Hair is often seen as an important part of appearance
It represents its own image and charm
When you start to lose your hair and your hair becomes thinning, it means that your appearance is also declining
In this regard, many people feel shamed, frustrated, and have a serious negative impact on their self-esteem
For things that can enhance their appearance, women will always be unstinting to shoot
They can talk to each other about their manicures, hair styling, skin care, teeth whitening, makeup techniques and more
For men, it's hard to talk easily about the new wig on their head
This boils down to men's self-esteem
In fact, it is not a shame to thank the top, and wearing a wig is even more not
In the mid-fifties, a Hollywood survey report
About 10% of men over the age of 35 wear wigs
In New York there will be barbers who specialize in balding men
By 1970, there were 2.5 million men in the United States wearing wigs
Today, in Hollywood museums, wigs that once belonged to major celebrities are placed in the windows
However, there are still many people in China who are prejudiced against wigs, they think that men wearing wigs are hypocritical, and even a little perverted
Therefore, many people would rather face baldness than wear wigs
And in order to regain their own dignity, these people choose to lick the top of their heads, wipe their scalps with ginger, eat black sesame paste, eat He Shou Wu, find a doctor to prescribe a large number of hair growth drugs, and so on
Various methods have been tried, but there are really few that germinate
So they chose the most self-deceptive way, growing their hair around them long and trying to cover the top of their increasingly bald heads
Even so, for the sake of face, they never considered wearing wigs
But have you ever thought that no one cares if you wear a wig or not, and no one will mock you for wearing a wig?
In fact, most of the time we are doing unnecessary insistence for something that others don't care about
For example, Huang Haoping, the debater in "Strange Words", once told a story of his own:
When he came to Kangxi as an assistant host, he needed to wear a wig and pretend to be a woman, and he was afraid that his father, who had a head and a face in the financial circle, would feel embarrassed, so he called his father in advance to ask his opinion, but he didn't expect his father to say that he respected his opinion
Therefore, the face you are trying to keep, the things you feel humiliated, in the eyes of others, may not be worth mentioning at all
Society is changing, people's values are changing
The ancients paid attention to "the skin of the body, the parents who suffer it, do not dare to destroy it, and filial piety begins", and now what?
Barbershops are everywhere, and you can cut your hair as you want
Perhaps wearing a wig before was not recognized, and even ridiculed and discriminated against
But now times have changed, people's concepts are also changing, and wigs have become a sparse and ordinary accessory
Are you afraid that wearing a wig will be exposed by others, but in fact, why don't you dare to face your true heart?
Face has already kidnapped you, but you can't detect it
At the end of the documentary "Baldness Happens", "Men's decency" throws this more essential issue to the audience - where does "self-confidence" come from? Is there self-confidence with hair? Obviously, having hair does not necessarily lead to self-confidence, but without hair, confidence must be lost.
You are no longer confident when you lose your hair and are bald, but the person who wears a wig may regain happiness and confidence
Face makes you compromise on life, and a life bound by face is actually not happy
Therefore, why care about the evaluation of others, your own happiness is the most important
The moment you put on the wig, you will see that you feel as if you are twenty years younger and can regain your confidence
There is no shame in thinning hair, there is no shame in baldness, and there is no shame in wearing wigs
Balding and wearing wigs is to keep their original image or seek a better image, to show the better side to everyone, everyone has the right to pursue beauty
You can choose whether to wear a wig or not according to your personal situation and needs to maintain confidence
It is believed that with the increasing openness of the times and the continuous change of people's thinking, Xie Ding's wig will gradually be accepted by more people
I hope that everyone around me will not be limited and troubled by appearance