Recently, there have been many explosive dramas, but the urban drama "I am very good in other places" with high topic and discussion is worth pressing the "enter key" and reviewing it again.
This drama does not have a top star to star, but it is completely based on first-class plot, first-class interpretation, first-class production, from the market reaction and audience feedback, are well-known.
Therefore, I wanted to write about Ren Suxi, playing Hu Jingjing's cousin Ji Nanjia in the play.
Outside the window, there was the sound of a huqin, slightly desolate and sad.
This is when I wrote about Ren Suxi.
When ren Suxi is mentioned, people think more of the drama "Donkey Gets Water".
At the beginning, "Donkey Got Water" was a drama, and later it was put on the screen and made into a movie.
The film tells the story of the Republic of China period, which takes place in a school where teachers falsely report a donkey as a teacher in order to receive more salaries.
This is an intriguing black comedy in which Ren Suxi plays Zhang Yiman. "Leave it alone, I'll take his sleep." This sentence makes some fans still remember it vividly.
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Born on June 1, 1988 in Laizhou City, Yantai, Shandong Province, Ren Suxi grew up by the sea.
Ren Suxi's mother is a kindergarten teacher, in addition to teaching, especially love to play the accordion, when he was a child, Ren Suxi, after doing his homework, he lay down next to his mother to listen to the piano, and slowly became interested in music.
Ren Suxi's father was an erhu player, not a performance artist. Playing erhu could not support the family, so my father soon switched to sales.
Father, is the first man figure that Ren Su xi has come into contact with in his life.
In 2018, Ren Suxi participated in a music program called "City of Illusion", and she sang a song in the program, called "When I Was a Child", which has such lyrics: "Barefoot chasing the sunset by the railway, glass bead iron box hero card ------ Grandma and shoes to sit in the courtyard dam ------"
Singing and singing, Ren Suxi cried, crying very sadly. Because in every word, it is all about missing my father.
In this song, Ren Suxi sang and cried with Faye Wong on the side, and the host felt strange and asked: "Ren Suxi, in the story just now, which part is most like your own experience?" ”
Ren Suxi blurted out, "Almost all of it." ”
Ren Suxi's father, when she was in the third grade, unfortunately suffered from cancer. She was 11 years old.
After his father became seriously ill, his mother spent most of his time in the hospital with his father, his sister went to school in other places, and Ren Suxi lived in a neighbor's house more often. Life under the fence is not good.
In order to cure his father's illness, all the savings in the family were spent, and the class teacher applied for a difficult student subsidy for Ren Suxi, but Ren Suxi, who got the money, felt very embarrassed.
Receiving the subsidy from the teacher, Ren Suxi went to the oil and grain store to buy a large snakeskin bag of noodles and oil, salt and vinegar, and carried it to the neighbor's house: "I can't eat and drink your food for free, as long as I can stay for two more weeks." ”
The poor family situation, the father is aware. One day, Ren Suxi went to see his father and was ready to buy some medicine for his father, but his father took her hand and said, "Xiao Xi, don't spend money on me anymore, you can buy a piano yourself!" ”
One afternoon, Ren Suxi did not eat, and taking advantage of her mother's absence, she "played" a song on her father's arm with her own hand.
Father felt Ren Suxi's slender fingers while the old tears flowed.
Not long after this song was played, my father unfortunately passed away.
In people's impression, Ren Suxi's figure of 1 meter 73, the facial line is not soft, and the voice is low, giving people a bad feeling.
The reality is that, in Ren Suxi's own words, "I'm actually quite 'weak.'"
Leaving his father's Ren Suxi, he found that his sky had collapsed. All difficulties have to be borne by yourself. She felt herself grow into a towering tree overnight.
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After the death of his father, life at home became more difficult, and her sister studied very well, and was later admitted to the Beijing Film Academy as a dancer. But I didn't find the relevant information, presumably it is very low-key.
In order to make a living, the mother remarried, but the stepfather was very general to Ren Suxi, and was a little eccentric, often hiding snacks from Ren Suxi. At that time, Ren Sushi had a large amount of rice and often did not have enough to eat.
Sometimes the mother can't see past it, wants to stand up for Ren Suxi, and says, too bullying. But Ren Suxi stepped forward to block his mother: family harmony is the most important, I just need to eat less.
When she was a child, Ren Suxi often slept with tears in her eyes, and she lived a difficult and wronged life.
In 2005, 17-year-old Ren Suxi was about to take the college entrance examination. At that time, her math scores were somewhat poor, but she didn't have money to go to cram school, so she often spent her days in the bed with a flashlight to make a roll, and she did it all night.
Kung Fu pays off, and Ren Suxi was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama.
How to say it, this man, sometimes without pushing a force, may not be able to achieve much.
But parents want to make their children as comfortable as possible. Some things can't be deliberate. I also deliberately do not come.
Love and coddling are often only one step away, and sometimes they may not be clear.
Ren Suxi studied the directing department, because it can save a lot of tuition than the acting department.
In the class, Ren Suxi is the youngest, but she is very honest, never late and early departure, but some students, saying that they are in the middle of the play, in fact, did not go to class for a few days, basically filming. It's just that when it's time for the exam, make a makeshift surprise.
When he was in college, Ren Suxi was very busy. Because in addition to classes, she also has to go outside the school to work as a part-time choreographer.
She is tall and energetic, carrying a video camera during the day and staying up late at night to edit. Some people hear, wow, so romantic, but it's actually a very boring job.
Because this is not engaged in artistic creation, it is to take orders to earn tuition. Shoot things, fixed mode, single in order to meet the requirements of Party A, can not do what they want, let alone how much can be integrated into their own thoughts.
In 2008, after graduation, Ren Suxi began his career in North Drift. According to media reports, at that time, she rented a house for 1,000 yuan in Tongzhou, and every day she ran between her home in Tongzhou and the Shuangjing Small Theater in Chaoyang District, performing a drama for 120 yuan.
But Ren Suxi was very content, and she felt that she could support herself.
Ren Suxi's personality is branded with self-esteem, self-improvement and self-love. Never changed in a lifetime.
At the same time, she is also tenacious, determined and persistent. Just identifying what you identify, sometimes it is inevitable to deviate. From another point of view, she is also a very temperamental woman, living very quickly.
At that time, the people who had seen Ren Suxi's performance in the small theater were most impressed by her, and as soon as the drama ended, she would rush out of the theater and catch the last bus No. 669 home.
And while running, he shouted, "Wait for me, wait for me!" Sweat and tears instantly blurred Ren Suxi's eyes.
Those days were mixed with hardship, joy, confusion and hope.
At this time, the only thing that can give Ren Suxi comfort is that she is in love. Her boyfriend, Li Yang, was a classmate of hers for four years in college and later a producer of the drama "Donkey Got Water.".
The two fell in love in 2008, and in 2013, Li Yang got down on one knee on the drama stage and proposed to Ren Suxi.
Li Yang once revealed to reporters that he and Ren Suxi held 4 weddings in 2014, and friends from both sides attended at that time, and the atmosphere was very good.
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Ren Suxi is a fool. And the temperament is pure. In the beginning, it was the path of "I want to be an artist".
Li Yapeng once said: "I can't be an artist, I'm not pure." I don't have Faye Wong purely. ”
Ren Suxi began to be remembered, and began to have a little fame, related to the drama "Donkey Get Water".
Ren Suxi's acting is addictive.
Ren Suxi, known as the "crazy demon of the show", was rumored to have performed 600 "Donkey Get Water" that year, and slapped herself with 1500 rumors.
But then she confirmed that there weren't that many, and I had performed about 200 scenes, and 1500 slaps were somehow calculated.
"Leave it alone, I'll sleep with him."
In the later movie version of "Donkey Got Water", zhang Yiman, a rural teacher, wears a slender cheongsam, although it is not as charming as Ni Ni, but it is also enough to be seductive.
Zhang Yiman slowly walked over to the coppersmith and pushed him down on the bed, his thick lips like hot red iron, kissing the coppersmith's mouth. The coppersmith melted in an instant, and the whole person seemed to be dying.
That night, the coppersmith seemed to have found some meaning in life, and the next day he promised Zhang Yiman to take a picture and was willing to continue to play the donkey water teacher.
"Donkey Got Water" is actually a black humor, wrapped under the farce, a cruel realist tragedy.
And Zhang Yiman in the play also represents a type of woman: very clear about what she wants and what she doesn't want, and is a person who is rational enough and emotional enough. This is very similar to Ren Suxi himself.
Ren Suxi sighed: "Every time I play Zhang Yiman, I feel like I've 'died' once. ”
The writer Li Bihua once said that the standard of a happy and satisfying life is usually: seven points full, three points drunk, and full harvest; living a superior life, paying medium labor, and enjoying inferior desires for the opposite sex. All sentient beings, men and women are human beings, so who should be embarrassed by whom?
Li Bihua's words, placed on Zhang Yiman, and even on Ren Suxi, may be appropriate. Even if it's just temporarily appropriate.
In October 2014, Ren Suxi, Dong Bo and Wang Ge participated in the drama "Once Upon a Time in Northeast China", with Ren Suxi playing the heroine Gao Huan. In March of the following year, he began a second cooperation with Dong Bo and Wang Ge, participating in the drama "Fool" directed by Rao Xiaozhi, and Ren Suxi played multiple roles alone.
Therefore, in the next real life, Ren Suxi and Dong Bo have a different relationship.
And this relationship, until 5 years later, there was a media revelation, saying that Ren Suxi suspected of secret love actor Dong Bo.
In 2019, some media filmed the news that Ren Suxi and Dong Bo were sucking a cup of milk tea on the set and sweetly returning to the hotel together.
As soon as the news came out, Ren Suxi's ex-husband and Dong Bo's ex-wife both came out, and the two had cheated in both marriages. In fact, it was all yesterday's yellow flowers, but you can meet each other, and someone must have been injured at that time.
Why wait for 5 years before it is exposed?
Maybe Ren Suxi at that time was not famous, and there was no paparazzi attention to his every move.
And now Ren Suxi, has some fame, has been in "I am an actor", with acting skills to make actor Zuo Xiaoqing very admirable, and in the movie "The Unknown Generation", relying on superb performances, countless fans.
In "The Unknown Generation", Ren Suxi plays Ma Jiaqi, a high paraplegic patient. One day, two robbers broke into the house and tried to threaten with a gun: "One shot killed you, believe it or not?" ”
At this time, Ma Jia's flag did not change color, and he said calmly, coldly, and coldly: "If you don't cooperate, will you shoot?" Then I will not cooperate. ”
Later, Ma Jiaqi also emphasized: "Aren't the bandits killing people like hemp?" I can't even get crippled, two critics."
The ultimate emotional expression tests the skills of an actor. Because the character's limbs cannot move, she can only try to use various facial expressions to exchange lines with Zhang Yu, who plays the robber, which is very difficult.
After the release of the film, Ren Suxi received great recognition.
However, in this era of traffic, the era of looking at faces, actors like Ren Suxi are not welcome by the market. So in 2019, Ren Suxi was on "The Birth of an Actor", although he did not criticize the current situation of today's entertainment industry, but said his own unspeakable secret.
And just when Ren Sushi's films continued, the above-mentioned media revelations appeared.
Ren Suxi's ex-husband Li Yang said in an interview that Ren Suxi suddenly filed for divorce one day in April 2016, on the grounds that there was no longer any feelings, so end the marriage.
At that time, Li Yang and Dong Bo also knew each other, and when Ren Suxi and Dong Bo rehearsed together, Li Yang went to take Ren Suxi from work and sent Dong Bo home with him. Now that I think about it, it's a bit of a joke.
Li Yang's words, and those of Dong Bo's ex-wife Ma Yaqi, are said to be mutually corroborating.
Ma Qiya and Dong Bo fell in love in 2005 and married in 2014, after 9 years of love run. Li Yang and Ren Suxi, from 2008 acquaintances, to 2014 marriage, also experienced 6 years of long-distance running.
When Ma Qiya and Dong Bo got married, Ma Qiya sent a Weibo and was very happy. According to some sources, when Ren Suxi and Dong Bo collaborated on a drama in 2015, Ma Qiya also helped to promote it together, and found no sign that the two were beyond friends.
And in this year, the specific time is unknown, according to media reports, Ren Suxi and Dong Bo are already together. By 2016, the drama promotional posters filmed by the two were already very sweet, a bit of that taste.
In April 2016, Ren Suxi filed for divorce from Li Yang, later admitting that he was the wrong party. Li Yang was difficult to accept for a while, because at this time, they had only been married for more than a year.
However, no matter how Li Yang couldn't figure it out, Ren Suxi was already disappointed in this marriage and had already made up his mind. This dragged on for half a year, and in November of that year, the two went through divorce procedures in Dalian.
In November of this year, the couple's extramarital affair was also known to Dong Bo's wife, Ma Qiya, and it is said that Dong Bo admitted it to Ma Qiya. At that time, Ma Qiya sent a weibo and had the idea of redemption. And once traveled abroad, hoping to find a unique secret to save the marriage.
At the end of 2016 and 2017, Ma Qiya's Weibo revealed that her married life was not satisfactory, and her heart was struggling, it was painful, it was tangled, and it was not knowing how to be good.
Moreover, Ma Qiya posted a weibo from time to time, both like self-reliance and like she was beating someone.
But in the end, ma qiya and Dong Bo's marriage ended in November 2017.
Just a month after Ma Qiya and Dong Bo divorced, Ren Suxi posted Dong Bo's award-winning Weibo on Weibo, congratulating him on winning the "Best Newcomer" award.
In this way, by the end of 2017, Ren Suxi and Dong Bo had divorced successively.
But whether the two were together later may be because the two are not famous enough, or because of other reasons, the media has not continued to track, and the news is completely unknown.
So for Li Yang, Ren Suxi's ex-husband, after the divorce with Ren Suxi, according to him, he did not contact again, and the two may not have children.
But after the media exposed the "accident" of Ren Suxi and Dong Bo in 2019, Li Yang still accepted an interview with reporters and said that after he and Ren Suxi divorced, his ears could not hear. It should be the sudden deafness caused by the pressure and mood at that time.
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What is the love of the world, the Orthodox religion of life and death.
I sincerely hope that ren Suxi and Dong Bo can live well.
Either way, the days go on and life goes on.
Okay, let's talk about extramarital affairs.
Sociologist Li Yinhe said that first of all, extramarital love should be criticized, which is from the perspective of marriage morality.
Second, the "cheating" of marriage, to some extent, only violates the commitment of fidelity between the two people, but does not constitute a criminal offense.
The third point is that once the marital "infidelity" is discovered, it is hugely destructive, and both parties have to bear a certain price.
I remember that there is a TV series called "Golden Marriage", the protagonist Tong Zhi cheated, and the heroine Wen Li also encountered temptations in marriage. Later, some viewers really could not accept Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao's extramarital love, but found that Wen Li chose to forgive after being very heartbroken, and Tong Zhi still went home.
Some viewers believe that if this happened to Wen Li, there would definitely be no drama at home.
This involves a problem, that is, "men spend their hearts, often tolerated by society, and women spend their hearts to encounter a lot of accusations."
What's going on here? Li Yinhe said in the book "Li Yinhe Says Love" that this is related to the double standard between men and women, the so-called "the more sexual activity of men, the better, the less sexual activity of women, the better."
"When a woman cheats, everyone will use all the filthy words to scold." But when a man cheats, everyone will think that this man is just misdemeanor." The former, such as Wang Baoqiang's ex-wife Ma Rong.
Writer Liao Yimei once borrowed the protagonist of the drama "Soft" to write his understanding of extramarital love. She wrote: "In this life, people meet the heartbeat, meet love, meet sex, in fact, it is not rare, it is rare to meet and understand." ”
Probably many people have seen the movie "The Dream of the Covered Bridge".
Some people say that "The Dream of the Covered Bridge" is just a film that conveys wrong values in the guise of romance. In fact, there is no need to be so excited, and there is no need to be so absolute. The reason why this movie has become a classic is because it has resonated with countless people and stimulated the pain points of countless people.
Classic, a lot of it is controversial. It can also be said that the film only asks questions and makes everyone think.
Li Bihua once wrote in "Rouge Buckle": "Among about ten million people, there will be a pair of beams that can transform butterflies." Others will turn into moths, cockroaches, mosquitoes, flies, and so on. Everything is not as beautiful as imagined."
"The Dream of the Covered Bridge" conveys not the concept of black and white, but let people combine their own experiences when watching the film, to think about the contradictions and confusions between people in their families, as well as the conflict between responsibility and freedom, as well as the sense of existence and way to get along in love and marriage.
In fact, there are many literary and artistic works that can arouse people's thinking but do not provide answers, and these works are often enduring and have been passed down to this day.
It's like our lives.
What kind of life is the best?
I think there are a hundred Hamlets out of a hundred people.
But as John Williams wrote in Stoner, "In the long run, everything, even a learning that has brought him to this realization, is futile and empty; and it will eventually dissolve into a nothingness that they themselves cannot shake."
Do you understand this passage?