When they were young, children did not have the ability to take care of themselves, so many things needed the help of parents to be completed, but as the children grew older, all aspects began to mature, and their self-care ability would be greatly improved, and they gradually began to be able to stand on their own.
But some parents always feel that their children are not good, driven by the desire to control, still try to control their children, and today I will share with you the real story brought by a netizen, a 15-year-old child, and bathing with his mother all day
There was once a mother who came from a divorced family and lacked fatherly love since childhood, so she had a huge thirst for emotions. When she got married, she focused all her eyes on her husband and stuck to him all the time. At first, they are very sweet, but over time, this clingy behavior begins to bore the husband.
They have a son, and this mom puts all her affection and love on him. She always helps her son with things, and wants to use this way to enhance the relationship with his son. But when her son was in junior high school, the mother insisted on bathing with her son. For this request, the son refused. He has learned a lot of physiology in biology class and understands that there are essential differences between men and women. He refuses his mother's request, which makes her start crying and arouse the attention of surrounding neighbors.
Soon after, neighbors began to talk about the mother's behavior, even nicknamed her son "little pervert". This made the son less like school, and he began to resist physical contact with the opposite sex. This mother's behavior has greatly affected her son's growth.
Finally, after a long period of reflection, the son decided to leave the family. While he loved this mom, he realized he needed independence and needed his own space. He left the family and started a new life. Although he still felt the shadows, he began to work hard to overcome these obstacles and regain his confidence and courage.
The editor would like to say a few words about this
Love should not be a bondage, nor should it feel oppressive. As parents, we need to give our children enough freedom and space to grow independently. At the same time, we also need to respect the wishes and feelings of children and not impose our emotions on them. Only in this way can we truly become the guide for children and help them find their own life path.
Therefore, love must also be moderate, and do not let your deformed love harm the child.