The times create heroes, experience achieves life!
A catastrophe in early 2020 imprisoned the Chinese people in their homes for two months, and it was at this time that the name "Cui Wa" broke into my world.
He is a famous American talk show host, whose full name is Trevor Noah. He has a poisonous tongue and humor, he is versatile; He is a mudslide in the imitation world, he is a hilarious person in the critic world; His language is sharp and humorous, and his absurd wording reveals the truth!
There was an issue of "Daily Show" he complained online about the United States to suppress Huawei 5G, was reported by CCTV, crazy to harvest a wave of Chinese fans, during the epidemic home talk show, on social networking sites to gain a lot of attention, Chinese netizens are affectionately nicknamed him "Xiao Cui", "Cui Wa".
Newborns are born in the expectations and blessings of their parents, but Triva is not, he is "born guilty".
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He was born in apartheid South Africa, where whites and blacks could not marry, and it just so happened that Triva's father was white and her mother was black, and this racial integration was a crime worse than treason.
Triva has been in an awkward situation since childhood, calling himself an "outsider."
"Where do I go?" Despite having so many different small groups for me to choose from, I was born not to belong to any of them. ”
This is the dilemma he has had to face since he was a child. Such a depressing living environment, how did Triva develop into a humorous and thoughtful talk show actor that everyone sees now?
Then the biggest credit is none other than Triwa's mother! His mom is the best satirist, and his conversation with mom is the funniest talk show scene!
"My mom thought everything was funny. In the face of no matter how dark and painful things are, she can use humor to resolve them. "
Threatened by the driver of the minibus late at night, in the midst of the crisis, the mother jumped out of the speeding car with Trevor and her brother, and after running for their lives, even if their arms and legs were full of blood and dirt stains, the mother could endure the pain and laugh loudly.
Moms love to say, "Son, you have to see the good side of this."
When Trever was bullied by the neighborhood children, thrown full of mulberries, and returned home with red and purple on his body, his mother thought that Trever had been injured in a fight with someone else, full of worry, and later laughed when he learned that it was just mulberry juice, saying, "Try to think about the good side," "You are really half black and half white now." ”
It's self-deprecatingly funny, but it does make Trevor less angry!
When her mother was shot in the head by her second husband, Trevor cried in fear, only to wake up and say, "My child, you have to see the good side." ”
There is a good side to being headshot, everyone must not have thought of it, right?
"Absolutely. From now on, you are officially the best looking person in this family. "This is really a good side for Trevor, who needs four hours to dress up to become beautiful!" After all, Mom said she only needed a shower to get pretty!
Such a hilarious mom has influenced Trever and made him a humorous person, and it is not surprising that he has become the most popular talk show host!
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"Fate is a deck of cards, it is God who plays the cards, and it is you who play the cards!" Some people take a good deck of cards and lose, and some people win a bad deck of cards!
"My father is Li Gang", Li Qiming shouted out the slogan after he was intercepted after hitting the dead person drunk, blew himself up his father's name, and finally went to jail for his father to get off the horse!
How proud the slogan was shouted at that time, how painful it was when the face was punched!
Coincidentally, the Li Tianyi incident, the proper second generation of officials, four years old was selected as the image ambassador of the early childhood Olympic bid, and ten years old was selected into the Chinese youth ice hockey team, in addition to the superior living conditions, their own conditions are also good.
Just such a seemingly promising teenager, 15-year-old driving without a license, fighting and fighting in re-education through labor for a year without repentance, 17-year-old ganging with his peers to violate the girl was sentenced to six years in prison!
Fatherly kindness does not necessarily mean filial piety, and excessive doting will definitely ruin the child!
Trevor's mother "love" is different! The "battle" between Trevor and his mother didn't seem to stop! Every time he made a mistake, he was greeted with "harsh love"—reprimanding, punishing, beating.
Mom said, "I have to discipline you like this before the police take you away." "Before society punishes you, teach you a lesson.
So that after Trevor made a mistake, the most feared thing was not to be arrested by the police, but to be beaten by his mother after being released!
Teacher Li Meijin said when discussing the discipline of children: "Before the age of six, you said no to him, he was at most crying and rolling on the ground, but you never refused him, and when you said no at the age of 16, he would beat you, or he would run away from home and jump off the building."
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So will you educate your children? Is education all about getting high scores and going to prestigious schools?
There is such a child Kai Kai in "Dear Little Desk", his performance in the show is cowardly and timid and unconfident, and when his mother appears, you will understand why?
Kai Kai's mother said: "My educational philosophy for children is no happy childhood"!
She constantly suppressed Kai Kai because she felt that if the child could withstand the blows of her parents, would she still be afraid of the beatings of society in the future?
Her educational method is "lazy to add a set of rolls, wrong three questions plus a set of rolls, careless to add a set of rolls"?
A child's childhood is an unfinished volume. Mother Trevor's "education" is different!
"If my mother had only one goal for my education, it was to liberate my mind." Mom wants her children not to be bound by fate, and hopes that Trevor is free to go anywhere, do anything, and be anyone.
His mother taught him a lot of things that school wouldn't teach, taught him English, taught him to read, and most importantly taught him how to think.
For example, when reading the Bible, the question is asked, "What does this passage mean?" What does it mean for you? How do you apply this meaning in your life? ”
When Trevor was six years old, he sat on his mother's lap and went to school to drive; When I didn't have to go to school and work, my mother took Trever to explore the world, and my mother said, "I chose you, child, I brought you into this world, and I want to give you everything I haven't experienced." "
They walked through every park in Johannesburg! After leaving church on Sunday afternoons, they would drive to the countryside for a picnic, a picnic, and although it was nothing as advanced as a picnic basket or a picnic plate, it was only a smoked sausage brown bread butter sandwich wrapped in thick paper, but it was also a food that could not be replaced by the cuisine of all michelin restaurants in the world!
Mom said, "My task is to feed your body, your spirit, your mind." "That's exactly what she did, and she would use all the money to buy food and books."
Look! Trevor's mom is a true language guru and an education expert!
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What can parents leave behind for their children? wealth? "Rich but not more than three generations", I don't know how long the money can be used for a while? Li Zhaohui, the son of the former richest man in Shanxi, inherited more than 10 billion yuan of wealth from his father, and he lost it in a few years, and he also owed more than 200 million debts.
Now it has been included in the list of untrustworthiness by the state, and it will not even be able to sit on the plane and high-speed rail in the future.
For Mother Treffer, she went through a lot with Trevor, and the two of them were like a group, a group that opposed the social system of the time, and the only one.
They are comrades-in-arms and partners.
But Mom said the only thing he wouldn't have to endure was the "black tax."
What is the "Negro Tax"? It is the next generation of negroes who have to enter this cycle again in order to pay off the debts of the previous generation, to support their brothers and sisters, and to accept the exploitation of apartheid from generation to generation.
In order to prevent Trever from carrying the black tax, Trevor's mother took up the burden herself.
At the age of nine, he worked on a black farm, "both a cow and a bull"; Even though she didn't have enough to eat and wear, she learned English; In order to eat a full meal a day, she sews school uniforms in the factory; Later enrolled in secretarial courses as a white-collar worker.
Even though the secretary's job earned a lot, it was not enough to support Grandma's family, so Mom fled again.
Go to white places, hide in the toilets, or live in prostitutes' homes.
Trevor's mother lived so hard so that black taxes would not be imposed on Trevor again.
Professor Shen Yifei once changed the slogan of a Mother's Day poster "Greater than Great" to "Mother needs support"; Li Ai refuses to be said by others that "being a mother is great"!
But I would say that Trevor's mom was great. She set an example for Trevor, in a country where people would be punished for standing up, as a woman, a black woman, she lived by her convictions, found a way out with her willpower, and succeeded.
Her greatness is not that she sacrifices herself, but that she completes herself and fulfills herself!
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Dong Qing said in "Readers" that life is such a profound topic, it contains the most extreme experience of all the world.
Life can be as tenacious as "can be destroyed but not defeated"; it can also be as broad as "what is good in the heart, although it is nine deaths, it is still unrepentant".
If life had color, would it look like Van Gogh's Sunflowers and Starry Sky?
If life has an attitude, does it sound like Beethoven's "Pastoral" and "Hero"?
The meaning of life is so thick that no matter how much we try our best, because we are born as human beings and are born for all sentient beings.
No one is "born guilty", and you are the only one who controls your destiny!
Education is an influence, not a tool to enslave anyone. Mother is the ontology of education and the template of education.
Let's end with Trevor describing his motherhood!
"Because of this, she has unconsciously become a role model for my life, a role model for the biggest guy in the world you can follow to shape yourself"!