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Chang Cheng
At the end of September 2020, the 32-episode costume detective drama "Girl Adult" ended perfectly on Tencent Video. The famous actor Chang Cheng plays the male protagonist "Liu Xuan", who carefully takes revenge and commands the king, causing people to cry. With his superb acting skills, Chang Cheng has countless fans.
Chang Cheng's wife is the beautiful actress Qu Yihong, who is 14 years younger than her husband, and the two are typical beautiful women and love uncles. It is said that the age gap is the killer of marriage, what twists and turns have they experienced from falling in love to entering marriage? Which marriage methods of Chang Cheng and Qu Yihong are worth learning from the world's couples?
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Chang Cheng was born in 1975 in Yantai, Shandong Province, his grandfather was a veteran of the Kuomintang, and later settled in Taiwan. In middle school, Chang Cheng left his parents to go to Taiwan alone to take care of his grandfather. Later, he was admitted to Taiwan's famous National Chengchi University to study economic management. After graduating from university, Chang Cheng participated in the Singapore Talent Overflow Rookie Competition and thus embarked on the road of acting.
Stills from Chang Cheng's "The Unknown Guard"
In 2002, Chang Cheng returned to Beijing from Singapore to develop. At 1.81 meters tall, he is handsome, has outstanding acting skills, is humble and low-key, and is particularly able to endure hardships. In the past few years, Chang Cheng has starred in many popular dramas such as "Double Cannon", "Chinese Brothers Company", "Three Kingdoms" and become a well-known actor. Busy with his career, he has been single in his 30s.
In 2011, Chang Cheng took over the filming of the youth inspirational film "Run Out of the Sky", and sparked with the beautiful actress Qu Yihong. She was originally known as Qu Shuangshuang, a native of Yantai, Shandong, and graduated from the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama, 14 years younger than Chang Cheng.
At that time, Qu Yihong had just graduated from college and was a newcomer to the show business circle. Although she and Chang Cheng are both contracted actors of Beijing Midsummer Starry Sky Film and Television Media Company, the two did not know each other before.
Photos of Qu Yihong's early years
Showbiz competition is fierce, and only one-third of the students who graduate from the acting department of art colleges in the country every year have dramas. Therefore, some newcomers who have just debuted are desperately trying to find ways to make friends with old actors in order to bring opportunities for themselves. So some young actresses dressed up beautifully and circled around Chang Cheng.
And Qu Yihong was quiet and introverted, and did not surround Chang Cheng like a butterfly, but attracted Chang Cheng's attention. After that, he took the initiative to approach Qu Yihong. After conversation, the two people's hometown in Yantai was very close, only 10 minutes by car. The distance between Chang Cheng and Qu Yihong suddenly narrowed.
The two were both colleagues and fellow villagers, and after returning to Beijing, they had contacts. Chang Cheng and Qu Yihong are obsessed with acting, and unlike ordinary couples, their dating place is not in a café, but in a movie theater or theater.
Chang Cheng and Qu Yihong
Every time they watched the show, the two discussed. Qu Yihong is from a science class and explains professional terms to Chang Cheng. Chang Cheng taught her acting skills, and they were like-minded and fell in love with each other.
Because Chang Cheng is 14 years older than Qu Yihong and is a well-known actor, Qu Yihong's career has just started. So some people around me talked about it, saying that Qu Yihong was attached to Chang Cheng, using love as a springboard, and there were very few components of true love. Once Qu Yihong's purpose is achieved, he will shoot and scatter with Chang Cheng. These arguments reached the ears of the two men, who did not argue and decided to fight back against suspicion and criticism with happiness.
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In 2012, Qu Yihong opened up his relationship to his parents. Qu Jia's parents felt that Chang Cheng was much older than their daughter and was somewhat reluctant. So Qu Yihong took her boyfriend to meet her parents and let them know more about Chang Cheng.
Although Chang Cheng is 39 years old, he does not have the grease of a middle-aged man. He is young in appearance, tall and tall, mature and stable in life, and the impression of his parents has improved significantly.
Qu Yihong told his parents: "I dare not find a boyfriend of the same age, many of them have no sense of responsibility, and they use girls as a test field for love, and break up after a relationship." Still mature Chang Cheng reliable, he and I fell in love is to run to get married. His parents agreed with Qu Yihong's point of view.
Because the two families are very close, the Parents of the Qu family have touched the situation of the Chang family in a few days. Changjia's parents are very kind and simple, the family style is rigorous, and they have a good reputation among relatives, friends and neighbors. Especially knowing that Chang Cheng went to Taiwan alone to take care of his grandfather when he was more than ten years old, the Parents of the Qu family felt that this was a man who was filial to the family and had a responsibility, and approved of their daughter's marriage.
In May 2013, the two were licensed to marry in Yantai. Due to the busy filming, Chang Cheng and Qu Yihong did not organize the wedding. The couple's career focus is in Beijing, and they will settle down in Beijing.
In January of the following year, Qu Yihong gave birth to a healthy baby girl in Beijing. After the baby was weaned, Chang Cheng and his wife sent their daughter back to Yantai and handed her to the parents on both sides to take care of. The daughter is not around, and Chang Cheng and his wife are back in the world of the two.
Because Qu Yihong only had half a year from marriage to motherhood, she lacked the psychological buffer of being a wife and a mother, and she was only 24 years old, she has always been in the mentality of a single girl after marriage.
Qu Yihong
Every birthday and New Year's Day, she asks her husband to send her flowers. Chang Cheng felt that sending flowers was the most boring thing, no matter how delicate the flowers were, they withered in a week at most, and there was no point at all. Qu Yihong got into an awkward relationship with her husband.
Qu Yihong often takes her husband to friends' parties, hoping that he will integrate into his circle of friends. Because they were all facing a bunch of little girls, Chang Cheng couldn't find a common topic with them and rarely spoke. For convenience, it is often high and cold, and it is not easy to approach. Qu Yihong thought that her husband had lost his face and tangled with him when he returned home.
Qu Yihong came to Beijing alone at the age of 11 to study, and was originally very capable. However, after marrying Chang Cheng, she asked her husband for care and concern like a little princess. Chang Cheng is a pure man, with only art in his eyes, and in order to coax his wife to be happy, he coaxes her hard. But often the south is the opposite, and the small romance created makes Qu Yihong add to the blockage, and the couple friction overlaps.
Marrying an immature little wife, Chang Cheng became more and more exhausted. Qu Yihong also feels that marriage is a pool of still water, lacking the vitality and vitality that makes his heart move. In the quiet night, she often asked herself: Is it a beautiful mistake to marry Chang Cheng?
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In 2015, Qu Yihong learned that many "old and young" marriages have become short-lived dynasties and have disintegrated. The harsh reality forces Qu Yihong to think about his future with her husband.
She learned from online marriage classes that the main reason for the breakdown of such marriages was the little wife. They make things up, use their young age as capital, and frantically ask for happiness from their husbands, without assuming their corresponding responsibilities and obligations. Thinking of the current situation of his marriage, Qu Yihong found that there was also such a problem with the little wife.
Stills from Chang Cheng's "Young Detective Di Renjie"
He and Chang Cheng came together obviously out of true love, why did they live a life and become a chicken feather? Painfully, Qu Yihong truly realized that the key to happiness was in her hands, and she wanted to firmly grasp this key for a lifetime, so as not to let it be lost halfway.
After her husband came home from outside, Qu Yihong said to him with tears: "I'm sorry, I almost became the shredder of our happiness." "Chang Cheng does not know, which one is the wife singing?" Qu Yihong first reviewed his shortcomings as a wife, and then said his deep feelings about marriage.
Chang Cheng was touched by his wife's sincerity: "You are young, lack of psychological preparation for being a wife and mother, and you have to have a growth process. Our emotional foundation is solid, and I believe you will become more and more mature. Qu Yihong promised: "In the future, my immature little wife will definitely grow into a wise and capable woman." ”
Chang Cheng and Qu Yihong wedding photos
It is a pity that a woman does not wear a wedding dress once in her life. On September 19, 2015, Chang Cheng pushed aside the drama and held a grand wedding with Qu Yihong at the Fisherman's Wharf in Yantai. The husband cares about himself, and Qu Yihong is determined to be an excellent wife.
The husband is redder than himself, and the drama is more than himself, after which Qu Yihong rarely takes over the drama, single-mindedly taking care of the family and creating a stable rear for her husband. Every time her husband went out, she sorted out her luggage and helped him check in for "check-in" on the mobile phone network. On the birthdays of in-laws and uncles, Father's Day, Mother's Day and other festivals, Qu Yihong will carefully prepare gifts and send them to them.
Stills from Chang Cheng's "Glory of the Tang Dynasty"
Grateful for his wife's efforts, Chang Cheng handed over all the remuneration to Qu Yihong, and asked his wife when he needed to spend money. Qu Yihong did not disappoint her husband and managed the family property in an orderly manner. Some people say that Chang Cheng is "strict with his wife", and he said with a straight face: "My wife did not spend money indiscriminately, and she worked hard to run the family for me, so I wanted to make her feel more secure." ”
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Chang Cheng has lived in Taiwan and Singapore for many years and likes to eat curry and light food. And Qu Yihong likes to eat hot pot, and the couple can't eat a piece of it. Chang Chengdu, who invited guests to eat, was mainly his wife, and he ordered a light food from the restaurant next door and accompanied them to eat hot pot.
Stills of Qu Yihong's "Micha"
Qu Yihong also put all his feelings into her husband, and Chang Cheng is a basketball fan. In the past, Qu Yihong never watched basketball games, and in order to synchronize with her husband's hobbies, she often stayed up late with him to watch the NBA. After her husband was hungry in the middle of the night, she also prepared fruit and supper. Now Qu Yihong is also familiar with NBA stars and basketball terminology, and has become half a basketball expert.
In 2017, when the two were renovating their Beijing house, Chang Cheng was filming outside, and Qu Yihong single-handedly handled the "decoration cause". Originally, the tiled flower piece in the bathroom was the head of Hollywood movie star Hepburn, but considering that her husband was a basketball fan, Qu Yihong deliberately replaced the flower piece with a huge portrait of Jordan.
Under the grinding of life, the little wife Qu Yihong grew into a wise, mature, and capable big woman, taking good care of her big husband. Under the care of his wife, Chang Cheng, who is middle-aged, has achieved reverse growth, becoming younger and more handsome, and understanding women's hearts more and more.
Stills from Chang Cheng's "Qing Yu Nian"
He hid the gifts he gave to his wife in the quilt and wrote a warm note. The couple is still as romantic as when they are in love, Qu Yihong calls her husband "boyfriend", and Chang Cheng calls his wife "girlfriend".
The daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Chang Cheng has lived in Yantai for a long time, and is cared for by parents on both sides in turn. In this way, the Chang family and the Qu family's parents had frequent contacts and became relatives. During the Spring Festival, the two big people spent the New Year together, and they were happy and harmonious. The harmony of the parents on both sides, in turn, promotes the richness of the feelings of the little couple.
A happy and harmonious marriage has nourished Chang Cheng's career. Over the years, he has starred in many popular dramas such as "Glory of the Tang Dynasty", "Qing Yu Nian", "Two Worlds Of Joy", "Taikoo God King" and so on, becoming an old drama bone that is deeply supported by the audience. Qu Yihong is family-oriented and also starred in "Get Out!" Tumor Jun", "Iron is Burning", "Micha" and other film and television dramas.
In September 2020, Chang Cheng and Qu Yihong's marriage broke through the "seven-year itch", and the two were still in love as ever. People around him asked Chang Cheng for the know-how to run a marriage, and he sincerely said: "It is not that a small wife marries a big husband, it is not that she cannot be happy. As long as the little wife adjusts her mentality and grows mature in the marriage, the marriage between the old and the young can also last forever. ”
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