzhou for himself, and declared his anti-Cao Shu.
During the Battle of Guandu, Cheng Yu led 700 troops to defend the city and refused to allow Cao Cao to send reinforcements. The reason is: there are few people, the target is small, the threat is small, and Yuan Shao will not take the initiative to hit me; There are many people, the target is big, the threat is also great, Yuan Shao will definitely send troops to attack, there are 100,000 elite soldiers under Yuan Shao, we can't stop this person at all, and the loss will be great at that time. The leader can do your business with peace of mind, and I will never let the leader worry about it here.
This incident moved Boss Cao into a uproar, what a talent! The point is that things are really as Cheng Yu expected, and the empty city has not been attacked at all. Cao Cao, who was full of emotion, said to Jia: "Cheng Yu's courage surpasses that of Ben Yu (the combined name of Meng Yin and Xia Yu)." ”
Later, when Cao Cao was fighting against Yuan Tan and Yuan Shang, the two young nephews, Cheng Yu was able to organize mountain people and outlaws, and put together a force of thousands of elite soldiers to support Boss Cao in opening up the territory, which was really powerful, not only did not want the boss to pay salary, but also helped the boss replenish capital.
During the attack on Eryuan, the duo of transport captains Cheng Yu and Li Dian also helped Boss Cao defeat Gao Fan, who was guarding the Yellow River crossing, and made Boss Cao's grain and water routes unimpeded.
After that, Cheng Yu became a general of Fenwu for meritorious service and was made the Marquis of Anguoting.
Cheng Yu has never been a bar expert, but he often expresses some different opinions. For example, in the thirteenth year of Jian'an (208), Cao Cao marched south to Jingzhou, Liu Wei surrendered, and Liu Bei defected to Sun Quan. Many people in Cao Ying thought that Sun Quan would kill Liu Bei, but Cheng Yu poured cold water on Cao Cao, he thought that Cao Cao's power was too great, Sun Quan would definitely unite and use the combat power of Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei to resist Cao Cao, and once Liu Bei received Sun Quan's funding, it was like a tiger with wings, and Sun Quan was unable to kill him even if he wanted to. As Cheng Yu expected, Boss Cao suffered a big loss in the Battle of Chibi.
After Boss Cao took Jingzhou, the world had already gained two-thirds, and it was inevitable that he would be a little angry, so during a chat, he stroked Cheng Yu's back and said: "If you hadn't advised me not to turn to Yuan Shao, how would I be so beautiful today!" Boss Cao's words were originally just a little show-off and gratitude, but Cheng Yu heard a different taste, and immediately said: "The so-called 'contentment is not disgraced', now is the time for me to retreat in a hurry." So, he voluntarily surrendered military power.
However, maybe Cheng Yu owes their old Cao family and does not worry about Boss Cao's affairs, and Cheng Yu still has to continue to worry about Boss Cao's son.
In the sixteenth year of Jian'an (211), Cao Cao asked Han Sui and Ma Yu to take care of all the family's stalls, and asked Cheng Yu to help watch the point.
As a result, at this time, Tian Yin and Subo were in turmoil between the rivers, and Cao Pi sent the general Jia Xin to ask for advice, and more than 1,000 rebels took the initiative to surrender. Therefore, the matter of being surrendered or not being surrendered stumped Cao Pi, who lacked experience. Many ministers in the DPRK believed that they should eliminate evil, and moved out of the old rule of "those who surround and then surrender will not be pardoned". But Cheng Yu calmly pointed out that the rules are dead, people are alive, and the old rules should be applied according to the situation, and the policy of "encircling and then surrendering without amnesty" was mainly to break the enemy's will to resist, and now the general trend has been set, these people are also their own people, killing them will only be counterproductive. And very tactfully reminded Cao Pi that if you want to kill and surrender, it is best to ask Cao Cao first.
As a result, how did the ministers dig a hole for Cao Pi? They said: "In terms of military affairs, we can make our own decisions, and we don't need to play everything to Cao Gong!" After Cheng Yu heard this, he fell silent.
Cao Pi was also very clever, and after the court discussion ended, he talked to Cheng Yu privately. Cheng Yucai said the stakes: "The so-called arbitrariness is the temporary decision-making power given to you by the leader when the incident happened suddenly, and now the situation has been controlled by General Jia Xin, which shows that this is not a very urgent matter, if you don't ask your father, what will your father think?" So, I hope you will think carefully. ”
At this time, Cao Pi understood Cheng Yu's painstaking intentions, so he immediately sent someone to ask Cao Cao for instructions according to Cheng Yu's meaning, and as a result, Boss Cao's instructions coincided with Cheng Yu's suggestions.
It can be seen how sophisticated Cheng Yu is. Afterwards, Boss Cao knew the ins and outs of the matter, and praised Cheng Yu very happily, saying: "Cheng Qing is not only clear about military strategy, but also good at handling affairs between other people's fathers and sons. ”
During Cao Cao's reign, although Cheng Yu was not a powerful courtier, Boss Cao's trust in him was incomprehensible. Because Cheng Yu's personality is relatively straightforward, he usually offends people, and in order to retaliate against Cheng Yu, some people falsely accuse him of intending to rebel. However, Boss Cao didn't believe it at all, and he was getting better and better for Cheng Yu.
In the eighteenth year of Jian'an (213), Cheng Yu served as a guard lieutenant, but was dismissed by Boss Cao due to a conflict with the lieutenant Xing Zhen. However, when Cao Pi took over, he immediately resumed the post of Cheng Yuwei, and also entered the marquis of Feng'an Township, adding 300 households to the previous 800 households. He also made his young sons Cheng Yan and Sun Chengxiao the Marquis.
Soon, Cao Pi was also ready to further promote Cheng Yu to the rank of third duke, but Cheng Yu's limit had already arrived, and he drove Hexi to die at the age of 80.
Cheng Yu died, Cao Pi was very sad, drooled for it, and posthumously presented the general of the Che Ride, and said that he was suspicious.
Later, in 233 AD, Cheng Yu was able to worship in the temple court of Cao Cao, which is an incomparably lofty honor, and it can be regarded as the old Cao family's affirmation and recognition of Cheng Yu's life.
Briefly comment on Cheng Yu
The previous article is almost 5,000 words, so let's focus on the key points and briefly comment and analyze Cheng Yu.
To put it simply, in addition to being a little too straightforward in personality, Cheng Yu has no obvious shortcomings in ability and wisdom, although he is not as tall as Xun Yu in the pattern, but compared with people like Jia Xu, he definitely does not fall behind.
Let's see the first time he saved Dong'a City, when he was suddenly attacked by the Yellow Turban Army and the county commander took the lead and ran away, and the Dong'a officials unconsciously fell into panic and chaos. Normal people in a state of sudden panic, their heads are easy to short-circuit, only Cheng Yu is very calm and composed, and he can grasp the essence of the matter at once: First, the Yellow Turban Army does not want to seize the city, but wants to rob money, which is the nature of the homeless army; Second, the East Albanian military and civilians are not unable to resist, but there is no one to take the lead, and the military is unstable; Third, the Yellow Turban Army is not so terrible, they cannot defeat the people of East Afghanistan, who are united in will.
Then the people of Dong'a could not overcome the panic that had arisen in their hearts and did not want to enter the city, at this time, Cheng Yu used the word "forced". What's so particular about this? Some people's cultivation and enlightenment cannot keep up, it is useless for you to tell him what the big truth is, you can only use his panic, drive them into a corner, and then follow the trend to guide them to the track you set for them.
Seeing no, this is the logic of rigor. Can flexibly combine the situation and environment at any time, rather than talking about some big and empty theories and truths.
Then let's analyze why Cheng Yu is willing to give advice to Liu Dai, but is not willing to be an official under Liu Dai? The answer was said earlier, that is, Cheng Yu thinks that there is no future with Liu Dai.
At this point, many young people in the workplace should study hard, choose a job, choose a boss do not focus on the immediate treatment, but look at the development space, vision and future of these soft indicators.
How did Cheng Yu judge that Liu Dai was not the Ming Lord? Naturally, it was through what Liu Dai usually did and the cold eyes of the time he entered Liu Dai's shogunate. This point can also be learned from us, in addition to looking at ability, morality, looking at details, looking at the reaction of key moments, it is also very important.
What performance did Liu Dai have that made Cheng Yu dissatisfied? There are two main points: one is his reaction to the situation at that time; The second is his decision-making on key matters.
Yuan Shao and Gongsun Zan beat you to death, and you, Liu Dai, as a key force outside the field, actually chose to eat kickbacks on both sides? Who wins and finally can't clean you up? Your best strategy is to take advantage of the fire to expand your power, don't let go so much, no one in the power game really treats you as a friend; Your middle strategy is to let the bullets fly for a while, sit on the fisherman's profit, and help whoever can't do it, so that they can fight as badly as possible; Your next strategy is to stay out of the way and wait for others to fix everything before they you. But you can at least be neutral, what's the matter with you eating kickbacks on both sides? Isn't it unflattering on both sides?
Then, Gongsun Zan couldn't bear to turn his face with you, and even threatened you nakedly, don't you know how to choose this kind of thing? Still hesitating and hesitating there, it shows that Liu Dai is a person who does not know what is going on, and it must be a tragedy for this kind of person to be the boss. How many such dilemmas do you have to encounter in your life, and you can achieve a career if you shoot correctly? As a result, you don't even have the courage to clapp, how can a transparent talent like Cheng Yu look at you?
Cheng Yu will not talk about the two cities of Fan County and Dong'a, and then talk about why Cheng Yu urged Cao Cao not to succumb to the limelight Yuan Shao.
Behind this is actually very simple, since you Cao Cao chose to create a career in troubled times, you must have the consciousness that "there is no turning back from entrepreneurship". You have been following Yuan Shao, and over the years, you have slowly begun to develop independently, and as a result, you have to choose to kneel in front of Yuan Shao, and it is rare for you to really stand up again.
Human servility has inertia for a long time, at least in the consciousness of many people. You Cao Cao sent his family to Yuan Shao as a hostage, firstly, it will make many people look down on you, and secondly, with Yuan Shao's "human nature management master" attribute that makes people feel terrifying and suffocating, it will be even more difficult for you Cao Cao to get rid of his control.
Life is the road to entrepreneurship, comfort and freedom and success are actually inversely proportional. You covet the comfort and comfort of working for people, so don't fantasize about the scenery and achievements of being a boss. If you want to become a real person, you should be robbed and you grit your teeth to cross; You must guard with tears in your eyes; You have to learn to turn it into motivation and nourishment for growth.
Cheng Yu advised Cao Cao to kill Liu Bei in advance as a precaution, guarding the city alone with 700 people was a bold artist, and predicting that Sun Liu would unite was to see the essence through phenomena, but in fact, they were all manifestations of his deep understanding of human nature and the logic of interests. Liu Bei has the spirit of heroism, this kind of person cannot always be willing to live under the people for a long time, once the wind and clouds change the dragon, it is difficult to prevent if you can't stay. Yuan Shao was the biggest boss at that time, he would not look at Zhencheng, which had only 700 people and no strategic threat, but as soon as you increased your troops, you would make the bait and threat bigger, and I really don't know if Yuan Shao would send people to attack; Sun Liu cooperation is a kind of human need to huddle for warmth, you Cao Cao has become a trend of annexing the world, if they don't cooperate, they will kill each other first? Sun Quan is not such a confused person.
Cheng Yu's wisdom of "being content and not dishonored" and persuading Cao Pi not to act arbitrarily is simpler, that is, he has a very measured sense of doing things, and always remains rational and calm.
But this is also the most difficult point to do well in the workplace, because a normal person has seven emotions and six desires, good times love to scream, difficult love to complain, "near is not inferior, far is angry" villain traits are generally a little. That is to say, most of us are people who have small human disease.
But not all normal business is reasonable, you have to analyze it on a case-by-case basis. Cao Cao is not an ordinary person, he is a big boss who looks at the world, he has imperial mental skills, and his role, status and environment are not allowed to allow people around him to have no sense of boundaries and proportions. Even his son Cao Pi had to pay special attention to this.
Therefore, let's advise all friends in the workplace, regardless of their abilities, performance, background, and relationship, always remember the phrase "companion like a tiger", you have the above conditions are good, you can get closer to the boss, if it is not good, you have to force it up, it is useless. But closer to the boss, be sure to draw a red line for yourself, and don't go to the thunder pool area within the red line.
In fact, there are still many places worth pondering and learning on Cheng Yu, here is limited to space, just throwing bricks and jade to everyone, if you have anything to communicate, you can leave a message in the comment area.
Five hundred words of reflection
Let's borrow Cheng Yu to discuss a question with you: what should we do to the right boss? Remember that the right boss is the boss you think is worth or must follow.
There are three aspects: emotional, profit, and security.
In terms of emotions, we must realize that the boss is also a mortal, and he also has seven emotions and six desires, so we can't treat the boss as a saint, we must learn to support his emotional appeals, and we must try to achieve emotional resonance with him. It's not a matter of life and death, try not to contradict him, especially in public. You can't prove your boss wrong in order to prove yourself right. When the boss is feeling down, encourage him; When the boss is more fanatical, persuade him; In a word, try to make your boss feel your true feelings as much as possible.
In terms of interests, we must realize that the boss is not a philanthropist, he will not and does not like to give alms, relieve a useless subordinate, so we must try to become a person who can help the boss solve specific problems, and can create value for the boss. Otherwise, the relationship between you and your boss will become weaker and weaker. Between people, flowing through the river of time together, either consumes feelings or consumes interests. You can't create value for the boss, how long can the relationship between you and him be consumed? Only by continuously creating value for him can you and your boss have a foundation for long-term coexistence and coexistence. In a word, be a useful person to the boss at all times.
In terms of security, we must realize that the boss is generally a person with a strong sense of boundaries, and he also has a strong sense of crisis. Whatever the reason, you have to control yourself and don't give your boss too much of a sense of threat. Your position, merit, ability, emotions, etc., once you reach a state that he feels uncontrollable, then you are in danger. It's not the emperor who wants to kill the heroes, it's not the boss who wants to guard against the people around him, it's you and you who will do it, which is determined by the inherent security needs of human nature. Why only mad dogs chase people to bite, the average dog, if you don't break through its safety bottom line, it won't bite you. In short, try to be a gentle person without aggression and hurt.
Without expanding, if you learn the wisdom of Cheng Yu, there is no problem in understanding people in the workplace.
The above is only for you and me to encourage together, if there are similarities, it is purely coincidental, if there is any objection, the opinion is reserved.