I have a space-time tunnel, do you have a moonlight treasure box?
After the age of 2, babies begin to become a little "paranoid".
And I found that babies at this age have the "superpower" to turn back time.
"Sit" and wait for Mom and Dad to come back
When I got home from work, when I opened the door, the baby was fiddling with some toys that were not toys, and when he saw us, he actually cried.
We are also surprised, we used to see my parents coming home from work ah, why did I cry today?
Grandma also felt inexplicable. We had to reassure him and ask him what was going on, and faintly heard in his crying that he was going to sit and wait for his mother to return.
We seem to understand something.
When we came back, we usually opened the door and saw Grandma sitting on the sofa with her baby in her arms, and we would say happily: "We're back!" The baby happily climbed off the couch and ran over.
And when he came back today, the baby happened not to sit on the sofa, breaking the rules! The world is out of order!
Thinking of this floor, we were so funny and angry that we had to exit again, close the door, and when he was seated on the sofa, open the door and come in again, pretending to have just left work: It's back!
"That's not right! Wrong! The baby was still not satisfied, still crying.
Grandma said leisurely: You didn't use the key to open the door.
Or grandma understands the mind of her grandson, it turns out that she is still this step behind!
So I quit again, closed the door, pretended to open the door with the key to make some noise, and then again pretended to have just left work: it's back! (Why say again...) ）
The baby finally broke into a smile, happily climbed off the sofa and ran over.
We felt that the moonlight box was used several times.
After that, every day when you come home from work, before opening the door, you must always say hello outside the door: Come back, are you seated?
Then I heard the baby in the house running around in panic and shouting: Sit and wait for the mother... Pull grandma to sit on the sofa. When Grandma signaled us to sit down, we officially opened the door and went in and saw a smiling baby.
The baby is not a Virgo, how can he suddenly become paranoid like this? What kind of temper is this?
Later, I learned that there was a term called "order sensitive period".
It will be present between the ages of 0-6. At the age of 1-3, there is a strong desire to pursue the order of external things, and there are almost strict requirements for the location of objects, the order in which actions occur, the presentation of characters, and the ownership of objects, and if challenged, they will feel uneasy, anxious, and even show extreme violent reactions.
This is the process of children establishing inner order, external order, and figuring out the relationship between the operation of the world.
Unlock, open the door, sit on the sofa, you can't go wrong with a single step. This is the set of fixed order that the baby establishes for us to come home from work.
The 2-year-old baby has finally entered this "terrible two" period.
For example, teach him to brush his teeth, after teaching him all the steps on the first day, on the second day, how to pour water, how to move chairs, all according to the previous come, can not mess, and do not want adults to help, only he can come by himself.
My world, how can I let you mess up.
Otherwise, use "superpowers" to turn back time and restart the universe.
After taking a bath, you can only get up "by yourself"
When he was more than 1 year old, bathing was still a fun thing for the baby, and after filling the water, he obediently came over to wash.
A little more than 2 years old, he began to be naughty, and gradually he couldn't move him, but he refused to wash it.
Experts say that to learn to do it differently, you can't just tell him it's a bath.
So, another day, I changed my words and said to the baby: shall we go to play in the water together?
The baby watched me do the paddling gesture and readily agreed: "Good!" ”
It seems that the expert's advice worked.
Unexpectedly, this trick has the effect only once.
The next day, I said to the baby: shall we go play in the water together?
The baby thought for a while, but did not respond, indicating that the idea did not attract him anymore, and continued to play with his blender.
Experts, what else do you have to do?
I looked at his blender, and when I thought of a way, I said to the baby: Can you wash with the blender?
The baby thought for a while, thought it was a good idea, readily agreed, and obediently walked to the bathroom.
I also let out a long breath. If you have coped with the past today, what new tricks can you come up with tomorrow? It's really brain-burning.
After several times, when all the soft methods of coaxing were useless, he could only come hard and forcibly carry him to the shower room.
But how could he be so easily surrendered, crying and struggling, and saying: Go by yourself! Go by yourself!
I had to put him down and let him walk to the shower room by himself. And you have to go back to where you just picked up and start walking.
Sensitive period of sense of order. The order of bathing cannot be wrong.
It's not easy to coax him to take a shower, and it's even harder to get him out of the tub after washing.
Keep playing in the water and soaking all the time. Summer is fine, and in winter I am afraid that he will catch a cold.
After many times of coaxing but refusing to get up, my grandmother pretended to be angry and said: One, two...
The baby then said: No three.
This means that if he counts less than three, he doesn't have to get up.
Very good at entertaining children! Grandma really couldn't count anymore and watched the baby smiling triumphantly.
Once I couldn't bear it anymore, my grandmother forcibly picked him up to get dressed, crying nonstop, all the clothes were dressed, still crying and making a fuss, repeating "get up by yourself".
Later, I couldn't soothe him down, and I cried so hoarsely that I had to undress him again and soak him in the bathtub again.
Turn back the clock again.
As soon as he sat down in the tub, he stood up in less than two seconds and stopped crying.
This is what he wants to "get up on his own". You can't be picked up by others.
During the terrible sensitive period of order, a small order cannot be disrupted, and no one else will do it for you.
Otherwise, reverse the future cosmic restart.
Thinking that this period will last until the age of 6, the moonlight treasure box should be held steady.
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