When I first saw Yu Wen, a little coldness and heroism inadvertently flowed from her narrow eyes, and the next second, the sense of distance was broken by the hearty frankness of a girl from the northeast in her. ELLEStar specially invited blogger Yu Wen to talk to us about the story of "meeting a different self".
Q&A
ELLEStar: You are kind and interesting on the platform, what characteristics should ELLEStar have in your heart?
Yu Wen: Love yourself, generous and confident, unfettered, casual and natural, never live in anyone's imagination and expectations! To put it bluntly, it is to maintain my nature, just like I am from the northeast, and I am often said to play as soon as I open my mouth, then I don't care, how comfortable and how to come. To live yourself, if everything follows the prescribed path, then life is too boring.
ELLEStar: People always seem to have a filter on bloggers, and the most common comment on you is "real and natural", what do you think about staying authentic?
Yu Wen: I think the easiest thing is not to set a lot of rules for yourself. Use your first thoughts, your first intuition to feel, accept everything around you, and then make judgments (premised of course, after thinking). Don't always think about pandering to others, the real first premise is to be yourself, someone will definitely pick on your shortcomings, but over time, it will become "Gee, she's like that" (hee-hee).
ELLEStar: As a blogger, you also created a personal brand, do you like the status of "slash youth"? Why?
Yu Wen: Of course I like the state of the slash youth! To be young is to keep trying, and then break through yourself and break through your previous self. In my mother's words, even if I fail in my twenties, I have a chance to come back (I am a mom and a girl). Being able to discover a different self on the road to growth and find more sides of yourself is a super healing process. When these attempts and experiences may be successful, I will also be especially proud of myself (Beyer Niu). Are you interested in giving it a try?