Everyone will meet many people in their lives, of which there are always very few who can become friends, confidants, and lovers, and more are just passing by each other without knowing their names. So a lot of times we trust people who are close to us and give them more support.
But not every trust is the right choice, and what happened to former Olympic champion Xiao Qin is a living example, even though he has come out of the shadows a long time later, but the whole thing still changes the trajectory of his life and has a serious impact on his life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="30" >, retired due to girlfriend fraud</h1>
In 2008, Xiao Qin won the Men's Pommel Horse Championship at the Beijing Olympic Games. Ben has a bright future in gymnastics, but he is implicated because his girlfriend Wang Yuan cheated. Gossip was always underestimated, and in the end Xiao Qin retired in 2013 because of his girlfriend fraud, withdrawing from the public eye for 8 years.
Appearing in front of the media again after 8 years, he is no longer the familiar Appearance of an Olympic Champion. The radiance of the once teenager has been replaced by a vicissitude that cannot be concealed. The figure that was once full of strength and beautiful lines on the field and in front of the screen no longer exists, and is replaced by a middle-aged blessed body.
These changes in Xiao Qin have all made fans who have followed in his footsteps regret. Even now he is still engaged in gymnastics-related work, serving as a coach for the Bayi gymnastics team to cultivate talents for the national team. Even though he has now been awarded the rank of colonel, people were first attracted to him because of his youthful demeanor when he performed gymnastics, with a spirit of not accepting defeat.
I still remember that after the girlfriend fraud was exposed, Xiao Qin was the most unbelievable person in all this. In his eyes, Wang Yuan was an elegant and intellectual woman, and she could not be associated with the two words fraud. What makes him most sad is that many of the victims of the fraud are his friends and sports colleagues whom Wang Yuan knows by virtue of her personal connections.
After the fraud was exposed, even if the final judicial determination that Xiao Qin did not participate in the fraud and found him innocent, in Xiao Qin's heart, he had no face to meet these friends again. He returned after 8 years because Xiao Qin still had a love for gymnastics in his heart, and hoped that he could try his best to shine and cultivate the next generation of gymnastics champions for the motherland.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="36" > two, sweat casts the champion</h1>
Some people use knowledge to change their destiny, some people use talent, and some people use hard work, and Xiao Qin belongs to the second party. In 1985, Xiao Qin was born into an ordinary family in Nanjing. If his natural attributes of gymnastics had not been tapped, then his later life would probably have been one of the many sentient beings.
When Xiao Qin was 5 years old, something happened that changed his fate. It was a very ordinary day, and he went to kindergarten as usual, studying in kindergarten and playing with children. Gymnastics coach Zhu Wenyuan walked into Xiao Qin's kindergarten, and he was selecting good seedlings for practicing gymnastics. After a closer look and a simple test, the coach noticed at a glance that Xiao Qin, who had performed well in the crowd, had performed well.
Zhu Wenyuan came to Xiao Qin's home, explained Xiao Qin's advantages in practicing gymnastics to his parents with great affection and reason, and finally successfully took Xiao Qin away and let him join the gymnastics team for practice. At the age of 10, Xiao Qin was selected for the Eight-One Gymnastics Team of the Chinese People's Liberation Army, and at the age of 14 he entered the National Gymnastics Team.
During his gymnastics career, Shochin won dozens of titles, including the men's Pommel Horse finals. Kurama is one of the men's gymnastics disciplines that originated in Europe. The kurama event includes complex and difficult to complete, and many gymnasts dare not easily challenge the kurama project.
Some people are born with unique talents, but in the end, if they want good results, they cannot be proud and complacent with their talents, but also add 100% effort and sweat. In 2001, at the 35th World Gymnastics Championships in the men's pommel horse competition, the 16-year-old Xiao Qin won the crown with 9.812 points, and has since become famous in the gymnastics world.
Even Ma Yanhong, China's first gymnastics world champion, praised his performance: "Xiao Qin's crossed legs are very flowing, and Thomas's finish quality is unique in the world." At the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games, Xiao Qin won the kurama championship for the glory of the country. At that time, in the eyes of his parents, he was proud. In the eyes of the people, he was a hero who fought for the country. In the eyes of his teammates, he is the spokesperson for hard work and talent.
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After winning the Olympic championship, Xiao Qin's whole body shone with light. Some people come to the light, and Wang Yuan is one of them. I thought that the moment I met love was the beginning of Xiao Qin's later misfortune. The most funny thing is that Wang Ti was already married when he met Xiao Qin. The two met at a friend's wedding, and Wang Ti, who returned from studying abroad, attracted Xiao Qin with his good conversation and elegant demeanor.
Later, Wang Ti divorced and was with Xiao Qin, through whom he met many sports celebrities, including Zhu Shuangshuang, an accomplice in the fraud case. Because she usually spends a lot of money and has no source of income after the divorce, she thought of using Xiao Qin's connections to cheat some money to spend.
It can be said that Xiao Qin passively became the middleman of his girlfriend's fraud. Wang Ti fabricated the lie that his parents had connections, claiming that they could buy a house below the market price, in order to swindle a lot of money from friends in the sports world.
Zhu Shuangshuang also gave Wang Ti the money to buy a house at the beginning, and even she dreamed of the day when the house arrived. But in the next few conversations, Zhu Shuangshuang realized that things were a bit strange and realized that Wang Ti was defrauding her. However, Zhu Shuangshuang did not expose or report to the police, but chose to be with Wang Ti for the sake of profit, and he was responsible for finding the target.
The two people defrauded the East Window incident, and the amount involved was as high as RMB 58 million. And Xiao Qin has also changed from a hero in the mouth of the people to a liar and scum who assisted his girlfriend in fraud. Blinded by love, Xiao Qin, although seemingly innocently implicated. But in any case, the girlfriend was chosen by himself, and it can be said that he buried his career with his own hands.
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If a person wants to deceive you, he must be fully prepared for what he thinks he is. But where in the world is there a perfect lie? If you tell a lie, you have to fill it with countless lies. Sometimes being a little more cautious is not only for yourself from harm, but also a way to protect those who are close to you.
In Xiao Qin's life experience, we can learn from his spirit of not accepting defeat, and we can pay tribute to the glory he has won for the country. But also take him as an example, cautiously give yourself trust in interpersonal communication, and cannot be unconditional and bottomless.