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preface
In the 90s of last century, Taiwanese actress Fang Jiwei quickly became popular with a song "Regret", and her charming appearance and stunning singing skills made her the second "military lover" after Teresa Teng.
Today, Fang Jiwei is 56 years old, although her appearance is still bright and moving, but in the eyes of the public is already the age of being a grandmother and a grandmother, she is still unmarried, and rumors have been quickly clarified, and she remains single until now.
Recently, Fang Jiwei broke the news in an interview that he had never been in love in his life and was still a virgin.
Her emotional state has been attracting much attention in recent years, and the public only knows that she has the concept of not marrying, but she has never been in love.
In the big dye vat of material desire in the entertainment industry, no matter how pure actresses will be more or less "polluted", Fang Jiwei's self-statement shocked countless netizens.
What kind of life is it to be 56 years old and have never been in love?
01
Now Fang Jiwei has faded from the public's view, but Fang Jiwei when he first debuted is the "first love" and "pure goddess" of many boys.
As we all know, the Chinese music scene in the 90s can be described as "immortal fight", Tan Zhangmei Chen, the Four Heavenly Kings, Faye Wong, Ye Qianwen, Pu Shu and other people are brilliant, and any song is a classic.
In such a "flower-blooming" environment, it is not easy to have a place, but Fang Jiwei has done it.
In 1988, Fang Jiwei sang a song "Regret" with affection, and became popular with the image of "fresh and sunny healthy jade female singer".
After Teresa Teng, Fang Jiwei became the second female singer widely loved by her brothers, and also had the title of "eternal lover in the army".
Since then, Fang Jiwei has also released many albums with Faye Wong and beyond, and songs such as "Love Story", "Thinking of You in Your Dreams", "Seagulls Flying" and other songs are still loved by the public until now.
Gold will not only shine in one place, by chance, the pure and beautiful Fang Jiwei was favored by Qiong Yao, and starred with Qin Han, Liu Xuehua and others in "Seagulls Fly Colorful Clouds Return", and gained good ratings and word of mouth.
The first drama was to cooperate with the popular Aunt Qiong Yao at that time, and Fang Jiwei's acting road went smoothly.
Soon, she received an invitation from Stephen Chow, inviting her to play the heroine Ruxian in "Gambler II: Gambling Saint on the Beach" (Taiwan version), and sing the theme songs "Resentment Sky Changed Heart" and "Hate to Meet Today Again".
With this movie, Fang Jiwei quickly opened her acting market, singing and film and television careers both blossomed, and also gained excellent audience popularity.
In the Spring Festival of 1992, Fang Jiwei was invited to appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, this time, the national audience knew this fresh and sunny girl, and Fang Jiwei completely became the darling of the audience.
At this point, Fang Jiwei's career has reached its peak, her works have been widely welcomed, and she has become a "goddess" in the minds of many boys.
There are many popular people, and soon, Fang Jiwei's lace news followed, the most famous of which is "Fang Jiwei refuses Stephen Chow's confession".
This news caused quite a stir at the time, and many people did not understand: "This is Stephen Chow!" How can there be girls who don't like Stephen Chow! At that time, Stephen Chow was at the peak of his career, and Fang Jiwei also rejected the pursuit of many rich people at that time, which led to the news that Fang Jiwei had the concept of "not marriage".
This is obviously not the case, recently, Fang Jiwei said in Xiao S's interview program that he treats feelings casually, but he does not feel that marriage is a necessary thing in life.
But in the interview, Fang Ji Wei also said: "My thinking is very conservative, I will not lose myself easily in this life, unless I love it enough, I will not give my body!" ”
As soon as these words came out, he was instantly shocked that Xiao S couldn't close his mouth, and he felt incredible that Ji Wei was still a virgin, and under Xiao S's questioning, Fang Jiwei revealed that he had never kissed anyone until now.
According to our Chinese outlook on life, getting married and having children is one of the top priorities in life, why does Fang Ji only have such a concept?
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Fang Jiwei's such a smooth debut experience, coupled with her maverick outlook on life, many people speculate whether she will have the capital to do whatever she wants because her family background is too strong, but this is not the case.
Fang Jiwei, formerly known as Ye Chunhua, was born in March 1967 in a well-off family in Wanhua Military Village, Taipei City, Fang Jiwei's father is a well-known local boss, so Fang Jiwei lived a life of brocade clothes and food when he was young.
When he was a child, Fang Jiwei was lively and cute, showed great talent in singing, and also served as a hockey representative player at school, which was loved by his family and friends.
But the good times did not last long, when Fang Jiwei was still young, there was a sudden change in the family, and his father owed 90 million, which is also an astronomical amount now, not to mention the seventies and eighties.
There was no way, his father had to sell his property, sell his house and land to pay off his debts, and Fang Jiwei and his mother also had to live a poor life, but this was still far from enough.
In order to pay off his father's debts, the young Fang Jiwei obediently followed his mother to sell songs and set up stalls, and when it was most difficult, he even walked the streets to sell betel nuts and mung bean soup, just to earn a small income.
From thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift. The huge gap did not make the young Fang Jiwei frustrated, but chose to face life with a smile, and after graduating from high school, Fang Jiwei did not continue to go to the exam, but directly entered the record company to debut, and continued to pay off his father's debts.
The hardships of her childhood taught her a truth: everything must be relied on by herself.
It is precisely this concept that makes Fang Jiwei develop an independent personality, in life, she does not like to trouble others, and she will never ask for help if she can do it by herself.
For a long time, Fang Jiwei believes that women do not have to rely on marriage, and can also create a happy life by relying on their own efforts; Getting married and having children is not the only way to feel happy, a person can live well,
Love yourself well and please yourself is the most important thing! This is Fang Jiwei's emotional values.
In addition, there is another reason for Fang Jiwei's concept, which not only directly made Fang Jiwei make the decision to "not have children", but also allowed her to see the essence of the entertainment industry and fade out of the public's vision since then.
03
Perhaps Fang Jiwei's career development was too smooth, even God was jealous of her talent, and when her career was developing rapidly, God made a joke with her, and cancer was found in her body.
Perhaps after becoming famous, she went around every day to bury the root of her body, Fang Jiwei fell ill just like that, and the doctor diagnosed her with "thyroid follicular cancer".
This news was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, nailing Fang Jiwei in place, she didn't dare to imagine that she was still so young, how should she face death?
Fortunately, God still favored Fang Jiwei, after re-examination, the doctor said that fortunately, the cancer cells were found early, and the maintenance period after surgery will improve for a period of time, but the bad news is that the disease is hereditary, even if it is treated, it may be passed on to the next generation.
After the ups and downs, Fang Jiwei breathed a sigh of relief with the results of such an examination, and she silently promised in her heart to love her body, and also planted the idea of not getting married easily and not dragging others down.
There was no danger to her life for the time being, but what Fang Ji didn't expect was that something more cruel was about to happen to her.
After learning the news of Fang Jiwei's illness, fans were very worried about the health of the "goddess", but Fang Jiwei's record company did not announce the news that the disease could be cured, but instead used slogans such as "the beautiful singer has cancer, the end of life" as a gimmick to sell out.
also broadcast Fang Jiwei's surgery process live at this concert, which is really a naked "human blood steamed bun".
And all this was carried out without Fang Jiwei's knowledge, and when Fang Jiwei's illness appeared in the public eye, the audience saw that she was intact and angrily accused Fang Jiwei of "fraud".
Only then did Fang Ji know that the company wanted to make money without a bottom line, and she was just a money-making tool.
Frustrated, Fang Jiwei chose to terminate the contract with the company and withdraw from the entertainment industry, but what she didn't expect was that the company sued her backhandedly, claiming that she would pay a large amount of money for terminating the contract.
Adding fuel to the fire, just when Fang Jiwei was anxious about this, his father was unfortunately diagnosed with cancer, and his mother was anxious to suffer from Alzheimer's disease.
Fang Jiwei's life completely fell into a trough, and at the most difficult moment, she once wanted to go to become a monk, but seeing her mother who still needed to be taken care of, she still chose to continue to carry it.
Just when Fang Jiwei felt desperate, a friend reached out to her, she was Liu Xiaohua, a Tianzhu merchant, and after helping Fang Jiwei pay off a huge debt, Liu Xiaohua invited Fang Jiwei to join his shop and open a store with her.
In this way, Fang Jiwei opened a Tianzhu shop while learning Buddhism and volunteering, insisting on practicing in order to seek some peace in his heart.
Over the years, Fang Jiwei's petition to Taiwan and the mainland to jointly build 108 pagodas to help those who are experiencing hardship and those who are at a low point, which has been unanimously praised by the outside world.
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Although Fang Jiwei adheres to the concept of "marriage follows fate", she is not an irresponsible and refined egoist in life, which can be seen from her attitude towards her parents.
Fang Jiwei has no children, but she regards taking care of her parents as an important task in life, and she shows a high sense of responsibility in taking care of her family.
Fang Jiwei has called on fans in interviews more than once that no matter how busy they are, they cannot ignore their care and responsibility for the family, and this family concept makes us feel Fang Jiwei's filial piety and kindness.
In terms of mate selection criteria, Fang Jiwei also said that he would never choose a mate based on appearance, but would observe his every move, such as whether his steps were stable enough, whether there was etiquette during meals, and so on.
Perhaps it was fate, Fang Jiwei did not meet the destined him, but she was not sorry and anxious when she was used to independence.
Although she does not have a partner, Fang Jiwei can live well, she spends most of her spare time with her parents, and achieves financial freedom through her own efforts, living a leisurely little life.
Today, she has enough time to do some things she likes, such as yoga, incense making, tea art and so on.
Fang Jiwei will also make his own dolls and focus his time and energy on dolls to make up for the lack of childhood and the regret of not being able to give birth.
This kind of Fang Jiwei allows us to see a different way of life, see another possibility of life, and also remind us that we might as well pause our busy life, examine our hearts, and pursue the life we really want.
epilogue
The years never defeat the beauty.
Fang Jiwei's story tells us that life is never only one path, and everyone has the freedom to pursue the life they want; Everyone can write their own legendary life.
It's just that while pursuing our own values and lifestyle, we should also respect the choices of others.
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Wen | Mu Qiao
Editor|Nanpo