Sister Honor Cow!
Who would have thought that this year's Oscar for Best Actress was 60-year-old Michelle Yeoh?
With "Instantaneous Universe", she successfully transformed from a female to a drama actor and became the first actress in Asia to win an Oscar, which is really a win!
Take a look at my sister's acceptance speech: "I hope that all women, don't listen to anyone saying that you have long passed your golden period, don't give up." ”
Oh, let's just say that this sentence is really worth all East Asian women smoking.
I don't know if the treasures feel that women want a lifelong, long-term career, which is really too difficult compared to men.
And a very important reason for this is that for women, this society has many cognitive traps for the purpose of discipline.
Taking age anxiety as an example, a big noise in mainstream cognition is: women's golden period is short, women 30 tofu dregs, after menopause is no work value.
But the fact is: women have almost 30 years to live after menopause
304050 or even 60 years old is when women shine, and women should not be classified in this way.
This is at the cognitive level, naked brainwashing and suppression of women.
Similar examples, as well as the recent comeback of Dong Jie live broadcast, many people began to analyze the cold autumn of "Gold Fan Family".
It is said that Leng Qingqiu and Jin Yanxi's marriage is unhappy because they belong to different classes, and Leng Qingqiu loves vanity
Loving vanity is also a big yoke for women, because it advocates men to control power and money.
This label and concept of women is present in every aspect of their lives.
You must have heard similar words in your life:
Women who do not leave domestic violence men are stupid women!
Independent women should not ask for a bride price...
Isn't the birth of a girl a cesarean section and a natural birth?
There is nothing wrong with these words, but they can't withstand the scrutiny and landing, and the truth that has not been told is:
Leaving a violent man is not only a woman's personal choice, but also needs the support of the whole society.
Why not discuss whether independent men should have help with their families to buy a house?
There is never a vaginal birth, only vaginal delivery.
In short: through cognition and language, the mainstream media controls women's minds and creates brainwashing packages for women.
The sheep must come and talk today.
In female cognition
Stigma and pseudoscience
As we mentioned earlier, women's cognitive routines are to influence thoughts through language.
Stigma and pseudoscience are important means of polluting information sources.
The more common stigma is the stigmatization of Chinese characters associated with women.
Some ancient surnames, such as Ji, Yao, Jiang and other female surnames, reflect that the surname originally originated in matrilineal society, and also prove that the status of women at that time was very high.
But later, many of the Chinese characters next to the female character had the meaning of lowly.
"Say Wen Xie Zi" said: "Women, serve also." From the female, holding a broom, sprinkling sweeping also. "Slaves, slaves, servants, all ancient people." "Son-in-law, the lowly of women." ”
This is the stigmatization of female Chinese characters.
The ancient word "" originally meant light and vigorous.
The name of Princess Tao Chang of the Western Han Pavilion is Liu Yan, so prostitution must have meant to describe women beautifully.
But now, 嫖 has become the meaning of prostitute, replacing another Chinese character that originally had this meaning.
Not only stigmatizing this Chinese character, but also letting this Chinese character back the pot, since then passed down from generation to generation, behind the scenes to lower the status of women.
In addition to the stigma of Chinese characters, some mainstream perceptions are also suppressing the value of women.
For example, in genetics, it is the quality of male sperm that determines how many cell bursts are passed on to offspring, and determines the quality of the offspring's body.
In the matter of childbirth, women who have given birth are also easy to step into another brainwashing package: the motherhood trap.
In the mainstream perception, women are more suitable to be caregivers than providers and producers of living resources, in Marx's words, reproduction activities.
Under this mainstream perception, many women are brainwashed into believing that I don't trust anyone except me to bring the baby myself.
Since then, the motherhood trap has formed.
What is the motherhood trap?
It is in this mainstream perception that the result of persuading women to be obedient is that the rhythm of a woman's life as a mother is disrupted.
Academic work stops, economic income is interrupted, and after falling into the motherhood trap, you fall into another dependency trap.
But in reality, is a mother really the chosen one of full-time housewives?
Is it true that women's abilities are only worthy of being a caregiver and engaging in second-level reproduction activities?
No.
In the ancient division of labor in the family, the dominant theory was the "hunter hypothesis":
Males, because they are more likely to hunt, are the main providers of family parenting resources.
The "hunter hypothesis" holds that good hunters in men contributed to the evolution of humans.
But anthropologist Kristen Hawkes (female of gender) found different patterns of provision when she looked at Tanzania's hunter-gatherer tribe, the Hadza.
The "old grandmother hypothesis" was proposed.
That is, the theory that women and men have equal abilities in the process of parenting: not men support, women consume. Instead, adults provide for and young children consume.
Among adults who can provide support resources, it is not the father who is the core competitiveness, "the old grandmother is the core competitiveness".
In her book called The Moon Climbs Slowly, she mentions:
"Even in modern times, the grandmother of menopause is still a strong guarantee for the survival of children."
In rural Finland and Canada in the 18th and 19th centuries, menopausal women over the age of 50 had an average of 2 more grandchildren for every 10 years they lived.
In rural Gambia in the mid-20th century, children whose grandmothers were still alive were 10 percent more likely to live to age 5."
This is still the case now, behind every professional woman, there is almost an older woman who is silently giving, they may be grandmothers, grandmothers, nannies, childcare sisters-in-law...
Their childcare efforts are not secondary, nor irreplaceable.
Similarly, in the population of mammal killer whales with higher IQs, it is also adult female killer whales that provide the vast majority of breeding resources.
Even if the son has a mating partner, he will not leave the mother.
Even food provided by the mother is needed to survive.
Summary: Women are divided by the family and by the society, is it really that women are naturally weak and men are naturally strong?
Non also.
Women feel fit to be a caregiver and helper, not providing core survival resources, just being brainwashed by the environment and themselves.
Penny wise and pound foolish
Transferred women's power
The sheep continued.
Why does the mainstream recognize this brainwashing package for women?
As we mentioned earlier, because of childbirth, the course of women's lives is disrupted.
And because it takes many years to raise children, women's lives are in a stagnant state for a long time, unable to create a lifelong career, unable to realize any dreams that require long-termism.
In this case, their career, their right to speak, and the power of public expression have been quietly dissolved.
And all this is the result of controlling the minds of girls through language and mass media, suppressing women's values, and shrinking women's power.
When we watch a girl's life, it's really easy to step into this trap.
Advise girls to study liberal arts, avoid the important when choosing a career, get married early, have children, and quit the workplace.
Women increasingly value the family role of their husbands and children, while women's social roles mainly serve family roles.
Even if a woman is self-aware, her parents and relatives around her will persuade her to do a good job in a family and live an easy life based on the so-called "social experience".
This brainwashing is passed down from generation to generation, and the most terrifying thing is the women themselves, reducing their self-knowledge and expectations.
They think they have gained benefits, but in fact they lose more precious power.
Just like the phrase "ladies first" itself is a trap, on the surface it is fine, but at the end of the day, this sentence itself puts women in a vulnerable position.
And what strawberry tips, the first bite of watermelon, a lipstick for Valentine's Day, a Chanel bag for a full-time wife.
It seems that women have been given some priority, but where are these priorities, if you think about it, they are all small favors.
Once there is something that touches on the actual interest, is this priority still there?
What is real female power?
is a scarce resource. For example, land, minerals, shares, industry, means of production, core technology, positions with real power, the right to speak in public media, and the influence of the public.
That's really not the same thing, on a social level, it's women's power that is being transferred.
If you are not aware of this, it is because of the small and the big; To fail to express this is eternal silence.
As Dai Jinhua said: "The entire female group has been at a disadvantage for a long time, and has not been in the center of public view for a long time." We all carry this historical imprint, and there is no way not to internalize a part. “
This is also why Michelle Yeoh won the award at the age of 60 and encouraged all women in her acceptance speech.
After 40 years of struggle in her acting career, she has already seen through some bad rules.
She can see that too many women are stigmatized, suppressed, brainwashed, and tricked back halfway on the road to growth.
And those women who still do not admit defeat and are struggling must also be under very heavy pressure and puzzlement from the outside world.
They need feminine strength like Michelle Yeoh.
This is also the last thing sheep wants to say, women do not have much public voice, as women, we must cherish every opportunity for public expression.
Solving the difficulties faced by women requires not hypocritical protection, but real structural support.
The values that women should be proclaimed are not fertility, sexuality, motherhood, but the courage and tenacity and self-realization of fellow human beings.
The sheep also hope that the sisters can clearly understand this, insist on learning, and constantly absorb new knowledge, so that they can have a more accurate cognition, only in this way, can they strive to live their own lives.