Thirty years ago, Dong Lifan could faintly see the shadow of the current "fierceness" on the ground, and his personality was also greatly grinning, and his figure was even a little fat.
She met her first love in her early twenties, who was cheerful, clean-looking, obedient and considerate to her.
She was young at the time and thought it was love.
One day, her lover said that the capital chain of the company she opened was broken.
She didn't think about the back road, she didn't think about stopping losses, and she had a mind to make up fifty thousand yuan — fifty thousand yuan in 1985. It was all the hard-earned money she could scrape, all her family property, and she gave it to her lover to go with him.
She was waiting at home, waiting for a good news. I want to wait for his company to return to normal, I want to wait for his urgent needs to be solved...
In the end, she didn't wait for anything, because the so-called "lover" had already run away with the fifty thousand dollars she had given her.
She cried and cried at home and laughed out loud: Even if you cheat money, why don't you still "curse your heart".
The so-called once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the well rope. Thirty-six years had passed, and she was still afraid of the rope, and she did not dare to go near it, nor to get involved in a new relationship.
Today, let's get close to her and talk about Dong Lifan, who has only talked about love once in his life.
01
Dong Lifan was born in Shenyang, Liaoning In 1964.
There were four people in the family, Dad, Mom, Brother, and her. This small family is as ordinary as thousands of small families, and it is also like the secular small family - patriarchy.
The elder brother is like the little emperor of this family, he can study, he can learn the accordion, he can combine the favor of his parents and the hope of the whole family. Everyone wants him to be good, and they want him to be talented.
Dong Lifan was like the maid of the family, and her family ignored her and even forced her to go out to work at a young age.
After graduating from junior high school, Dong Lifan did not dare to stay at home, she was afraid of her father, afraid that he would say that she "ate idle meals.".
Therefore, when other children were spoiled in the arms of their parents, Dong Lifan ran to the factory where his father was the leader and went to work as a bricklayer.
At first, Dong Lifan only wanted to work well and earn some living expenses, and he once thought that his father would bring the "squeezing" of her at home to the factory.
Unusually harsh on her, he often criticizes her and educates her. Even when his daughter was injured at work, her father did not feel any pain, but reprimanded her for working too slowly and refusing to suffer.
The absence of fatherly love has tempered Dong Lifan's will to be different from ordinary people.
For the indifference of her family, she broke her teeth and swallowed it in her stomach; for the heavy work, she did not say a word of bitterness, a word of tiredness, just buried her head in hard work, sometimes one person to top two people.
Dong Lifan's hard-working and hard-working work was affirmed by his colleagues in the factory, but as a leader, his father was afraid of being gossiped about by others, and every time he gave the "first-class honor" that his daughter received to others.
Once, twice, three times... Even the hottest blood was poured through with cold water.
Dong Lifan no longer pinned her hopes on the terrible life in front of her, she began to open her eyes and see a broader world.
By chance, Dong Lifan began to have a strong interest in vocal music.
She took the initiative to find a well-known local vocal teacher, who routinely conducted a series of examinations on her and concluded that it was inappropriate.
If you change a spoiled girl, you will have been scared away a long time ago, but who is Dong Lifan, she is a strange woman who has lived under injustice and oppression since she was a child, she has a strong and intimidating "strong heart", nothing can make her flinch.
Teachers don't teach, do they? It didn't matter, she practiced on her own. Work during the day and sing at night.
Teachers don't take it, right? It doesn't matter, she "three gu maolu", one day can impress the teacher.
The teacher quickly disarmed and promised to teach the stubborn girl to sing.
In this way, Dong Lifan began to live a life of chasing her dreams, and while working in the factory, she went to the teacher's home to learn vocal music.
The days were hard, but they were also fulfilling.
Dong Lifan has put herself "low" enough, she is sensible enough, enough patience, but there is always someone to bend her last straw, and there is always someone to set up one level after another for her on the flat road. This man is still her father.
Dong Lifan is a good young man who is patriotic and self-motivated.
She worked diligently and sincerely, was honest and down-to-earth, and had long satisfies the requirements for joining the party. But it was the father again, the father who was always afraid of gossip, year after year, again and again, taking away her hope.
This time, Dong Lifan was no longer silent. She officially broke with her father and went to the rolling mill.
After the job transfer, she still did not give up her dream. In such a good year, bravely pursue the life you want.
Colleagues around her are busy falling in love, only she, in the factory, outside the factory, actively participate in the activities of the publicity team and the performance team.
02
In just a few years, Dong Lifan's dream territory has expanded to Shenyang power plants, rolling mills, amateur propaganda teams, Shenyang Song and Dance Troupe, Liaoning Opera House and other art work organizations.
In these places, she met more artists, saw more ways of performing art, and began to dream of becoming a ballet dancer.
As we all know, Dong Lifan's fierce face and strong figure, such a prominent appearance gives her "recognition" at the same time, but also limits her development in the ballet career.
What is not obtained is always in turmoil.
She couldn't give up, so she decided to go to the Beijing Film Academy to learn another kind of acting, and her fate also ushered in a turnaround because of this persistence.
In 1990, Dong Lifan, who was bumping into walls everywhere, finally met the noble person in her life, Zhao Benshan.
At that time, Zhao Benshan went to major acting colleges to recruit actors, and a large circle of boats and cars came down, and was impressed by a bold fat girl.
This bold fat girl is our protagonist, Dong Lifan.
The two hit it off, there is no red tape in the secular sense, a direct invitation: come, come and shoot.
In this way, Dong Lifan participated in the first movie in his life, "Living Treasure in the World".
There is a scene in "Living Treasure in the Present World", which is filmed to give Dong Lifan a kimchi to eat.
Not knowing whether it was intentional or a mistake, the period replaced the prop kimchi on the table with chili peppers.
When filming really started, the director shouted: action! Dong Lifan picked up the chopsticks to pick up the pickles, only to find that the props had been dropped.
More than thirty years ago, films were shot on pure film, and the price of film was very expensive.
In reality, Dong Lifan does not eat peppers, she is afraid of spicy, but now it is work, it is shooting, she does not dare to NG, hard scalp clamp pepper, hard scalp into the mouth, revealing a smile that is hard to squeeze out with tears.
This "humble" professionalism touched Zhao Benshan, and he took her to shoot a movie "All the Guests Who Came".
In this movie, Dong Lifan's role is heavier, and the character's personality is more complex and changeable.
But she interpreted it well and received rave reviews for a while. Her drama has also increased.
This play brought confidence to Dong Lifan, and at the same time officially started her acting career, but history tells us that there are people who applaud, and there must also be people who sing down.
Dong Lifan recalled the events of this period in an interview program: "There were teachers who said that I was not good at playing, and to be honest, this stimulated me. Later, I secretly decided that I must act well, I must be a good actor, even if I am a supporting role. ”
03
"Even if it is a supporting role, you must also play the play well" This serious energy made the famous director Zhang Yimou also notice this quite distinctive actor.
He threw an olive branch to Dong Lifan.
A "Alive" and a "Happy Time" have established her unique position in Chinese film and television.
Subsequently, Dong Lifan starred in many film works such as "Getting Better and Better" and "Legend of the Fragrant City", and his career rose steadily.
Only lament that life is always a good thing and a lot of grinding.
Dong Lifan's career was smooth sailing, but the family of four in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, had a series of changes, first his father had cerebral thrombosis, and then his mother had rectal cancer.
Even when he was young, he did not receive much care from his parents, Dong Lifan was still a filial daughter. She resolutely gave up her career and returned to her hometown to stay with her parents until her father died.
When I returned to Beijing, the showbiz circle had changed.
In the circle of rapid renewal, no one knows who she is.
If you change someone else, you may give up.
But who is she, she is the best at patience and waiting from childhood to adulthood, and she is Dong Lifan, who never gives up in adversity.
She began to start from scratch again, starting from the nameless and nameless passerby A, and re-building her foundation step by step.
Finally, in 2007, she waited for a "Crazy Racing".
Dong Lifan plays a rich woman in the movie, and unlike the traditional rich woman, she is searching, fierce, strong, and unreasonable.
Because the "fat sister" is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, investors always like to find Dong Lifan to play a variety of rich women, over time, she is enthusiastically called "rich women professional households" by fans and friends.
Some fans joked about her stills: Rich woman, I don't want to work hard.
04
Dong Lifan was fortunate to usher in the second spring of her career, but emotionally, she stayed in the last cold winter forever.
When she first arrived in Beijing, Dong Lifan met her first love.
Her first love was gentle, gentlemanly, and obedient.
Dong Lifan grew up in a lack of care environment, and has a strong desire to treat intimate relationships differently from ordinary people.
The two soon fell in love. How does the simple Dong Lifan know that this sweet love affair is an elaborate scam, and her so-called "lover" also disappeared after cheating her of fifty thousand yuan.
The liar left, first in denial, then in doubt, and then in her realization, and put a cage over her heart, and "clicked" and dropped the lock.
It has not been opened again. In 2017, Dong Lifan was a guest of "Big King, Little King", and the host asked:
She shook her head: "No. ”
After another meeting, he added, "I may be this life." ”
Now 57-year-old Dong Lifan is still single and unmarried!
05
From the gray-headed bricklayer to the golden supporting role in the entertainment industry, Dong Lifan has not gone easy this way.
She was alone all the way, she went all the way back and forth, from Shenyang in Liaoning Province to Beijing, from obscurity to Xiao Lu Feng, from walking in the film world to falling into the dust, and then lying in the cold winter, waiting for the flowers to bloom.
Like Maugham's protagonist, Strickland, who was full of sixpence, she looked up and saw the moon.
Treat dreams as well as those around you.
Dong Lifan's parents favor sons over daughters, love their sons in every way, and treat their daughters harshly.
When the family suffered a change, she did not care about the previous suspicions, regardless of her career in the ascending period, ran away for three years without hesitation, and took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of her parents.
The first love carefully designed a scam, falsely claiming that her company was in trouble and the capital chain was broken. Dong Lifan poured out all his belongings and took out all his belongings to help him get out of trouble.
No matter when others treat me, I will repay them with a heart.
Hopefully her road a little more smooth and less bumpy in the future.