4-year-old Mumu is the only daughter in the family, usually her grandparents dote on her, and she is a little princess at home, but Mumu's parents are very busy with work, often travel, and often quarrel because of Xiaomu's education.
The mother hopes that the child will go to more tutoring classes and hopes that the child's grades will be at the top, while the father feels that Xiaohua's learning tasks are too heavy and hopes not to put too much pressure on the child, so the parents often quarrel.
So, can parental quarrels adversely affect children? With the development of society and the progress of the times, various diseases have hit us, and the child's immune system is not yet perfect, which is easy to cause various diseases, and tics is one of them.
Family factors are a big influence on tics, so what kind of family environment is easy to induce children's tics? #抽动症 #
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(1) Children have a stressful life
Chinese parents hope that their children will become dragons and daughters become phoenixes, and Chinese children will bear far more mental pressure than other countries from an early age.
Many parents like to pin their wishes on their children, often giving their children a lot of pressure, but ignoring the child's ability to bear, often resulting in the child's psychological overwhelm, which is easy to induce mental diseases such as tics.
The correct thing for parents is not to put too much pressure on the child and give him a certain amount of freedom; Don't worry too much about his test scores and rankings, although parents are worried, don't show this worry; Do not give him more than usual care, so as not to invisibly increase the pressure on the child;
(2) Parents spoil their children excessively
It used to be advocated that a couple have only one child. Now many families have only one child, as an only child, naturally set thousands of pampering in one, many parents intentionally or unintentionally pamper, accommodate, dote on their children, regard the child as a pearl in the palm of their hand, spoil the "little emperor" in the family, what the child wants, give it, obedient.
In fact, this is not conducive to the growth of children. In addition to physical growth, children's psychology is constantly changing on the road of growth. Parents spoil their children too much, resulting in serious psychological distortion of children, some interpersonal relationships in society will not be handled, it is easy for children to develop proud, willful, selfish, vanity, withdrawn and other personalities, and even produce antisocial bad behavior, bringing misfortune to the family.
In fact, the relationship between parents and children is based on love, and if there is no true love between parents and children, a harmonious and harmonious relationship cannot be established. The child's psychological immaturity and poor psychological endurance lead to psychological collapse, which can lead to the child's tics.
(3) Parents' relationship is broken
When couples quarrel and vent their children after quarrels and disputes, long-term anxiety, frightened, poor family environment, unpleasant family life and other factors may induce tics. The child's condition will be significantly aggravated or repeated, and even one of the main factors is that the treatment effect is not good and the condition is not easy to be effectively controlled.
And Mumu is a typical example, because her parents quarreled, causing her to suffer from tics, long-term shrugging, shaking her head and other symptoms made Mumu more and more afraid of other people's eyes, afraid to go to school, resulting in a plummeting in grades.
Parents should know that tic disorder is often accompanied by inattention, hyperactivity, obsessive-compulsive disorder, aggressive behavior, self-injurious behavior, learning difficulties and emotional changes, which aggravates children's psychological problems and hinders their ability to adapt to society. If you receive active and reasonable treatment in the early stage of the disease, it will not affect the child's normal life, study and work.