There are some conventional things that do not need special explanation, and everyone can consciously abide by them. But there are also some particularly ignorant people who deliberately break the rules, and they can still say a set of reasons. At first glance, it sounds like a reason, but when you think about it, you always feel that something is wrong.
The eyes of the masses are bright, whether things are reasonable or not, everyone can understand if they think about it, and you will not change the essence of things just because you can speak well.
In a certain place in Zhejiang, a family held a lottery at the wedding site, and a wedding car driver drew the first prize watch, and the main family asked for a return on the grounds that he was not a guest, but the driver refused.
According to insiders, the couple's wedding was arranged in a hotel, and relatives and friends from both sides were invited to participate, and dozens of tables were set up at the banquet, and the scene was very lively.
Regarding the wedding, the man's family hired the wedding company to be responsible for the specific matters, in addition to receiving relatives, there were several guests in other places, and the company arranged for the wedding car driver to pick up, and the cost was paid by the main family to the driver.
When the driver picked up the guests to the hotel, it was close to noon, and the main family kindly invited the driver to have a meal together, thinking that it was about adding a pair of chopsticks, but he didn't expect to bring trouble to himself later.
On the big day, the host family was very happy, in order to thank relatives and friends, and in order to enliven the atmosphere, a lottery was arranged, and the prizes were directly placed, and the guests could take whatever they drawn.
The first prize was a watch of a certain brand, worth 2999 yuan, which was drawn by the wedding car driver, and then taken directly.
After the owner found out, he contacted the wedding company and wanted to recover the watch. However, when the company contacted the driver, the driver said that he had given someone to settle the debt and refused to return it.
This answer made the main family very dissatisfied, obviously the lottery is for guests, the driver is not an invited guest at all, but paid his own salary to help, seeing that he is too hard to let him have a meal together, he should not participate in the lottery at all.
The company consciously took care of the loss and first compensated the watch according to the price, intending to deduct it from the driver's salary. When I went to communicate with the driver, the driver was even more aggrieved.
The driver said that when the wedding scene was drawn, there were no rules saying that he could not participate, and now he can't go back to the company, how to calculate this loss?
The main family is even more aggrieved, he is just kind, seeing that he waited outside for too long, let him come in for a meal, how did he treat himself as a guest to draw a lottery.
The two sides did not give in to each other, and no one would obey the other, which caused heated discussions among netizens
Some netizens commented that this time I stand on the groom's side, you are only an employment relationship, not a relationship between relatives and friends, the lottery is an activity to give back to relatives and friends, and the driver has no half-dime relationship.
Some netizens commented that although there are no rules, you have to be self-aware.
Some netizens commented that you are a chartered driver, people gave you a fare, and let you come in for a meal, and you didn't give a gift, and the lottery to get the prize really shouldn't be.
The author's opinion
The wedding car driver helped the main family pick up and drop off the guests, and the main family also paid the salary, out of kindness let him enter the venue for a meal, but who knew that he participated in the lottery and won the first prize, and he was unwilling to return the prize.
Maybe the driver thinks that he draws the prize by luck, why take it away? At the wedding, it was not said that the driver would not be allowed to participate in the lottery. But he didn't want to think about it, such a lottery really does not need a special agreement, everyone knows it, just like the waiter who helps with the serving, will they participate in the lottery?
Some things are too obvious to need special explanation, and the driver has to say that the main family has not explained it in advance, which is a strong word.