Without the values of kindness, sincerity, empathy and compassion, the final outcome is nothing more than a ruin.
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Without the voice of investigative journalist Li Weiao, most of our impressions of Zhang Jike have always stayed at the level of red and specialized:
Table tennis genius, Asian Games champion, Olympic champion, World Soldier Championship champion, most popular male athlete...
Handsome, proud personality, after retiring from the game, he became a variety show coffee, driving millions of luxury cars to talk about the most beautiful girlfriend, and a sports star who has to give three points of courtesy when he sees him.
However, the heavenly way of the world is:
Come out to mix, sooner or later you have to pay it back.
There is no perfect child in this world, and if there is, it must be that we have not yet had time to see his black hole.
In the revelation of investigative reporter Li Weiao's N short Weibo + a long article with a public account, "Perfect Child" Zhang Jike has such a shocking black hole:
Not only was he addicted to gambling and borrowed a huge amount of bad debts from many people, but after losing another gamble, he used the private photo of his ex-girlfriend Jing Tian as a bet to mortgage the creditor Mr. S. S.
Mr. S blackmailed Jing Tian with this, demanded 22 million, and later reduced the amount to 17 million.
The innocent Jing Tian, because of a love, suffered such a vain disaster and fell into the quagmire of depression, but never gave in.
Mr. S sent Zhang Jike's IOU and passport to Jing Tian's agent, as well as 3 private videos and 1 video screenshot of Jing Tian.
Jing Tian couldn't bear it anymore and called the police angrily.
Mr. S was sentenced to seven years' imprisonment and fined $50,000 for attempted extortion.
In this extortion case, Zhang Jike appeared in court as a witness, admitting that he had taken intimate videos and photos in 2017 and 2018, when he and Jing Tian were dating.
Zhang Jike acknowledged:
In 2018, while visiting a capital in Southeast Asia, he was introduced to Mr. S.
In 2019, he showed Mr. S the intimate video of himself and Jing Tian.
Other words:
In court, Zhang Jike admitted that he had "given" Mr. S. Jing Tian's private videos and photos.
After the end of this criminal case, Mr. S's family filed a civil lawsuit against Zhang Jike for a debt dispute to repay the 5 million yuan owed.
The IOU is as follows:
In 2022, Zhang Jike repaid an IOU of about 1 million yuan, and 5 million yuan is still in the hands of Mr. S's family.
These are all old things hidden in the shadow of time.
If investigative reporter Li Weiao does not break the news, Zhang Jike is still the dazzling Zhang Jike, Jing Tian is still shocking Jing Tian, and the spring of 2023 will slide into summer in spring and lifelessness.
So, the question is, why did Li Weiao expose Zhang Jike?
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In the long article "Why should I speak out against the "Zhang Jike incident"? , Li Weiao responded in detail to the ins and outs of the incident.
Li Weiao, who has been in the industry for 20 years and has exposed too many black holes in many industries, saw a statement signed by Zhang Jike in an old friend group late at night on March 30.
The statement is a response to online rumors:
Li Weiao said that after seeing this statement, he, who had conducted a long investigation and interview on Zhang Jike's debt incident, was angry and ridiculous at the entertainment company's behavior of pointing deer as horses.
The reporter's conscience and the evidence at hand led Li Weiao to post his first Weibo about the Zhang Jike incident at midnight on March 31.
He also dragged himself into the frequent hot searches and huge public opinion in the next 3 days.
For Li Weiao's revelations, some people choose to believe, and some choose to insult.
Zhang Jike's lawyer said that he would immediately prepare to sue Li Weiao.
It is not difficult to predict that if Zhang Jike's lawyer is not to calm public opinion and scare people, then what will follow will be another protracted lawsuit between Zhang Jike and Li Weiao.
Until the truth is revealed, we cannot easily take sides.
But regardless of the outcome, we all have reason to believe:
The final victory must be the victory of values.
These values are:
It should not be seen whose fame, whose voice is loud, and whose backstage is hard, who must be the winner, but the way of heaven, law and the people's heart, and ultimately choose whose side to stand on.
This value is still:
There are no perfect people in the world, celebrities or amateurs, it is not to live in a perfect personality without making mistakes, but how to face their weaknesses and mistakes, and use the heart of a child to correct, to rewrite, to bear, to deal with the aftermath.
These values are:
The destiny of each of our souls throughout our lives is how to choose between appearance and truth, fame and fortune and true self, and with the greatest effort and sincerity, to point out ugliness and evil, to watch for justice and justice.
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Of course, as a parent with a boy, I also think of two other incidents in the past Yangchun March from a series of incidents that need to be verified by Olympic champion Zhang Jike.
One is:
Zhao Moumou, an excellent male student at Soochow University, made a yellow rumor incident for a female classmate.
In this incident, Zhao Moumou, an excellent boy who has repeatedly won scholarships, maliciously posted the photos of many female classmates on pornographic websites, and humiliated these girls with such obscene intentions as "bitches", "rioters" and "often sleeping with me".
And then in the comments, coaxing and likes of onlookers, satisfy their own perverted psychology.
While doing evil, Zhao obviously underestimated the power of the Internet and the awakening of women.
When the victim girl knew the truth, she joined forces with many victims to collect evidence and defend their rights for 6 months, tearing the ugly souls under the masks of others and exposed them to the sun.
In the face of public opinion, law and morality, Soochow University made the sanction of "expelling Zhao's student status".
Classmate Zhao, a high school bully, a star in the eyes of his classmates, and a popular figure in college, personally ruined his original bright future because of a malicious humiliation of women.
The male protagonist of another event is similar to Zhao.
He is He Moumou from the University of South China.
Also a top student, He Moumou's character in public is also hardworking and decent.
But in private, he took the photos of girls who had no grievances with him and P into pornographic photos to sell on the Internet, and used them to make a profit.
The biggest demagoguery of ill-gotten wealth is that it is like a dark vortex, making you mistakenly think that you are being dragged into the gates of hell little by little in the "unaware of people".
For several years, He used synthetic pornographic photos of the victimized girls to make money on the Internet, and even held pornographic competitions.
When this evil deed was discovered by the victimized girl and reported to the police, the good student + good cadre + student He, who won various awards, had just won the qualification for the escort of the graduate student of the University of Science and Technology of China.
However, because of this malice concocted by his own hands, he buried himself - the qualification for graduate school was canceled, and his education was returned to high school.
After such a series of malicious incidents continued to break out in colleges and universities, some people cried out for He and Zhao:
It's too bad, the punishment is too heavy, and it's not easy for that child.
He, they, these male students who fell into the "perfect child black hole", are they losing?
Not at a loss.
Their ending has long been written in their values.
When a man's values degenerate to the point of using false pornographic photos to humiliate innocent girls who are lustful and innocent, and let those girls who were originally beautiful and innocent push into the abyss of yellow rumors, then his mind and soul are ugly and crawling with maggots.
Even if he is a top student, a child of others who is envied by everyone, and a character like a star, he still can't escape the fate of human collapse.
It's just a matter of sooner or later.
Each person is the cause and effect of his or her own values and energy field.
People with impure motives and bad intentions will sooner or later be devoured by the demons in their hearts.
At the same time, I also saw how many parents and how many families are running in the competition of chicken dolls and fame, trapped in scores, rankings and awards, and only want to make their own dolls into cow dolls, top students and champions.
Do you know, if there is no kindness, integrity, warmth and compassion in the child's values, even if he is admitted to 985 University, even if he is qualified to be guaranteed by a famous institution, even if he becomes a world champion, what if?
Excellent studies, slam scores, impressive results, a lot of value, brilliant fame and fortune, of course, it is desirable.
But a healthy mind, the ability to share commonality, simple cognition, respect for the opposite sex, mutual assistance for the same sex, compassion for others, and compassion for all living beings are ten thousand times more important than achievement and glory.
Together, they determine a person's ultimate outcome and destiny.
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Writer Liu Jirong has a widely circulated article called "The Man Who Sits on the Side of the Road and Applauds".
It is written that her daughter, who always takes the 23th exam, is eclipsed in front of a group of children who are outstanding and have many talents. Even dreams are as ordinary as "being a kindergarten teacher with children to play games, or being a mother wearing an apron for dinner" is not worth mentioning.
However, this unpretentious, simple and simple girl will carefully place food when a few people have a picnic together, clean up the garbage, solve the contradiction between the top Olympian and the English master, and cut a zodiac paper cut for each child as a gift between traffic jams...
As an unknown middle school student in the class, her daughter was also voted unanimously by the class and was elected class president.
When praised by her mother that "you are about to become a hero", her daughter said seriously: "When a hero passes by, someone must sit on the side of the road and applaud." Mom, I don't want to be a hero, I want to be someone who sits on the side of the road and applauds. ”
The person who sits on the side of the road and applauds the hero, although he is an ordinary person, must be a person who sincerely considers others, must be a person who respects others from the bottom of his heart, must be a gentle person with a bright soul, must be a classmate who can be made now, a credible friend, a lovely friend, a valuable neighbor in the future, a lover who can spend the rest of his life, a parent who can respect his life...
The people who sit on the side of the road and applaud are healthy ordinary people, people who will be blessed, and all good people who see this article.
yes.
Fame depends on luck, but adults need faith.
Please be a good individual, because the final victory must be the victory of values.