Shangguan in the variety show "Cosmic Song Center" is loved
It's amazing!
First of all, let's pull back the memory back to the beginning of the year, when the second season of "Youth With You" was popular. The main concept of "X" and "not defined" is that girls can be sweet, handsome, and strongly wild. At that time, Shangguan Li, who had short hair and a plump body, could be said to subvert the existence of the previous "established image of the Korean girl group" and perfectly interpret the "X".
However, with her debut on stage, the discussion about her has never stopped, and this time Shangguan Li on the stage of "Cosmic Song Center" responded to all diss.
"How can girls do this", "What dance are you so fat", "Girls should have long hair", "Big Mom", "Oh my God don't practice, you have to look at your face when you practice again"... This sentence was hit on the screen by the keyboard man, and was placed at the beginning of his original song by Shangguan With a "don't matter" attitude.
We Ma Baoer (Shangguan like real names) are really not vegetarians. She took off her coat, threw off her long wig, faced the audience with a white and blonde head, and fought back against gossip with her singing. The song is absolute, the people are even more absolute.
Snooping boring boring
Love hate please simply hide the stupid pseudo
Those who want to bar do not accompany everything bites to pieces
But please turn left and back, be polite and queue up (next)
Excerpts from the lyrics of Shangguan's favorite "Learning the Tongue"
Image source: Weibo @ Universe Song Center
Shangguan likes to use his real self to teach all girls a lesson on self-confidence: everyone is a unique individual, we accept diversity and should also remain "unique", being your own girl is the most beautiful!
Not only Shangguan loves, many girls will encounter more or less "being ridiculed" in the process of growing up, and Shangguan's favorite "absolute" is not only because she has said her attitude, but also because she uses this song to make people's eyes focus on "female respect".
Appearance anxiety
Hypocrisy encourages the pursuit of one
Perfect same, then who are you
Whether she is white or black, there is no standard Rui ."
- "Learning the Tongue"
Looking at Weibo, the topic of female celebrities on the hot search list is always "comic legs", "A4 waist", "butterfly back", "right angle shoulders"... and other praises are occupied. In the era of "appearance is justice", there are still too many women who are bound by "standard aesthetics" and fall into deep anxiety.
Even the seemingly perfect members of the girl group on the screen will pursue the aesthetic "fixed standard" of the Korean girl group.
The first "Magic Mirror" of Zhao Wei's "Hear Her Say" reveals this topic.
In the play, actor Qi Xi plays a girl with an anxious appearance. In front of the mirror, she looked at herself and used her self-monologue to say her extremely harsh requirements for appearance, concluding: I am not good-looking.
Because of this, she looks in the mirror every day to "decorate" herself for two hours and thirty-seven minutes, just to make her appearance more refined.
The reason for her extreme dissatisfaction with her appearance is school violence.
In her second year of junior high school, she was ridiculed by her classmates for elephant legs, which made her feel ashamed of her appearance and figure. Now she has been reborn at the class reunion, and everyone's praise and jealousy have given her a taste of sweetness. But when she got home, she found that she didn't know when she had dropped a double eyelid sticker and the wig had moved back two centimeters... It reminded her of the whispers of those around her when she returned home, once again plunging into a deep panic.
The pathological pursuit of appearance is a manifestation of contemporary women's facial anxiety.
Not being beautiful has become the original sin. The pathology of social aesthetics and consumerism leads us to the determination that we must "become beautiful".
So women began to refuse to face their appearance openly. Pointed chin, white skin, big eyes... Rather than their real and original camera selves, they are more willing to live in the "illusion" of the beauty camera. Even "excellent retouching technology" has become a kind of praise, after the automatic beauty, do not forget to push and pull again, because such "natural beauty" is what they are pursuing.
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Under such an aesthetic impression, more girls are not satisfied with the "illusion" of the picture, and the girls who are deeply anxious about their appearance also choose plastic surgery like the girls in the "Magic Mirror" (the girls in the "Magic Mirror" were dissuaded by the doctors), using a knife and a knife, a needle and a needle to support the beauty of the bottom.
Today open the corner of the eye tomorrow will have to have a higher nose match, tomorrow the popular European and American wind and to inject lip enlargement, always dissatisfied with themselves, always be dragged by the public "aesthetic theory", this kind of "addiction" affected by appearance anxiety in psychology is called: body image disorder, alias description - hallucination - phantom ugliness.
Phantom ugliness is not only reflected in appearance, but also in stature is also one of the criteria for consideration. Seeing that everyone is wearing small size BM style clothes, I also want to stuff myself into the "popular circle", diet pills, dieting, vomiting. There are countless such examples.
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More and more "exquisite" girls, more and more concerned about the eyes of others, gradually lose the judgment of beauty, but also promote the "appearance is justice" discourse.
Are they tired? They are really tired of living.
Everyone has a heart for beauty, and we all have the right to pursue beauty. But we must know what suits us, to maintain good limits, and everything must be premised on not hurting ourselves.
As Qi Xi said in the Easter egg in the back:
If you are deeply anxious about your appearance, you may wish to start again from a different angle like the heroine in "The Magic Mirror", perhaps you will find that the "imperfection" in your eyes will no longer become your problem.
Discussion and strife
Follow the trend of the mouth to play with the question
Want to dominate, it doesn't matter who you are."
The previous "Magic Mirror" also triggered the second topic of "Learning Tongue" - the real "Learning Tongue": the Internet noise intended to satirize the wanton comments of the trend, who refuse to be responsible for the character events that they speculate with prejudice and insult the unclear characters, like a bird that learns the tongue.
Just like the barrage in "The Magic Mirror", how ironic it is to shine art into reality!
In addition to appearance, there are too many women to face at the moment, and any one thing can push them to the commanding heights of public opinion.
In recent days, the most touching thing for the people of the whole country is the epidemic situation in Chengdu, and CCTV News has disclosed 3 confirmed cases, including the granddaughter of the first two confirmed cases, 20-year-old Zhao. However, when the Chengdu girl disclosed her behavior trajectory in 14 days, the whole network was filled with insults, only because she went to multiple bars in two nights.
Without evidence, it is implied that the girl is doing the periphery.
Saying that she had not been taken away from several bars, he teased her for being ugly.
All kinds of rumors also came out, using other people's photos to impersonate girls, P into paragraphs.......
Image source: Weibo @ Sichuan Observation
Wake up, it's going to be 2021, and girls are not allowed to jump, who gives you the logic?
Because of the inability to be overwhelmed by the Internet violence, the Chengdu girl emptied Weibo, and left a sentence "for the first time to know the power of the Internet violence", and issued an apology letter, an innocent patient, after being violently attacked by the Internet, also came forward to apologize.
How unbearable is this "moral theory" imposed on women, the world's malice toward women, the moral judgment is never absent.
Cui Shirley advocated topics such as no bra, so that she was named "mentally ill" and ridiculed by the whole network.
Guan Xiaotong wore a fashionable slip dress on his birthday, and was directly called by netizens to collapse by the national girlfriend.
Yu Shuxin wore Natasha Zinko's costume at the stage performance, and was pointed at the nose and said, "It's too much like erotic underwear"...
JK Girls posing at Comic Con was ridiculed.
Image source: Weibo@Vista see the world
However, these actions and dresses of theirs do not cross the boundaries of morality, they are all reasonable existence, so why should we attack a woman and demand her code with your moral code?
Whether it is a man or a woman, we all have the right to freely dispose of our bodies, what clothes to wear, where to play, who to meet... It's all up to you.
Just as Tan Weiwei's new song released today is "angry" about the "destruction" of women's bodies and lives by some people, and the "learning tongue" on the Internet and appearance brings women a psychological shadow that cannot be forgotten for a long time.
Girls, please release kindness! There is no need to "learn the tongue" to imitate others, you are the whole of yourself, and the self is the truth that defines beauty.
The "keyboard warriors" in front of the screen, please release your goodwill! Before you "learn the tongue", think about how you feel about this saying to you.
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