A few days ago, there was a news of an ancient artist getting married rushed to the hot search.
52-year-old Ma Guoxian posted a diamond ring photo on social platforms and announced that his marriage proposal was successful.
It is estimated that some people can't remember who Ma Guoxian is, but people who like the stands should be no stranger to him.
When "Kangxi is Coming" was on fire, he was a well-known turntable king in the show.
Even if you don't watch "Kangxi is coming", many people have brushed a super popular video clip.
Ma Guoxian complained that his live-in girlfriend looked too different before and after removing makeup, saying that he would not have a relationship with girls with false eyelashes in the future...
He was so ordinary and confident, and then he was stunned by Qu Jiarui:
You don't look at what you look like, why are you talking about these girls?
Qu Jiarui has always dared to say that scaring people is justified.
Her statement is a golden sentence, and it is often discussed by everyone today:
So much so that when #Ma Guoxian's marriage # topic was hotly searched, many people were in Cue Qujiarui.
I have asked Teacher Qu Jiarui to send my blessings.
Whether Qu Jiarui will send blessings or not, we don't know.
But her wonderful life is worth saying.
How to introduce Qu Jiarui?
Gigi was also a little hesitant, her identity was too much-
Rich families, famous school students, university teachers, artists, second-hand toy collectors...
Each identity sounds very powerful, but most people know Qu Jiarui, or start with "Kangxi variety show coffee".
In the show, she is very open, can talk about her ex-boyfriend, and share the past of her first love.
She is also very open-minded and dares to remove makeup on the spot.
Even if Xiao S said that she looked like a noon horse, she smiled.
The most impressive is the story of "Exchange Youth", where Qu Jiarui once bought a Barbie doll with a little girl at the flea market.
And the little girl said, "I've grown up 11 years old, and I don't want to play with dolls anymore, I want to buy curling irons."
Talking about this many years later, Qu Jiarui's description is vivid and romantic:
"We exchanged youth on that step of their house because I didn't want to grow up, she wanted to grow up."
This story is very moving, plus there are many out-of-circle clips in "Kangxi is Coming".
Others think that Qu Jiarui is so interesting, confident and generous, and his life is too exciting!
But for Qu Jiarui herself, she said: I have always had low self-esteem.
Qu Jiarui's inferiority stems from family influences.
Despite being born into a wealthy family and her father was the president of a fishing union, her childhood was unhappy.
From childhood to adulthood, she grew up in a suppressed environment, and was often said that you are stupid, you are bad, you are bad, you are not beautiful...
At the same time, Qu Jiarui's father is also very strict with her education, which is invisibly a kind of pressure.
Like eating at home every day, Dad would ask her to look like eating, sit up straight, and take chopsticks well.
Qu Jiarui does not like to eat well, and he will be scolded by his father almost every time he eats.
If he was away from home, Dad would directly ask Qu Jiarui to talk less at the dinner table.
"You can't spit ivory out of your dog's mouth, don't talk casually, let people know how stupid and stupid you are."
In Dad's opinion, it is a virtue that girls do not speak.
Qu Jiarui's father is a very traditional Chinese parent who likes to preach and fight.
Under this education, Qu Jiarui was disciplined very unconfidently.
She used to be on the show that she was the ugliest and most unfavored child in the family.
Every time I go out with my sisters and siblings, outsiders will praise my sisters and sisters for being cute, and my brother is a boy, and everyone hurts.
Only the tall and thin Qu Jiarui was not praised, but was asked: Who is this?
For a long time, Qu Jiarui felt that he was caught in the middle and was not loved and valued.
In order to attract the attention of his family, Qu Jiarui has done a lot of absurd things.
She did all kinds of things by lying, stealing, and all kinds of messy things, and then she was punished by her father to kneel, and she never dared again.
Bad things don't dare to do, but Qu Jiarui is not likable, after all, her homework is still very poor, and she was once disliked and humiliated by her parents.
When she was in middle school, she was sent to school in New York by her parents (kicked out of the house) on the grounds that she should not lose face at home.
Going to New York with such a suppression, Qu Jiarui was very unhappy.
Moreover, she is not familiar with life, does not speak fluent language, and will be discriminated against and ridiculed by classmates at school.
For a while, she used to hide in the dormitory and cry, not knowing what she could do?
At the lowest point in his life, Qu Jiarui began to reflect, eager to change himself and regain his self-confidence.
She thought about it for a long time and decided to pick up her favorite painting again and enroll in art class.
Luckily, this time she met a very good teacher and would be praised no matter what she draws: you are amazing, very good!
A few plain words were a great encouragement to Qu Jiarui, who had been suppressed since childhood, and made her work harder to paint.
It didn't take long for her to win the New York State Sketch Contest and the highest score in the AP Fine Art Sketch category for high school students in the United States.
At that time, the nationally renowned sketch book magazine made an exception to publish her color paintings.
It was also with these honors that Qu Jiarui applied for a four-year full scholarship to Cooper Union in the United States.
It is said that this school is so powerful that anyone who studies design in New York will kneel down when they hear it.
But there is even more powerful, that is, Qu Jiarui's school where he studied for a master's degree.
She entered the top ten in the world at Columbia University's Institute of Art, and Versailles said: Is it that good?
To some extent, the prestigious school did not bring much good to Qu Jiarui, and she did not get the recognition of her parents until she graduated.
Her parents always believed that painting was a dead end, that artists were useless, and that no one wanted to marry.
However, the more his parents disapproved, the more Qu Jiarui rebelled, and the more he wanted to prove that he could do a lot by painting.
The year she graduated, she stayed in New York despite her parents' request to go home.
She stayed for seven years, occasionally going out to work, and the rest of the time she painted at home, but she didn't paint famously.
Without success, Qu Jiarui's life in New York was considered by his parents to be drunk and dreamy.
After a long time, her parents did not want to see such a bad scene again, and flew directly to New York to take her home.
In this way, 32-year-old Qu Jiarui returned to the original point of 16 years old, she fell into the low tide of life again, I don't know what she wants?
Going around in circles, life seems to have started over, and Qu Jiarui confessed.
She obeyed the arrangements of her family, translated documents at her father's company, and lived a chaotic life.
Fortunately, it didn't take long for her to enter Shih Shien University to teach, and her life gradually changed.
Remember that in the past, Qu Jiarui was always taught not to talk much.
But she had to speak when she became a teacher, so she had to carefully speak a little.
When she found that the student's eyes would light up, smile, and listen, she slowly regained her lost confidence.
The confident Qu Jiarui also got the opportunity to appear on variety shows, and she was more self-free and contributed many famous scenes.
Finally, Qu Jiarui was angry, but she also wanted to escape.
On the one hand, she found that she couldn't take care of too many identities, and sometimes she was too excited to record a show, and she couldn't draw when she went home.
On the other hand, she herself is not in the entertainment industry, and the reason why she went to variety shows in the first place was also for her sick father.
Qu Jiarui's father's entertainment when he was hospitalized was to watch hospital TV, and she often participated in variety shows, hoping that her father could see herself.
When her father died, she felt no need to continue entertaining and decided to go back to what she loved.
The female star wants to become an artist again, the aura is obviously different, and Qu Jiarui has been lonely for a while.
She tried for eight months without income, and from time to time someone left early when she went out to give a speech.
It was a difficult process to adapt to, but it also made her more determined: if there was only one thing she could do, it was drawing.
Since 2015, Qu Jiarui has gradually faded out of the entertainment industry and put his mind on painting.
She paints self-portraits to talk to herself, keeping honest records of herself at every age.
Qu Jia Rui Self-Portrait
She also paints family, friends, and even supermarket clerks around her.
In different paintings, she seems to walk through the ups and downs of life and enjoy it.
Qu Jiarui's mother, a supermarket clerk
A few years ago, Qu Jiarui also held a solo exhibition "Qu Jiarui, which one are you".
She wanted to tell everyone: Qu Jiarui, it's me.
Qu Jiarui healed herself with painting, and she slowly learned to reconcile with herself and understand the love of her parents under the suppression of education.
She wanted to run away from home when she was young, but now she is the one who stays, and she accompanies her mother on a trip when she has nothing to do.
However, Qu Jiarui still has an inferiority complex in her heart, so she collects thousands of second-hand dolls.
She wants to collect every doll with a story so that they no longer have low self-esteem, loneliness, and loneliness.
And this just reflects the former Qu Jiarui.
She has experienced low self-esteem, loneliness, loneliness, and a longing to be affirmed, praised, and recognized.
Even if she rarely gets these things, she is still willing to affirm and praise others.
In the end, she also pieced together her own life in others and in the dolls she collected.
Today's Qu Jiarui is more and more exciting, wanton and dashing, free and casual, which makes people envious.
The inferiority brought by her family when she was young was slowly dissolved by her and hid in the softest place in her heart.
Instead, she embarked on a path to find herself and become a more courageous version of herself.
She can generously embrace her good and bad, and continue to work hard.
Along the way, she also uses her experience to encourage others: Don't be afraid, just be yourself.
Qu Jiarui has always liked to share his story on social platforms, and there is a passage that I remember deeply:
"It took me many years to understand that everyone blooms at different moments, some bloom early, some bloom in a few years, and some wither away and grow new branches.
And I need time, I believe that many people are late bloomers like me, although we opened late, it is definitely the one that everyone expects, beautiful and more. ”
Now Qu Jiarui is the most beautiful time to bloom.
Image source / Internet
Responsible Editor / Niu Hu Lu Sang
Editors / Jia Jia