"I never wanted to be single, but I had a hunch of getting married later, I was waiting, the only soul ...... in the world"
This is a lyric in Li Zongsheng's song "Late Marriage", which vividly illustrates the psychological status quo of many single or late marriages.
In today's increasingly stressful society, late marriage seems to have become the norm and is common in all walks of life and all kinds of people.
Today, we are going to talk about the four former national players and current national players in the Chinese table tennis team who are still unmarried or even single:
一：孔令辉
Kong Linghui, born in 1975, is 49 years old this year.
Kong Linghui is the second Grand Slam member of the Chinese men's table tennis team, and he is also the leader of the Chinese table tennis team to regain its foothold at the top of the world table tennis at the end of the last century.
When he was an athlete, Kong Linghui and Liu Guoliang formed the national table tennis twin stars, the two of them have achieved Grand Slams, and after retiring, they successively served as the head coach of the men's and women's teams, which can be said to be one of the most representative figures of the Chinese table tennis team in the past two or three decades.
Careers go hand in hand, but emotionally, Kong Linghui is slower than Liu Guoliang I don't know how many steps.
Let's just say that Liu Guoliang and his twin daughters are now in their teens, but Kong Linghui is still alone.
The most important thing is that Kong Linghui was known as the "Prince of Table Tennis" when he was an athlete, and Kong Linghui, who was not inferior to a star in the entertainment industry, fascinated thousands of girls when he was an athlete, especially when he won the men's singles championship at the Sydney Olympics and kissed the national flag on his chest, I don't know how many women fell in love with him.
Ma Su, the actress who is now popular all over the country, was also one of the countless women who fell in love with Kong Linghui at that time, because they were both Heilongjiang villagers, and they were not separated from each other in terms of style and sports, and finally met Ma Su and Kong Linghui at an event.
Ma Su, who was in his early 20s at the time, was at the peak of his appearance, and Kong Linghui, who was strong in blood, was attracted in this way, so the two of them had a love affair and a concubine, so they lived together.
When the two were together, Kong Linghui was already an Olympic champion and a member of the Grand Slam team, while Ma Su was still a little-known young actor.
With Kong Linghui's fame, Ma Su's status in the entertainment industry has also steadily improved, of course, this is inseparable from her efforts.
In those years, Kong Linghui entered the women's team as a coach after retiring, and Ma Su's career was slowly moving forward, whether it was on the show or the reporter photographed the happy state of the two in private, they were envious of others.
Even, Ma Su once said in an interview that the two had begun to talk about marriage, but after living together for 12 years, the two announced their breakup.
The reason for the breakup was announced to the outside world, but the inside story was naturally not for outsiders.
Today, Kong Linghui is 49 years old, and Ma Su is also 43 years old.
Not only that, Kong Linghui was forced to resign as the head coach of the Chinese table tennis women's team in 2017 because of the suspected "shedu" incident.
In other words, Kong Linghui, who is now 49 years old, is unhappy in his relationship and career.
There is such a sentence among national table tennis fans: "There are many Confucian generals in Qinmen, Xiaomen kills the Quartet, and Confucius is more desolate ......"
Among them, Kong Men is talking about the athletes under Kong Linghui, and how desolate it is to say that the athletes under Kong Linghui have not been able to achieve their ideal results in the end, such as Liu Shiwen, Yao Yan, Muzi and so on.
Now, looking at Confucius, not only the disciples are desolate and sad, but even Kong Linghui himself is also a tragic figure in national table tennis.
Two: Zhang Jike
Zhang Jike was born in 1988 and is 36 years old this year.
There is such a sentence in the entertainment industry, "Who can be popular in Xiaoshenyang in 2009", and in the sports world or in national table tennis, there is also such a sentence "Who can be popular in 2016 Zhang Jike".
Zhang Jike is the third Grand Slam in Chinese men's table tennis after Liu Guoliang and Kong Linghui, and he became a Grand Slam after winning the men's singles title at the London Olympics in 2012.
And he has only achieved a Grand Slam in 445 days, which is the shortest time for an athlete in the world table tennis to achieve a Grand Slam so far.
Although Zhang Jike has vaguely become the first brother of national table tennis after 2012, even Zhang Jike's fans have to admit that Zhang Jike is really well-known at the 2016 Rio Olympics.
The main reason for this is that after the 2016 Rio Olympics, everyone's attention to table tennis is not so high, and the Internet is not so developed.
In 2016, entering the era of short videos, information dissemination is more convenient and fast, so the Chinese table tennis team, the dream team of Chinese sports, has attracted more attention.
In the Chinese table tennis team, Zhang Jike is the most maverick one, in the national table tennis team that pays attention to the influence of all members and controls emotions, Zhang Jike does not hide his personality at all, and people with personality will receive attention wherever they are.
So, in the Rio Olympics, the "Zhang Jike who couldn't wake up" became popular.
After becoming popular, Zhang Jike was liked by thousands of girls, whether it was a competition or participating in activities, he was always accompanied by countless "butterflies".
It can be said that Zhang Jike at that time was infinitely beautiful, no matter although those female fans liked Zhang Jike, many people did not think about Zhang Jike, because most of them were CP fans of "the world's first love".
The male protagonist of "The World's No. 1 First Love" is Zhang Jike, and the heroine is Liu Shiwen.
However, the national table tennis team has strict rules for the love between players, and the most important thing is that both Zhang Jike and Liu Shiwen have entered the main layer when they are in love.
Even Liu Shiwen at that time was trained by the coach as the future sister of the national table tennis women's team, so for the future of the two and the future of the Chinese table tennis team, Zhang Jike and Liu Shiwen chose to break up.
When Zhang Jike became popular, the two had broken up for several years, but fans who knew the story of the two still looked forward to the two being able to come together again.
But who knows, in the end, not only did the two go farther and farther apart, but Zhang Jike also confirmed his relationship with actress Jing Tian.
Although it was a pity for Zhang Jike and Liu Shiwen, after learning that Zhang Jike and Jing Tian were in love, many fans still sent their blessings as soon as possible.
But who knew that this relationship would not last long, not only that, a few years after the breakup, someone broke out Zhang Jike's "shedu", and at the same time took Jing Tian's private photos to take out a mortgage.
It was this revelation that pulled Zhang Jike off the altar, although he was no longer popular, he still had a group of die-hard fans, and after this revelation, Zhang Jike almost "disappeared".
It wasn't until more than half a year later that Zhang Jike appeared on the Internet again as a coach of a club, but at this time it was already a matter of fact.
Although Zhang Jike's reappearance still attracted some attention, it was not the same as his former popularity.
Three: Fang Bo
Fang Bo, who was born in 1992, is 32 years old this year.
As the most eye-catching team in the world table tennis world, the competition is very fierce, including players who are famous all over the world, and players who have left in disgrace.
Even in the Chinese table tennis team, there are far more "failed" players than "successful" players, which is not surprising, and this is the case in the entire Chinese sports world and even in the world sports world.
But it is very rare to say that a generation is sad, or has not played, but in the Chinese table tennis team, there is a generation that has not played, and Fang Bo happens to be one of them.
This is the "92line", that is, the players born in 1992, they are Fang Bo, Yan An, and Zhou Yu.
The Olympics are held every four years, and it stands to reason that the national team should also be a four-year generation, but some athletes become famous at a young age, while others are late bloomers. It's a bit unfair to talk about age alone.
At this time, it depends on the development trajectory of the athletes themselves, if there is no accident, according to the ideas of the national table tennis coaching staff, after Zhang Jike, Ma Long, and Xu Xin, Fang Bo, Yan An, and Zhou Yu will become the new generation of leaders of the national table tennis men's team.
But who knows, Fang Bo, Yan An, and Zhou Yu have not yet played, and Fan Zhendong, who is 5 years younger than them, has sprung up, which is not the most important thing, the most important thing is that Ma Long has a long standby, so the "92line" generation has been abandoned by the coaching staff.
Compared with Yan An and Zhou Yu, Fang Bo is actually lucky, because after Wang Hao's retirement in 2014 and before Lin Gaoyuan played in 2017, Fang Bo also served as the main force of national table tennis for a period of time.
may seem to many fans that the athletes of the national table tennis team are not successful if they fail to participate in the Olympic Games and fail to win the singles world championship, but in fact, a player can play the main position, which is already a very good result.
After Lin Gaoyuan played, Fang Bo gradually broke away from the main layer, and after that, he stayed in the national team for several years, until after the Tokyo Olympics, Fang Bo, Yan An, Zhou Yu and other three retired from the national team, which also caused a great sensation at the time.
After retiring from the national team, Fang Bo established "Quanshi Bang" and began to enter the short video platform, while promoting table tennis, he also built his own "business empire".
At the same time, the emotional issues about Fang Bo have also been concerned by fans, after all, Fang Bo, who was born in 1992, is 32 years old this year.
But not only did Fang Bo not have any news of marriage, but even now there has been no news about his girlfriend, and he is suspected of being single.
Only after the end of the Tokyo Olympics, when he was connected with Chen Meng, because of a joke, it was rumored by netizens that Fang Bo was suspected of chasing Chen Meng.
But fans who are familiar with national table tennis know that Fang Bo and Chen Meng are both athletes of the Shandong Provincial Team, and they grew up together since childhood, if Fang Bo really likes Chen Meng, he will definitely not show it after Chen Meng wins the Olympic championship, so the so-called rumors that Fang Bo pursued Chen Meng are pure nonsense.
Judging from the current situation alone, although Fang Bo's results are far inferior to Kong Linghui and Zhang Jike, he has no black spots, and he is also the only athlete among the three who is still active in front of people.
It's just that I don't know if the 32-year-old Fang Bo is still single, do you not want to find it, or can't find it?
Four: Lin Gaoyuan
Born in 1995, Lin Gaoyuan is 29 years old this year.
Speaking of Lin Gaoyuan, the first thing that many fans think of is sadness, and it seems that Lin Gaoyuan is always accompanied by sadness.
This is because although Lin Gaoyuan has been in the main force over the years, he has not said that he has entered the top three absolute main force, and even the fourth main force has not been able to go further, which is rare in the history of the national table tennis men's team.
Lin Gaoyuan was born in 1995, only three years younger than Fang Bo's generation of players, and it stands to reason that he should take over Fang Bo's generation of players.
But just like the situation faced by Fang Bo and others, Fan Zhendong, who was born in 1997, suddenly emerged, Fan Zhendong is 5 years younger than Fang Bo and others, and 2 years younger than Lin Gaoyuan.
Therefore, strictly speaking, after Fan Zhendong's generation of players played, Lin Gaoyuan's age group faced the same situation as Fang Bo and others.
It is in such a grim situation that Lin Gaoyuan stood out in the 2017 national table tennis "The Strongest Twelve on the Surface", for many players, the straight match is not very important, but for Lin Gaoyuan, if he fails to seize the opportunity in which time period, then he may have to face the same status quo as Fang Bo and others.
Through the 2017 "Strongest Twelve on the Surface" Lin Gaoyuan successfully entered the main layer of national table tennis and became the fifth main force of national table tennis after Ma Long, Zhang Jike, Xu Xin, and Fan Zhendong.
But until now, this is still many people's deepest impression of Lin Gaoyuan, that is to say, Lin Gaoyuan, who has been in the main layer of national table tennis for six or seven years, still leaves the impression of the "strongest twelve on the surface" in 2017.
This is because Lin Gaoyuan has not had any singles world championship title so far, and in the World Table Tennis Championships team competition or the World Cup men's team competition, Lin Gaoyuan, who is only the fifth main force, rarely plays at critical moments.
And the rest of the continental competitions and open tournaments do not pay much attention to fans, which is why when it comes to Lin Gaoyuan, many people associate him with pathos.
Just like the just-concluded Macau World Cup, Lin Gaoyuan broke into the men's singles final for the first time in history, and faced Ma Long, who had won two consecutive victories before.
At that time, many people thought that Lin Gaoyuan might win the first singles world championship title in his life, and at the beginning of the game, Lin Gaoyuan also took a 3-0 lead, but who knew that after that, Ma Long changed his previous style of play and won four games in a row, and finally defeated Lin Gaoyuan with a big score of 4-3.
For many fans, this is just an ordinary match, but for Lin Gaoyuan, it may be the closest he has come to a singles world title in his career.
Lin Gaoyuan's career is now coming to an end, so many fans have paid attention to him from his results to his private life.
Compared with the married Ma Long and Liang Jingkun, the 29-year-old Lin Gaoyuan has not been exposed to the news of having a girlfriend.
Of course, the scandal between him and mixed doubles partner Wang Manyu has never been broken, but these are all conjectures of fans, and until now there is still no evidence that Lin Gaoyuan and Wang Manyu are in love.
However, Lin Gaoyuan is still an active athlete, and maybe when he finishes his career, everything will fall into place.
In addition to the above four team members, which athlete do you like in national table tennis, please leave a message in the comment area to discuss!