Recently, Grandpa Zheng answered the netizens' question about marriage and rushed to the hot search, and he righteously popularized the rights of the civil code to netizens.
Born to be human, it is personal freedom to marry and not to marry.
Coincidentally, many years ago, a pure jade girl in the Taiwanese music scene was also hotly discussed by the public because of "not marrying for the sake of marriage".
She is 53 years old and has been single fang Jiwei, before the loss of fame and fortune, the clouds are light and calm.
Fang Jiwei's real name is Ye Chunhua, born in March 1967 in Wanhua, Taipei, when he was a child, his family was well-off, his father was born into a famous family, his mother was the runner-up in the local beauty pageant, Lang Cai's female appearance, everything seemed to go smoothly.
The big family has its own harsh heritage, and attaches great importance to the male in the family, so the birth of Fang Jiwei has covered this small family with a layer of repressed "guilt".
The patriarchal father doubled the pressure he received from the elders on the other half of the family, and the mother suffered silently, grievances and forbearance, squeezing out the mother's love and protection from the wall.
"I was told by relatives when I was a kid, 'Because I'm a girl, my dad won't come home,' and the whole family laughed at how my mother gave birth to a daughter, how nice it would be if I were a boy!"
The father's gradual drifting away, the mother's humiliation and burden, let Fang Ji, who grew up in the cold eyes, use the understanding and obedience beyond the child to cater to the outside world in exchange for that little warmth.
The father vouched for others, owed a huge debt, sold the property but there was still a big gap, and since then his life has plummeted.
Her father returned home to work hard to earn money, and her mother had to work more to maintain the family, and when she was young, she followed the stalls, selling mung bean soup and betel nuts, and later sang on some small stages and wedding venues, and became a strong support behind her mother with her young shoulders and children's voice.
Fang Jiwei once said in an interview: "At that time, as long as my mother was good and my family was good, I didn't think it was hard. "
On campus she was a hockey player, but she couldn't develop her interests into the direction of the future like other children.
In high school, she constantly participated in various auditions and sang the theme song of the eight-o'clock TV series, when her musical talent was on full display.
Sometimes singing on holidays, she needs to make three or four moves, and her popularity is extraordinary.
When her father rode a motorcycle to send her on a rainy day, he stuffed newspapers inside his raincoat to resist the cold, but domineeringly let her put her hand into the pocket of her clothes to keep warm.
Fang Jiwei, who was accustomed to bitterness, felt nostalgic: It was my father who gave me the factor of happiness, and any small warmth in life can make her heart full.
Outside, she is observant, cautious, sometimes pleasing others, often at the expense of aggrieving herself, and her stoic personality has also laid the foundation for her future career.
Childhood life is full of rushes and hardships, but in the bones, the seeds of resilience have long taken root.
After graduating from concord high school, Fang Jiwei joined Blue & White Records and engaged in copywriting.
Slender she has a beautiful first love face, innocent and flawless temperament and gentle personality so that she gets more audition opportunities than others, after being affirmed, the release of records officially entered the music world.
In 1988, with Pan Meichen's "Regret" became famous in one fell swoop, the new star of the song world Fang Jiwei bid farewell to the weak leaf Chunhua and became the pillar of the family's economy.
Musician He Houhua is the first noble person in her life, and he appreciates the fresh health in Fang Jiwei's bones, and since then a young and sunny jade female singer has risen.
In 1990, the sixth album "Love Story" was released, and the streets and alleys were full of quiet and clear, mesmerizing midranges.
Soon she took over the baton of "Military Lover" from Teresa Teng, maintained four consecutive championships from 1991 to 1994, and became the well-known K song queen and tender singer at that time.
In 1991, Xiang Huasheng was extremely optimistic about Fang Jiwei, assisted her to enter the Hong Kong showbiz circle, and partnered With Stephen Chow in the movie "Shanghai Beach Gambling Saint" as the heroine of the Taiwanese version, and the mainland version of the heroine Gong Li at the time went hand in hand, and the film won 170 million super high box office.
Stills from the movie "Gamble saint on the beach"
She sang the theme song "Complaining that the Sky Changed Heart", the melody and lyrics went straight to the depths of the heart, and the voice that entered the ear was full of the sadness of the world, which made people's hearts involuntarily stir and immerse.
Pure love, accompanied by astringent love, towards a strong longing, and finally a dream of love.
In the same year, he joined New Yibao Records and recorded a compilation album with singers such as Beyond and Faye Wong.
The 1992 album "Think of You in a Dream" with a soft rock little rebellion, a cold arrangement, a pure love voice, without any showmanship, refreshing transmission of girlish love to wake up.
At the best age, meet the most helpless love, a thousand threads, a thousand words into the most intoxicating sentence: think of you in the dream.
This song sings the purity of love, pins on the original intention of love, hides the bitterness of love, and also tells the origin of love.
In 1992, the super popular Fang Jiwei was invited to participate in the Beijing CCTV Spring Festival Gala and sang "Two Pockets", and mainland fans met the long-desired "military lover".
Since then, the two sides of the strait and the three places have had the legend of Fang Ji's beautiful songs and sweet songs.
When the career was red, fate made a big joke with her.
Fang Jiwei was diagnosed by the doctor as thyroid follicular carcinoma, which just grows next to the vocal cords, which is very likely to affect the future singing career.
At that time, the record company used this matter to make a big fuss, saying that she would no longer be able to sing and her life would be in danger, and at the same time arranging for her to be on the show to promote the "farewell" music scene.
Kind, she has not yet learned to refuse, because along the way her world only continues to cater, and she has become her "instinct", so the day before the operation she did not know the beginning and end of the company's arrangement.
Filial piety she hid her illness from her parents, and Fang's parents, who went to climb the mountain on the day of the operation, learned from fans that their daughter had a "serious illness" and was life-threatening, and Fang's mother turned white overnight.
She cooperated with the company very highly, and she did not expect that the company allowed the media to directly enter the hospital to shoot the surgical process for the sake of profit, which put her into a passive situation.
Shortly after the treatment, she recovered and appeared, clarified as a benign fibroid, so that the unreasonable fans and media felt that this was her joint record company, using the illness as a gimmick to create focus, trampling and deceiving the public, so they resisted.
At this time, her colleague fell into a well, and the record company "banned" her and made her bear the termination fee.
Under her easy-going appearance hides a sensitive, eager to feel safe, the scars brought to her by her original family have always been like shadows, she trusts the company undefended, and treats everyone around her kindly, but this flattering personality has become her biggest weakness.
Even her personal seal was delivered to the company, and after the termination of the contract, she not only owed the company more than seven million, but also became the company's termination compensation.
Kind and sharp, she fell a big heel, and the darkness of showbiz and human nature disappointed her so much that she once wanted to go out of her home to practice.
When life is not satisfactory, it is a long holiday given by Heaven, and you must enjoy this holiday.
Suddenly, a day of vacation ends, time comes and goes, and life really begins.
Simply she learned another kind of growth, protecting herself in principle and keeping a distance on guard.
After a period of silence, Ji Wei sorted out her mood to join Golden Point Records, and after using the signing gold to pay off her debts, she once again stood on the stage and sang to support her family, save money to buy a house, and rebuild a security fortress for herself.
In 1993, together with Andy Lau, Jacky Cheung and others, he was elected the "Top Ten Idol Best Image Singer Award".
After releasing three records such as "Love Life" and "Simple Happiness", she gradually quit the music scene after 1995 and returned home to take care of her parents.
In 1996, she became the first Chinese female singer to appear on the red carpet at the Oscars, and she was relieved by this time.
Her eyes are full of stories, but her face is not full of wind and frost, and her career achievements have added a little strength to her optimistic personality.
"Tianzhu chain store" Liu Xiaohua is Fang Jiwei's second nobleman, Fang Jiwei followed her to engage in the Dzi business, and successively developed three stores, the business is good, and the wealth makes her sense of security grow day by day.
In order to help a fan get through the difficulties, she opened a health food company, gave a third of the shares to the fans, and after the company's performance stabilized, she quit the company and gave full authority to the fans.
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish.
At this time, the former recipients returned the favor and let the kindness and sincerity pass on.
Fang Jiwei said bluntly: When I am suffering, I can't find anyone to help me; but I can't see that others are suffering, and I will try my best to help.
She went to Tibet to do volunteer work, learn Buddhism, selflessly help the weak around her, and vowed to build 108 stupas in China.
Fang Ji Wei and Stupa
In addition to the performances and entrepreneurial income of the Great Love Theater, Fang Jiwei has gained a lot in other investments, and they are all the result of giving people roses and incense.
"I don't understand those, they are all bought because of human feelings, friends told me that she has breast cancer and needs to make money from performance, so I bought it."
Fools have foolish blessings, and Heavenly Gong hurts people.
The stocks and funds she buys because of her personal feelings have a lot of money, and helping others is also helping herself.
The early real estate investment was also quite successful, and she bought various insurance for herself to plan for a healthy future.
Wealth is an energy, and earning money is a journey of self-growth with money as the goal.
When this energy is enough to protect oneself and at the same time to bless the person you love, this is a fulfilling wish.
Later, in order to thank Wei Tuo for protecting the Dharma, Fang Jiwei changed her stage name "Wei" to "Wei" and encouraged herself to work hard to help more people, and in 2008 she was officially ordained as a disciple of Tzu Chi's Yan Shangren.
Kindness becomes great love, tempering becomes strength, and every step of life and career is practice, and blessings are accumulated invisibly.
In August 2014, she was invited to be the guest performer of Meng Tingwei's solo singing "Taipei Love Story".
The two met 20 years ago, and they are both tender singers created by the female version of the love song Prince Huang Dajun, and they are an out-and-out Yuliang relationship.
Familiar melodies, elegant images, affectionate voices, once competitors pity each other on the dazzling stage, the same faith, common enthusiasm for music, intellectual open-mindedness they work together to make a stunning witness to the belated friendship.
Fang Jiwei has always insisted on filial piety and good deeds, and in life, he treats his parents as children and helps the people around him.
When a person's heart is rich and tenacious enough, the love that was once missing is compensated by countless ways of paying love.
Later, her father got cancer and her mother suffered from Alzheimer's disease, and she took care of all the aftermath.
Since the operation, Fang Ji only needs to check his body regularly to ensure his health, and there are still two tumors in his body that are one centimeter large.
Gentle and gentle, she has been single in her mother and fetus so far, has never been in love, and was looked down upon by men of the right age because of the family's debts when she was young; the men who came back after becoming famous showed their flattering faces and ignored her; after taking care of her parents, they maintained a casual attitude towards marriage.
She accepted the baptism of time without hurry, and calmly faced all the babblers in the world.
In May 2020, her autobiography "Lemon Black Tea Brewed by The Years: Happy Child Fang Jiwei Turns Time into a Good Blessing, Written to You Who Will Eventually Become an Adult" was published, and she told the wonderful and bumpy first half of her life with warm and fresh brushstrokes.
From the aura to the trough of life, ups and downs, Fang Jiwei has lived a unique wonderful life, and has also created a long-lasting stability for himself.
Suffering does not mean that you can only give in, and lying down does not mean that you must fail.
The British writer Janet Winterson said, "In this life, you have to be your own hero." You have to use your own strength and your way to win, no matter how difficult it is for you. ”
Life is bittersweet, only by going on can there be new opportunities, life will be better to a certain extent, because it cannot be worse.
Tenacity is the best weapon for optimistic people, in our one-handed life, opportunities are hidden in every crisis, only by relying on themselves to soberly go to the next journey and open up their own happiness.
As the lyrics of "Blessed Time" say: I am simpler than before, filling my heart when I am happy, and wiping away my tears when I think of you.
May you and I both have the courage to move forward an inch, and the calmness to step back a minute.
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