22 years old, just graduated from college, was handpicked by Dong Mingzhu as the "successor", what is the experience?
It's simply a pie in the sky.
However, not so long ago.
This "chosen daughter" Meng Yutong, who was envied by everyone, left Gree.
The reasons for the departure were not disclosed too much.
Gree quickly removed Meng Yutong's photo and renamed the live broadcast room.
And Meng Yutong's sentence on social platforms that "it is better to rely on others than on yourself" also seems to mean something.
Many people feel sorry for her and feel that young people are impulsive.
That's Dong Mingzhu, how many people can't hold the thigh if they want to. Following her, are you still worried that there is no development in your career?
But in my opinion, Meng Yutong's departure is not worth surprising.
Because from the beginning, her joining did not seem to be as simple as Bole Soma.
In September 2021, in a workplace variety show, Meng Yutong, who was favored by Dong Mingzhu, officially joined Gree.
The two not only often hold hands and appear under the media camera, they are very close.
2 months later, at an entrepreneur summit.
Dong Mingzhu also said bluntly: "I just want to train her to be the next Dong Mingzhu." ”
For any young person, this is the highlight of life.
And Meng Yutong even relied on this short sentence, and the social platform rose by nearly one million fans in 3 days.
But, is Dong Mingzhu really just to bring newcomers?
When Dangdang.com Li Guoqing once boldly opened the microphone: "This is a hype, the purpose is to live broadcast and bring goods and incubate their own Internet celebrities." ”
Indeed, what else is a better character than the "successor of Dong Mingzhu"?
Sure enough, after becoming popular overnight, Gree immediately registered a number of Meng Yutong-related trademarks.
And immediately built the "Pearl Feather Tong Live Broadcast Room".
Let Meng Yutong, who joined as the secretary of the chairman, do a live broadcast with goods.
Even if Meng Yutong once said that live broadcasting is not his favorite position.
Some people feel that Meng Yutong is just a "tool man" for Dong Mingzhu to open the live broadcast market. She was "used" by the big guy.
I don't think so.
After joining Lion, Meng Yutong's life was like riding on an accelerated train.
On a certain platform, one of her short video offers has reached 200,000.
Even beyond many head influencers.
There are also media reports that Meng Yutong is suspected of setting up a personal studio.
The business scope is digital content production, but also related to new media.
In this way, it is not so much that she is unilaterally "used" as that it is a mutual benefit between the two.
Don't forget, Bo Le's original intention in choosing Maxima is also to make himself a friend of King Chu.
Where there are so many heavenly luck, the adult world is bound by interests.
Although it is heart-wrenching, interpersonal relationships are actually a process of interest exchange.
Others get what they want from you and give you value accordingly.
Taking what you need and exchanging them at an equal price is the secret of long-term adult relationships.
The world is bustling, all for profit; The world is crowded, all for the good.
Most of the time, intersection between people is four words: profitable.
In the variety show "Listen to My Sister", actor E Jingwen once shared a story of his own.
When she was still an unknown actor, she would participate in some dinners, hoping to make contacts and have more opportunities.
Once, there was a very well-known director at the dinner, and Ejingwen was brave and took the initiative to toast the director and hand over business cards.
That night, she added the director's WeChat.
She was overjoyed and thought to herself that she also had a high-level network.
After that, in order for the director to get acquainted with her. Every New Year's holiday, she would send a blessing text message.
It was sent like this until the third year, and she found that she had long been blocked by the other party.
Don't blame the world for being cold, but she really can't provide value.
A well-known director has many resources to choose from. Why give you a chance to give a little actor who doesn't know who it is?
The core of social networking is to see what kind of value it brings to each other.
We always think that if we get to know more connections and get to know more big guys, we will have more paths.
But in fact, when you are incapable, no matter how much you cling to the powerful, it is useless.
To put it bluntly, you have achieved nothing, and everyone respects and stays away. You excel and surround yourself with good people.
It is never that there are more friends and more roads, but that there are more friends when the road is good.
Remember the picture of Cao Dewang's dinner that once brushed the whole network?
At an annual meeting of entrepreneurs, other CEOs were busy handing out business cards and making connections.
Only Cao Dewang himself, as if there was no one next to him, sat down and ate on his own.
Not only that, but the assistants around him also stopped those who wanted to come to toast and set up closely, one by one.
The meaning is obvious, he is here for a meal.
Some people say that he is arrogant, but in fact, think about it, who is Cao Dewang?
The glass he produces accounts for 70% of China's automotive glass market share, and is China's "first benevolent" with donations of more than 10 billion yuan.
How many of these entrepreneurs present can reach his magnitude?
And how many, with this strength can bring him practical benefits?
In the eyes of others, this kind of dinner may be a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, but for Cao Dewang, this is just chicken rib socialization.
In the face of absolute strength, any clever words are meaningless.
Truly powerful people never need to advertise themselves with their connections. There will be a lot of people to add to him.
Zhang Songwen, before becoming famous, was bullied by the crew and left him in the desert after filming.
After becoming popular, attend the event, even if there is a movie queen like Zhang Ziyi. He can be warmly led by Chen Kaige and stand in the C position.
Huang Bo, who was a young actor, hit a wall everywhere in the crew.
Later, he became a horn, he said, surrounded by smiling faces, everyone is happy with you.
It's not that we are realistic, but that it is.
The so-called network is so utilitarian.
You will find that when you are strong enough, you will even have fewer stupid X's around you.
If you want to make friends with cows, the way is actually very simple.
It is to make yourself a cow first, and have the capital to interact with others on an equal footing and screen low-level social interactions.
The premise of meeting a noble person is to make yourself expensive first.
Many people will call Meng Yutong Gree Dong Yuhui.
But in my opinion, judging from their choice after becoming popular, it is destined that the two cannot be compared.
Meng Yutong is more like a "net celebrity" role in Gree, in fact, she is not without connotation.
As a beautiful student from Zhejiang University, she also participated in "One Station to the End", and she has a little ink in her stomach.
But every time, she almost went out of the circle in a big hot dance.
Dancing in the live broadcast, jumping in the annual meeting, and dancing in the countryside.
Once or twice may still be attractive with her pure appearance, after a long time, I feel that she is no different from those female Internet celebrities in the live broadcast room.
And after Dong Yuhui became popular, what did he do?
In addition to live streaming, he is constantly improving himself.
Post a variety of interesting and informative short videos on Weibo, B station and other platforms.
The content covers poetry, history, culture, music and other aspects. It's both entertaining and informative. The degree of erudition, even the well-known writer Liang Xiaosheng bluntly said that he was looking forward to meeting him.
The same "successor", why can Dong Yuhui's career go further?
I think it's precisely because even after experiencing popularity, he never relaxes to improve himself.
Fame and praise are nothing but ethereal nothingness.
Only by constantly improving ourselves and enriching ourselves can people truly take root.
The foundation of networking is strength.
Until you're strong enough, any hustle and bustle, intertwined social interactions, are less important than improving yourself.
Lingshen often has dragons, and Wugao has its own phoenix habitat.
When you have value, what excellent partners, advanced resources. No need to please, it will come to you in a steady stream.
So, why waste time on some insignificant people and things.
Be down-to-earth and improve yourself step by step. Making your ability worthy of your ambition is the most important thing.
Believe that if you bloom, the breeze will come.
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