Zhang Heng went crazy, Zheng Shuang watched the play quietly, this turned out to be the scene of the man's cheating apology?

1, Zheng Shuang & Zhang Heng, more than endlessly

Shuangzi is gone, but her legend is always indispensable in the internal entertainment gossip circle.

No, the child abuse incident at the beginning of the year has not been solved, and it has not yet been successful, and a new video has unknowingly flowed into the Internet and quickly spread. The stunned protagonist this time is not Shuangzi herself, but her ex-husband Zhang Heng.

I saw Zhang Heng in the video, constantly rolling on the ground, pulling the T-shirt on his body one by one. Shrink into a ball for a while, pull the T-shirt below your knees and wrap yourself tightly; After a while, kneeling in front of the camera, pulling the neckline into a "low-cut suit", accompanied by the action of lifting the clothes and exposing the upper body...

The overall painting style is more exaggerated than the part when Keyun went crazy, and it is more gaffe than the child's splashing and rolling, no wonder some netizens commented: I feel that he will be deformed in the next second. My focus is: How can you have such a good quality T-shirt?

Of course, some people noticed that Zheng Shuang "did not show up, only made a sound". With the picture once out of control, Shuangzi asked calmly, with a rare clear speech, outside the painting: "You are with me, isn't it because I am Zheng Shuang?" Zhang Heng returned with a hysterical affectionate confession: "I don't, can you shut up?" I don't, don't say that about me, I like you ah, I want to be with you! ”

Zheng Shuang seamlessly answered: "There are more people who like me, but I only see the three words 'do not cherish' from you." ”

Is this mouthpiece, this reaction speed, this emotional control ability, or the Zheng Shuang who can't blow his beard and stare at every turn, roll his eyes and shake his face, and act and talk about lines in my impression?

Anyway, this video of unknown origin, from the painting to the sound, is full of weirdness and subverts cognition: the man who has always claimed to be innocent staged a human strange behavior award, and the woman who is known as crazy presents a rare normality. What happened?

It is said that the thing is like this: the man cheated and was caught by the woman on the spot, and Mr. Zhang Heng, who was sprinkling and rolling, was apologizing...

Looking at it this way, the video intuitively feels that the background is in favor of Zheng Shuang's side, so this may be a counterattack war in public opinion since Zhang Heng accused Zheng Shuang of child abuse last time? Is it about to fight for the custody of the child again?

However, what is certain is that this pair is on the bar, and it seems that each party has shown an attitude of not entangled to death, and "one is different, two wide, each is well" is almost non-existent in their relationship.

So the question is, why are the two so unwilling to let each other go?

2. Zhang Heng's hatred

In fact, I think that the person who first planted hatred in his heart should be Zhang Heng.

At the beginning of the fight, Zheng Shuang was the dominant party with more fame, money and social status, and he, although he was also called a young talent at that time, was far inferior to the woman, and compared with Shuangzi's ex-boyfriends, at least in terms of social resources and material wealth.

Faced with this inequality, at first he may indeed have the idea of something, map resources, face and vanity... Therefore, the early performance will be particularly obedient and obedient. (If it weren't for obedience, Zheng Shuang wouldn't have taken him to do all kinds of things.) ）

But the problem is that the more he gets it on the surface, the more serious the imbalance in his heart.

"I'm a man, I'm crushed by a woman?"

Having a celebrity girlfriend is a face, but the dignity and sense of value of "grandfathers" are increasingly damaged with the continuous giving. Being given all the time means being owed, being called so-and-so boyfriend all the time means that you can't do it yet, and being obedient all the time means that self-assertion is difficult to stretch.

So in order to defend against these bad feelings, he tried hard to let himself get the upper hand in the relationship, the way he used certainly included self-endeavor, but when a tree grows straight into the sky, it is too slow, where can ordinary people catch up with the fame and fortune obtained by luck like Zheng Shuang in just one or two years? So he will naturally turn to some ways to get short-term pleasure, such as cheating and breaking black materials.

I am very depressed and unconfident with you, then I will look for confidence in other women; I can't have your light in a short time, so I'll use black material to block your light.

Moreover, when hormones and star filters are smoothed out by time and trivial matters, the frustration of giving in the name of love and self-endeavor will also become a debt on the woman's head, and the obedience in the early stage will be transformed into a flash flood-like rebellion.

After all, the emotional cost pays so much, the things you get in reality are limited, love will deteriorate, and the star halo has not rubbed much, but don't you want to hold back more and more?

The hatred bred by suppression, the grievances bred by compromise, and the gap before and after getting along are all externalized into endless power struggles.

3. The balancing method of the "little husband"

Zhang Heng is not an isolated case, you can see, the more this superficial "little husband" type, the easier it is to have trouble:

article, once loudly showed love "the proudest thing in life is that my woman is Ma Yili", old classmate Bai Baihe ridiculed him at home is "low breath", seeing the little man on the rise do with relish, but that head silently cheated during his wife's second pregnancy.

Liu Kaiwei, when he was good with the traffic diva, he also played a couple in the play and fell in love at public expense, but not long after marriage, he publicly stated in an interview that his wife's play was not art, and his face was full of disdain and contempt, and then it was the unexplained "luminous reading script" incident.

Wang Yuelun, the honest husband picked by the shrewd Li Xiang in the sea of people, originally thought that he could fight for a good life to be a happy waste for a lifetime, but later he was photographed more than once of KTV night party beauties and drunken gaffes, and it seemed that he had infinite bitterness to vent in his heart.

Wang Xiaofei, as we all know, his ex-wife is also a strong female star, and there are indeed many differences between the two, Xiaowang always can't stand the separation, indifference and disgust in marriage, so he gradually increases the frequency of seeking solace in alcohol and young women.

Yu Xiaoguang, the little husband Qiu Cera-Xuan found in China, once named "affectionate Yu Xiaoguang" in Han Ji because he was too sweet with his wife, but the role model's hat was not yet worn, and the back foot was photographed "beautiful woman sitting on the thigh".

Similarly, there is a Zhang Danfeng, the big beauty Hong Xin went around to find the second half of her life, originally thought that this time she finally found a good person, who had wanted to kill an arrogant little assistant halfway. But if I want to say, if the man does not release any signals, can she swagger between husband and wife for so many years and not quit?

The common point of the above examples: in career and life, the man's dependence on the woman is even greater, and the reality level is inseparable, but the heart is awkward, feels pressed, always wants to seek "revenge" and balance in other aspects, and the usual method is similar to Zhang Heng - cheating, saying bad things about his wife, plus a "borrowing alcohol to eliminate worry". Judging from Zhang Heng's state, it seems that there is a suspicion of snorting, if it is, it can be regarded as another kind of "borrowing alcohol to eliminate worry".

On the whole, it is not necessarily how strong women are, the fundamental problem is that they have a hurdle in their hearts, stubbornly feeling that they are "fierce tigers falling into Pingyang and being bullied by women" and belonging to the oppressed party, plus some specific differences in getting along amplify this frustration, so they always have to do something to stretch their hearts a little.

"Then suffer so much, or leave?"

But for a while and a half, I can't let go of the various practical benefits brought by combining with my wife (such as going on variety shows together, relying on my beloved wife to set up work), and finally I can only let resentment and dissatisfaction flow from the minutiae of life. The Hong Kong cooking incident that made a lot of noise some time ago is the ultimate enhanced version of such cases.

Zheng Heng is still a well-educated decent and civilized person, but judging from his previous vigor of not making Zheng Shuang stink, it is difficult to say that he did not have the urge to smash Zheng Shuang's corpse into ten thousand pieces.

4. Letting each other go is the best policy

Cut back to the video mentioned at the beginning, Zhang Heng rolled around, tore his clothes, and constantly shut up Zheng Shuang, who came to "judge", like a monster who appeared in its original form and was trying to get into the hole and was anxious because there was nowhere to hide.

Being witnessed by this already high-flying "imaginary enemy" of his embarrassment and moral deficiencies, he must have felt a lot of shame, in order to escape the shame, so he will retreat to the state of a child, sputtering and hysterical, hoping to cry for forgiveness, so that the other party can stop accusing and humiliating him.

This is a major feature of such "little husbands", even "scum" cannot be frank and enjoy it. Imagine, in other words, Huang Zongze, who has been photographed cheating more than once, would be so scratching his ears and cheeks, kneeling on the ground and begging for mercy, like a little baby who has made a mistake? The more people who feel bad about themselves, the more likely they are to burst with shame and find it difficult to deal with themselves in that moment.

It's just that when you say "I'm wrong", the hatred in your heart will only deepen - "This wave makes you scream, next time look at how I can engage you." ”

In the video, he also said this sentence: This is not fair, I can't bear such pain.

What is unfair? What kind of pain can't bear?

The details of the relationship are unknown to outsiders. The following is just my conjecture:

"The world is not fair, I 'endure humiliation and burden', obviously it is already very bitter, why is it me who is punished here? Did I pick your fault? (So, pick next time.) ）

I'm under a lot of pressure to prove myself to you, to the world, I just want to stand up like a man and impress you with the world, why is it so difficult? I'm in so much pain! (I'm in pain, don't be okay with you, it's a big deal to destroy together~)"

But now that it has been "destroyed", the two people have already rolled off the cliff in the fight, can they not be haunted in each other's lives?

It's only in his thirties, life is still long, let each other go, give yourself a chance to be reborn, give your children a childhood that is not too dark, isn't it good?

Author: Miss Bovary

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