Today to say is a colorful word "homosexuality", different people have different views, modern society is more and more open, but there are still many people who are difficult to accept this social phenomenon, even if they can accept that others are gay, they are not willing to approach this type of people, we ordinary people are still so, the entertainment industry artists are even worse, they receive great attention every day, the three words of homosexuality are more sensitive, once this label is marked, it has become everyone's talk after dinner
Our country's open gay stars always carry a kind of "magnificent" atmosphere, and openness means being ready to openly face all kinds of criticism and different eyes
The same is true in South Korea, when it comes to the first person in the Korean entertainment circle to come out publicly, that is, Hong Shiqian (transliteration or Hong Xitian), speaking of this picture has a familiar friend? He once stayed in Han Zong's "Please the Refrigerator" for a long time, and is a star chef with good cooking skills (Baijia Huang Tao Monster takes you to see the original variety show)
Korean artists, who have filmed a lot of TV series and movies, are mixed in the Korean entertainment circle, known as the king of Korean entertainment circles, often have stars patronizing his restaurants, which is to talk about his career, Hong Shiqian runs four restaurants and a bar in the bustling part of South Korea, Itaewon, and is worth a lot
The king of Korean entertainment circles
Although the career is flourishing, the reputation is out, but has been Hong Shiqian because of the brave open homosexuality and discrimination, under a lot of pressure, as early as 18 years ago, in 2000, Hong Shiqian chose to disclose his sexual orientation, 2000 Ah can imagine this social reflection, the reality is also in the traditional conservative Korean entertainment circle at that time, Hong Shiqian suffered great pressure, his acting career also fell from the highest point
Fortunately, Hong Shiqian did not give up this road, his personality is cute and straightforward, his popularity in the circle is excellent, and he has a strong sense of variety, until he gradually returned to the screen 11 years ago
But in fact, the haze has always been shrouded
In September 2001, Hong Xitian came out, and his life turned into a lonely struggle
In "Healing Camp," which aired in 2013, he said that even after 12 years, he is still battling the prejudices of the world
In the program "Healing Camp - 500 People" that Hong Shiqian participated in in 2015, the program team invited Hong Shigan as a guest to have a sincere conversation with the 5001 MC Corps (Baijia Huang Tao Monster took you to watch the original variety show)
Hong Shigan said that he currently has a lover, and before participating in the recording of the show, the lover even encouraged him to cheer well
He went on to say: "I got a bit of a cold and then I got text messages from him who cared about me and I really thought he was cute. I had introduced him to my mother, but my mother was panicked
Hong Shigan also said: "I have been openly gay for 15 years." Hong Shiqian said: "To be honest, I also have a bit of a grudge, how much more do I have to do to get my mother's final approval?" Speaking of this, Hong Shiqian choked up at one point
The incomprehension of the people around him and the great concern of the outside world made Hong Shiqian dare not disclose his family life to the public, but recently, Hong Shiqian participated in a Korean parent-child program "Mother I Came", and for the first time, he disclosed the fact that he still had a pair of children, which shocked everyone and caused public discussion for a while
First of all, where did this pair of sons and daughters come from?
It turned out that in the second year of Hong Shiqian's return to the screen, his own sister divorced due to emotional discomfort, Hong Shiqian wanted his sister to start a new life, so he took the initiative to adopt a pair of his sister's children and live with himself in Seoul, on the one hand, he could let his sister take another step, on the other hand, he also hoped to reduce his sister's burden and give the children a better life
His sister said that after the divorce, he called himself and said, "Sister, don't get too tired, come to Seoul." He also said: "Hong Xitian adopted both children and said 'let's raise them together', feeling very guilty and unable to speak, giving him a great burden." I couldn't help but burst into tears
Hong Xitian said: "Originally, the brothers and sisters who experienced bumps and bumps had deep feelings, and the first person to accompany me when I was working hard was my youngest sister, so I said: 'Sister, don't feel sorry for me, just rely on me.'" I'm ready and have that ability. (Hundred Yellow Peach Monster takes you to watch the original variety show)
He also said: "Because the family law has changed, I have become a legal protector." Because maybe my sister will have a new departure in the future, I don't want her to become a burden because of her children, so I feel that 'the children should be raised by me'. "Expressed deep feelings for my sister
Later, the sister successfully remarried, in order not to hinder her married life, but also did not want the children to go to the new family to be embarrassed, the two children directly followed the uncle to live together, legally, he also officially became the guardian of the children
Sister and remarried
Although it is a good intention, but because of his own blood is actually the identity of his uncle and gay, the sensitive Hong Shiqian also frankly said that he was afraid that his children would be ridiculed and excluded by his classmates because of himself, so in the decade after adoption, although he wanted to integrate into the children's school activities, he could only try to refuse, and even did not dare to get close to the school, Hong Shiqian for the first time revealed these long-hidden bitterness
Hong Xitian wholeheartedly supports the children's education. He said: "The eldest daughter goes to the United States to study and then cooks, and the second daughter is in the United States to study in high school, 'don't go to a prestigious school, just do what you want.'" He said this to his second brother, but he said he wanted to be a film director, so he said to him, 'No!' 'Didn't you become a director to send you to the United States, don't you have to become a doctor or a doctor?' He played this way, making the studio actors laugh
Hong Xitian also said on this day why he was sent to the United States to study, he said: "The reason for sending them to the United States is that they are sent to the United States because they are afraid of isolating them or laughing at them." "Even sports events and graduation ceremonies don't go near the school, although I want to take pictures, but if I am afraid that my friends around them will know, so I pretend to be lazy." Although I wanted to go, I didn't do it once. "He expressed a deep love for his children and received a lot of attention
Hong Shiqian's 23-year-old eldest daughter accepted an interview with the show
She said: "At the beginning, she opposed it, not because I felt ashamed of my uncle, but when people around me asked about the relationship with my uncle, it was very difficult to explain, indicating that it was also difficult for my parents to divorce." "It tells the pain of my parents' divorce since I was a child
Daughter Hong Enzhu recalled this adoption experience, saying that she never felt ashamed of her uncle, and she never regretted being adopted by her uncle. Finally, he sighed and said, "He is both my uncle and my father, and we love him very much."
Hong Shiqian, who almost never heard his daughter call his father (usually called uncle), after hearing his daughter's confession, could not help but shed tears of excitement: "The first time I heard a child say this", the scene was full of warmth, and Hong Shiqian's tears fell like rain (Hundred Yellow Peach Monsters take you to watch the original variety show)
This is the first time that Hong Shiqian has opened such a family relationship in front of the screen, the sister's children are regarded as their own, careful care, this courage and responsibility have to be admired, Hong Shiqian is really a gentle and kind man, after the program was broadcast, caused public discussion, Korean netizens have comforted Hong Shiqian in the comment area, praised him as a good person, deeply moved, feel very sad...
Hong Shiqian is such a warm man, I hope that the future society can be less prejudiced against such a special group, more tolerant, have a happier life, Xiaobian Huang Taowei original, everyone likes the article to pay attention to and like Oh