In "Dream of the Red Chamber", You Sanjie finally revealed her true heart: she was willing to wait for Liu Xianglian.
How did Jia Lian react?
First of all, praise "sure good eyesight": it turns out that it is such a person who is interested;
Then pour cold water: Liu Xianglian is called a person who is "cold-faced, cold-hearted, ruthless and unrighteous", saying that "almost all people, he is ruthless and unrighteous".

Is this statement in line with the truth?
This is probably a very wrong description.
Liu Xianglian and Qin Zhong, do you have any lifelong friendship?
But Liu Xianglian is always worried about the late Qin Zhong;
One is not perfunctory, the second is not abandoned, the third is not prevaricating, and the fourth is not forgetting;
For the late little prince who has no power and no power, if it were not for the true feelings of true friends, Liu Xianglian would not have been able to do so.
The dirty villain Xue Pan, flirting with Liu Xianglian was beaten bitterly.
This is a real vendetta, after Xue Pan went out to do business and was robbed, what was Liu Xianglian's reaction?
If he sat on the sidelines and felt that "the Heavenly Dao is good for reincarnation," "the wicked have their own wicked grinding," and "being robbed or even killed is Xue Pan's retribution," it is actually very easy to understand.
However, Liu Xianglian chose to step forward and help Xue Pan.
You know, if you dare to rob Xue Pan and his party with a large number of people and horses, the other party is bound to have a large number of people and weapons, and perhaps a previous crime.
It is naturally very dangerous to fight with such a group of outlaws; not to mention it is for the unworthy "scum" Xue Pan.
However, Liu Xianglian was righteous and righteous, and when she saw xue pan in distress and being robbed, she was in a situation of being damaged, and she still fought for righteousness to save each other.
Chivalrous.
Take a step further, see how Liu Xianglian reacted after knowing that You Sanjie was a respectable and fierce woman?
Escape into the empty door.
Give up the red dust and enjoy a lifetime.
Such a person is obviously passionate, cold-faced and enthusiastic, and true and pure.
And Jia Lian's description, it is basically the opposite.
So why did Jia Lian say something diametrically wrong about the character?
Is it the intention to hit Third Sister You and want her to find another good person?
This possibility is not ruled out.
Although Jia Lian is not smart, she also knows that there are many difficulties in promoting the marriage of You Sanjie and Liu Xianglian;
If he could persuade You Sanjie to be more practical and find an ordinary person who was stupid and ugly, had no personality, and had no family lineage, this matter would inevitably be easier.
However, the more crucial reason may not be that he deliberately exaggerated or lied, but that he did not know Liu Xianglian.
Liu Xianglian, who has a cold face, a warm intestine to his friend Gu Dao, and a confidant who lives and dies, may really be a cold and heartless person in the eyes of "outsider" Jia Lian.
Liu Xianglian has a very high vision, and Jia Lian is a poor aristocratic scum of the golden jade and the outside.
With Liu Xianglian's talent, personality, and character, it is normal to look down on Jia Lian and not regard Jia Lian as a friend.
And Liu Xianglian was such a person with a loose temperament, even the evil young Xue Pan dared to fight, and naturally she was not afraid to give Jia Lian a look.
Therefore, this is probably why Jia Lian's impression of Liu Xianglian is "cold-hearted, cold-hearted, ruthless and unjust"
Did this misunderstanding of his cause Third Sister You to misunderstand Liu Xianglian?
Liu Xianglian retired from marriage, and You Sanjie killed herself;
Of course, there was a two-way misunderstanding in this, but in the context of the time, I am afraid that this cannot all be blamed on Jia Lian's introduction words of "cold heart, cold face, ruthless and meaningless".
If you change the opening method, Liu Xianglian and You Sanjie may be a pair of temperamental people who are very well matched; unfortunately, there is no if.