As the saying goes, every family has a difficult scripture. Other people's family affairs, others are not good to comment on. However, someone's son fell ill, but the father did not let his son go to the hospital for treatment and died. Such strange things, commentary, cannot be excessive. Children are not only parents, but also national, national and social. "Everyone has a share of what everyone has to say in the world's major events."
Ancestors do not say anything; Nothing was done; Forgive somebody's past misdeeds. However, if the parties concerned, as well as many people, have not formed a correct understanding from the success, success, and past, and the lessons of the past have not become the future, then it cannot be considered redundant. Otherwise, "the Qin people do not have time to mourn themselves, and the descendants mourn; When posterity mourns and does not learn from it, it also makes posterity mourn for posterity. ”
Recently, there is one thing on the hot search that makes people feel uneasy. There is a well-known pioneer writer named Ma Yuan, and his son Mag unfortunately suffers from congenital heart disease and Marfan syndrome. Ma Yuan, a father, was determined not to allow his son to undergo any form of examination and treatment, believing that the heart could not be moved, as long as he lived a natural life. The rest of the family was always speechless.
As a result, Mag passed away on Children's Day 2022, when Mag was in sixth grade. It cannot be said that Ma Yuan does not love his son, Ma Yuan wrote on the Internet post, "Mag is our son, and his sudden departure has brought us boundless pain." "Mag, you are in heaven, we are on earth, we will always be with each other, never separated."
In this regard, I agree with the views of many netizens, "His son is so pitiful, maybe people want to live, but his father personally destroyed his hope of living!" ”
It is an indisputable fact that the Chinese nation began with Shennong tasting hundred herbs and the West from Hippocrates, and for thousands of years, medicine has brought countless well-beings to mankind. Although medicine is not omnipotent and has no end to development, it has effectively treated countless diseases for countless people from ancient times to the present, and has continued the life course of countless people. If you suffer from a disease that is difficult to heal on your own, it is a normal path to seek medical treatment.
Ma Yuan is not a doctor, not a medical expert, and does not know what congenital heart disease and Marfan syndrome are and whether they can be treated. Then, going to the hospital for treatment is a human condition, and it is the duty of the father. But Ma Yuan was stubborn and stubborn, and he did not take his son to the hospital, nor did he let his family and relatives take his child to the hospital. In this way, let the child die prematurely.
On March 26, the official account of Zhejiang Daily showed that Wang Lihong, director of the Department of Cardiology of Zhejiang Provincial People's Hospital, believed that Ma Yuan's son's heart disease could be treated with minimally invasive surgery and could be discharged in 3 days. Zhang Xiaodong, chief physician of the cardiovascular surgery, also said that the congenital heart disease and Marfan syndrome suffered by Mag are not diseases that cannot be cured or improved; The use of catheter intervention, minimally invasive surgery and other methods are safe, effective, less traumatic and fast recovery.
It can be said that if Ma Yuan does not love his son, then his practice is a criminal act that causes the death of the child; If Ma Yuan loves his son, it is a pathetic act of ignorance, and even a dereliction of duty in guardianship that should be held accountable.
Raising children and taking good care of children is not only the biological love of the parent-child relationship between parents by blood, but also the ethical love that obeys the moral laws of society, and it is also the guardianship responsibility of parents entrusted by the law.
Article 16 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of Minors stipulates that parents or other guardians of adults shall perform guardianship duties and "provide minors with protection of life, health and safety"; "Pay attention to the physical, psychological and emotional needs of minors".
Ma Yuan obviously did not perform his duties as a guardian under state law. Some lawyers believe that judging from Ma Yuan's behavior, the state's obligations and responsibilities to guardians need to be further regulated and improved.
Some netizens believe that the matter has passed, and everyone should no longer rub salt on the wound. I think that if Ma Yuan has realized his mistake, if everyone can learn from it, if such a foolish tragedy will not happen again, then the discussion of this matter can be concluded. Please note that some netizens asked: Can doctors cure 100%? What if it can't be cured and the money is empty? What if you have money to treat, but what if you don't? These questions, where scientific understanding is not in place and ethical thinking is wrong, are the necessity of discussing this matter.
Dr. Zhang Xiaodong called on the general public to respect life, face diseases rationally, and trust scientific treatment. "Life is the most precious asset, and everyone has the right to health and happiness. When we or our loved ones encounter a disease, we should seek professional medical help in time, rather than blindly believing in some ideas or methods that have no scientific basis. We should believe that modern medicine can bring us hope and change. ”
Dr. Zhang's appeal expresses my heart's voice. I hope that those netizens who ask questions can also hear it.
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