To be honest, I never expected that after the broadcast of "Brother with Thorns", the first person to turn popular was Lee Seung-hyun.
The debut of the open subwoofer, with a handsome back and glasses, I almost did not recognize it; Yigong and Zhang Qi played a good handsome, trance I seem to go back to 13 years ago.
In 2008, 24-year-old Lee Seung-hyun was also demonized on the stage of "Dancing Miracle".
△ Lee Seung-hyun participated in "Dancing Miracle"
However, after the "demon" passed that year, Lee Seung-hyun did not soar to the sky, but was labeled as a "soft rice man", and it was also posted for 10 years.
However, Li Yinhe also said: "A man who can eat soft rice must have something otherworldly." ”
Lee Seung-hyun eats soft rice or not, and each has his own opinion. But he is indeed quite "otherworldly"!
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In 2007, Lee Seung-hyun, who had just arrived in China, was not fluent Chinese, but this did not affect his communication with female fans.
As long as he smiles softly, this angular face will flash the affection that only korean drama male protagonists have. If he can still briefly say "hello" in Chinese, female fans will have difficulty controlling themselves, shouting hoarse to the throat and calling out his name over and over again.
At that time, no one would associate this man, this face, and the three words "soft rice man" with each other.
What's more, he had just spent 1 billion won (6 million yuan) to buy back his free body from a South Korean company, which was not a small amount in 2006.
He had to earn money, sing, dance, act, but not soft food.
△ A photo of Lee Seung-hyun when he was young
In the first two years of coming to China, Lee Seung-hyun also worked hard. It wasn't until 2010, when Lee Seung-hyun and Ahn Yi-hyun met for filming "Wedding Rhapsody", that a big drama officially kicked off.
Who is An Yixuan? Although it is not famous now, it was still popular 10 years ago and acted in many idol dramas. And people are veritable big ladies, the kind that can walk sideways in Taiwan.
Of course, in the mainland, she is also enough to make noodles. An Yixuan's 30th birthday party was held in Beijing, and the people who came were: Huayi brothers, Feng Xiaogang, Shu Qi, Liu Qian, Wang Xiaofei and Big S...
The media reported the birthday party, but Lee Seung-hyun's name did not appear enough at that time. It wasn't until before the Spring Festival in 2011 that the two were photographed closely shoulder to shoulder.
Because of the drama, Ben is very common among actors, but one is a big miss, one is a foreign "migrant worker", and the living idol drama is staged in reality, and the melon-eating masses love to watch.
There are also rumors that Lee Seung-hyun did not rely on "handsome" but "warm" to move An Yixuan.
When filming, An Yixuan was ill, and Lee Seung-hyun took care of him meticulously, cooking porridge and chatting with him, and the two often chatted about their mobile phones until they were hot and hot.
But Ahn Yi-hyun did not give Lee Seung-hyun a name. Once photographed, it is denied once, true or false, whether it is hype or love, outsiders only have to see the flowers in the fog.
However, the words of the stars have always been impossible to believe, and the more they deny it, the more true it is. In particular, An Yixuan's help to Lee Seung-hyun's career understands that everyone is in the eyes.
Ahn Yi-hyun not only brought Lee Seung-hyun into Huayi, but also said: "If you want to find me to shoot a scene, you must use Lee Seung-hyun at the same time." ”
△ Ahn Yixuan helped Lee Seung-hyun's sister promote canvassing on Weibo
This sounds sweet to outsiders, but to Lee Seung-hyun it is like an arrow, firmly attaching the label of "soft rice man" to him.
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In fact, in the entertainment industry, it is not uncommon for lovers to be tied up, first red belt and then red, and it is not shameful. Who is on the top? Fools don't want a chance.
If you and I go to the end, everyone is happy, once you tear your face, things will not be easy.
In April 2013, an insider who claimed to have inside information broke the news on the forum: "An Yixuan's 'sister-brother love' collapsed, Lee Seung-hyun split his legs and Qi Wei, and An Yixuan was very injured." ”
If this matter is laid out on ordinary people, it is not ordinary, and the breakup of couples is much more uneven, and there are many more ugly than them.
But when the star is exposed under the lens, it has to be seen with a magnifying glass, and sometimes it has to fight for the fans to come out right and wrong.
What's more, the two women in this relationship are not simple, An Yixuan's big miss temperament has long been famous, and the popular little flower Dan Qi Wei is a female classmate with a story.
Because in those years, Qi Wei had a gossip object named Lin Zijun, and the two often interacted on social platforms. Some people also pulled out that Lin Zijun's license plate number was 7V.
At the beginning of 2013, Lin Zijun sent an intriguing insincere: "You can also love more frankly, do not have to worry about conscience." ”
Although this melon is nothing today, the bottom line of the entertainment industry in recent years is getting lower and lower, but it was definitely enough to explode 8 years ago.
In particular, Lee Seung-hyun, who has always been labeled as a "soft rice man", turns around and becomes an ungrateful scumbag. Coupled with An Yixuan's Weibo of "even breathing pain" was turned over by fans, almost hammering Lee Seung-hyun from a "scumbag" into a slag.
And during that time, just in time for Lee Seung-hyun to record the variety show "Star Diving Cube", sharp-eyed fans found that Lee Seung-hyun not only wore the same couple ring as Qi Wei in the variety show, but also wrote out a "7V" gesture before diving.
In short, whether Lee Seung-hyun is cheating or not, this high-profile confession is nothing more than pouring salt on the wounds of fans.
Of course, Qi Wei's side is not good, it is difficult to struggle out of the talent stage, just squeezed into the film and television circle, the heel has not yet stood, it was put on the hat of "inserting feet" and "splitting legs", and suddenly dropped a large wave of fans. Eight years ago, fans' requirements for idols were much stricter than they are now.
The fans who stayed behind did not treat Lee Seung-hyun kindly, reminding Qi Wei not to repeat An Yixuan's mistakes.
In those months, Lee Seung-hyun was scolded more than he had in his five or six years in China combined.
Lee Seung-hyun also finally understood that when he came out of the mix, he had to understand the rules, and the debts he owed would eventually have to be repaid.
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On July 15, 2013, Lee Seung-hyun posted a long post on Weibo in response to this past.
His Weibo is in English, and I will briefly summarize the main points for you:
1. An Yixuan and I were in love for two years and broke up on November 14, 2012;
2. I didn't split my legs, and the breakup had nothing to do with others, because of personality incompatibility;
3. After the breakup, the news and rumors hurt unrelated people, and I want to stand up and explain all this;
4. It is not true that I rely on women to ascend to the throne, I am working hard, hoping that one day I can take care of myself and my lover, and not rely on anyone, whether it is a man or a woman;
5. Broke up last year, and now the news that I am holding hands with others is malicious speculation;
6. This is the first time I have mentioned it, and I hope it will be the last time I mention the relationship with An Yixuan, and I wish Miss Ann well.
The conditioning is clear, and I have to admit that this is a good article - not only explaining that I did not cheat, not ascending to the throne, but also taking the lead for the current, alluding to the current situation is deliberately hyped by someone, and finally blessing the ex.
Ahn Yi-hyun also responded after Lee Seung-hyun sent a long text: "Once paid, no regrets, now, grateful for the pain let me grow." ”
I have to say that the entertainment industry 8 years ago is still good-looking, not only the stars themselves are down, but also the masters are masters, sincere, love or hate, let others experience, everything is in the word.
What is like now the studio issued a statement, completely depriving the melon eating masses of fun.
What's more interesting is that before An Yixuan responded, An Yixuan's friend, actor Lu Yi, also sent a meaningful Weibo: "You have your happiness, she has her bottom line." The heavens and the earth you have are all laid down for you, don't stab the knife too deeply, don't shed too much blood..."
Apparently, after Lu Yi and Ahn Yi-hyun posted, Lee Seung-hyun could not escape being scolded again. However, Lee Seung-hyun also said above that he will not respond again.
Scold, be scolded, this is his debt. Fortunately, his new life is coming.
But what Lee Seung-hyun never expected was that his new life still had to be scolded, and the most difficult words he had ever heard were: "Hide in the wings of your wife, let the woman raise you." ”
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On June 18, 2014, the shopping frenzy festival had not yet been created, and a news from Brazil grabbed everyone's attention.
Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun appeared in the World Cup in Brazil, the two hugged each other to watch the ball, and kissed excitedly when they scored.
But this candid angle is really deliberate, and it is inevitable that people will guess that it is another hype.
Sure enough, the next day, Qi Wei posted on Weibo that she had found her other half.
Lee Seung-hyun also responded: I ran most of the world just to find you... As long as you want, you will be bullied for the rest of your life!
In less than half a day, more than 50,000 comments poured into Qi Wei's Weibo, good, bad, blessed, and abusive, and she accepted them.
It's not that she doesn't care about those malicious comments, but for Qi Wei, this is probably love, at least to magnify the courage and be together.
More than a month later, Lee Seung-hyun rushed to Tanabata and proposed to Qi Wei in the United States. But this time they failed to make headlines, because Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan, who had just registered their marriage, chose to go back to their hometown on Tanabata to set up happy wine.
In the entertainment industry, whoever has a big coffee position, the headlines are whoever makes the headlines.
On September 8, 2014, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun held a wedding in Las Vegas, on which day Qi Wei said to Lee Seung-hyun: "If marriage is a gamble, we are willing to spend our lives as a bet... Don't be afraid to win or lose. ”
Now it seems that Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun won the gamble, but in the first few years, their lives were also in a mess.
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On January 16, 2015, Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei's daughter "Lucky" was born in the United States.
Lee Seung-hyun tweeted happily: "Mommy uses her hands, do you use your feet?" This meet and greet Daddy accepted, and being 'bullied' by you will be the greatest happiness in my life. ”
"Lucky" was born less than 5 months after the announcement of the marriage of the two people. Although "getting pregnant before marriage" is not a big deal, fans still feel that they have been deceived.
Lee Seung-hyun was scolded again.
And Lee Seung-hyun himself also suffered a change in his relatives at the end of 2014. On December 3, 2014, Lee Seung-hyun's sister was killed in a car accident in the United States.
It was the sister who An Yixuan had helped canvass for votes.
His sister died, his daughter was born, and within a month Lee Seung-hyun experienced great joy and sorrow in life. He wanted to open, he wanted to open everything, even the resentment with his mother for many years, he also solved.
Perhaps since then, Lee Seung-hyun has known that his small family with Qi Wei is his hope in life.
Therefore, after the birth of his daughter, that is, after 2016, Lee Seung-hyun chose to withdraw from the circle, at least in the state of semi-retired circle, in addition to taking his daughter to participate in the variety show, the work was not updated.
Unfortunately, he is still unlucky, because the policy has changed, and his daughter's variety show has not been broadcast until now.
In those years, Lee Seung-hyun was basically in the entertainment industry without this person. Until 2019, when the variety show "My Little Two Mouths" was broadcast, this man was not seen, but he still appeared as "Qi Wei's husband".
In the show, he is good to Qi Wei and infinitely good.
In the morning, Lee Seung-hyun woke up Qi Wei, who was lying in bed, with a gentle kiss.
Qi Wei was uncomfortable during her menstrual period, so he rubbed her back painfully.
Qi Wei put on makeup, he just looked for a makeup mirror on the side and fed him.
Qi Wei played with temper, and Lee Seung-hyun almost always took the initiative to admit his mistakes and listen carefully to his wife's emotions.
Even if he had done this, he would sincerely ask Qi Wei what he needed to improve in his marriage.
How can there be such a good husband in this world?
The audience couldn't believe their eyes, and always felt that this pair was acting, or Lee Seung-hyun's ability to "eat soft rice" was too fiery.
"Hide in your wife's wings and let the woman raise you." In this way, Lee Seung-hyun does not know how many times he has heard it.
But the best thing about him is that he's not angry, not even the slightest bit. Generously admits to loving his wife, in addition to his wife or wife on Weibo, 74 of the 100 microblogs are related to Qi Wei.
To tell you the truth, after watching this love variety show and Qi Wei's personal interview that year, I had a question: "Is Lee Seung-hyun's husband real?" ”
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It wasn't until recently that I had an answer to this question. This year, Lee Seung-hyun accepted an interview with Yi Lijing because he participated in the variety show, and he finally told the truth, sincere and moving:
"Returning to home has also hurt my self-esteem."
"My wife gave up her best time to have a daughter."
"She can pursue her dreams, and I'm in time."
In the entertainment industry, or society as a whole, women's career lifelines tend to be shorter than men's.
"Soft Rice Man" is not his active choice. Being a dad at home is not only time-consuming and mentally demanding, but it usually seems to be fruitless, and it is inevitable that people will be misunderstood.
He even brought out depression with a child, crying alone in the middle of the night after the child fell asleep.
Lee Seung-hyun's bitterness hit many full-time mothers who sacrificed their careers for their children.
Especially in one of the post-interview sessions, there was a question that asked, "If you can have a happy family in your life, are you willing to achieve nothing in your career?" ”
Even Yi Lijing believes that Lee Seung-hyun of the Gu family will definitely choose to be willing.
But Lee Seung-hyun said he was reluctant.
It is this "unwillingness" that makes me believe that a husband like Lee Seung-hyun is real.
Because around me, there are many women who are helpless to give up their careers for the sake of their families and children. They are never willing, they have to be willing, and if given a chance, they will seize it to prove themselves.
Unfortunately, they did not have the good fortune of Lee Seung-hyun to return to the stage at the age of 37 and become popular.
Of course, for Lee Seung-hyun, turning red is not necessarily a good thing. The complicated emotional entanglement of 8 years ago has become a story that everyone talks about these days.
But I would like to describe that past in one sentence: "When a person enters romantic love, he gets a complete, infinite, and highest recognition." Only love is a grace from Heaven. ”
The love between Lee Seung-hyun and the eldest miss An Yixuan has been sweet and painful; but his love with Qi Wei is closer to the lives of two ordinary people - a foreign "migrant boy" and a "talent singer" who wears colored glasses, in the entertainment industry, they must twist into a force and break up together.
Wait until you have to face the reality that there is a person who needs to give up, weigh the pros and cons together and make a choice. The one who was forced to give up didn't complain, and the one that remained didn't disrespect.
This is probably the complete, infinite, supreme acknowledgment.
Lee Seung-hyun can turn red, and I like it.
But the significance of his popularity is not only the stage, he makes more stay-at-home mothers have to be seen, and he also makes the existence of ideal love be seen.
This is also my attitude towards love: it is worth yearning for, bold to try!
There really is a husband like Lee Seung-hyun in the world, at least there is such a love.
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